I totally understand where you’re coming from. I enjoy PE and really want to adhere to the program to get the most of what I’m trying to do. At the same time, my relationship has to come first and I would never turn down sex because I wanted to PE instead. Mostly, I’d be worried that if I kept turning down sex my wife would start to think I was cheating on her. That could lead to a terrible conversation which goes something like this:
Wife: “You never want sex anymore. Am I unattractive? Are you cheating on me?”
Me: “NO! I love you and love having sex with you. It’s just that our sex is ruining my PE sessions.”
Wife: “So instead of having sex with me you’d rather grab a bottle of lotion and play with yourself?”
You can see how that conversation would spiral out of control very quickly. Long story short, keep your relationship healthy first, worry about PE later.
Starting measurements May 31,2012 BPEL:6.4" MSEG:6.25" Base Girth 6.9" My pics
Short term goal---------------------BPEL: 7" MSEG:6.25"
My thread on the downsides of big girth: Big Girth - The Downside