Stretches over jelqs for length and mind wellness

Hello everyone! I started like two months ago doing PE and still saw no gains. I’m following the newbie routine with a bit of V-stretches added but I noticed I can’t get past jelqs with ease and comfort. What I mean is that I enjoy a lot doing the stretches part but then, when it comes to the jelqs, I just get bored everytime and can’t help to just hope to get to the and as fast as possible. I can force myself to do 4x40 jelqs at maximum, but I never get will to increase. I can’t maintain the right mindset and I know that doesn’t help to get gains. So I was wondering if I could extend the stretches part, while shrinking (or keeping there) the jelqs one. I suppose it won’t be a big deal, since I’m more interested in gaining length over girth (which gains I want to postpone for now) and I read stretches are the main tool for that, while jelqs are more for EQ and girth.

I want to do this because I feel like I approach my PE session with unease, knowing it would require so much time in the bathroom. Even watching videos on youtube wouldn’t help the boredom. And for this reason, I’m afraid it would lead me to stop PEing, which I don’t want now. I think to do this change would help my will.

What do you guys think?