As a newbie here I’m going to take the risk of pissing off many of the learned and long standing members of the forum by giving away the secret to “The Key to Gains”
How have I earned the right to claim to know that secret? By making just about every freakin’ mistake possible with PE (short of surgery and steroids) over the last 14 years. I’ve paid my dues and earned my say so here’s the secret.
“PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT YOUR DICK IS TELLING YOU!” (I know about the posting guidelines Thunder but it was capitalize it or repeat it 100 times)
That’s it boys plain and simple, and trust me that’s the only simple thing about it.
Ultimately each one of us is on our own on this journey. Your age, your physical condition, the health of your blood vessels, the uniqueness of your own dick, your diet, your job, your stress level, your genetics, the other PE techniques you done in the past, they all make your situation at any given time unique. Nobody can create a PE plan that will work for everybody all the time. You can’t even create one for yourself that will work all the time.
So what to do. Here’s some hard learned advice. Try something that seems to work for lots of people, like the newbie routine. But don’t just do it blindly, pay attention to how your dick responds, pay attention to how it feels right after you’re done and then how it looks and feels the next day when you wake up. If you’re getting gains great, if it doesn’t seem to be doing much but your dick feels good and it feels like something might be happening tweak the routine a little. If it’s not working at all, don’t quit, try something different.
When you start this adventure you’re going to have to learn a lot about your dick, plain and simple. That takes time and patience but it provides you the information to move forward. Also bear in mind that what worked for you last month may stop getting you gains this month. If you’ve been paying attention to what’s been going on with your dick you may get a sense of what you need to change but that sense takes time and dedication to develop.
I know everybody says that our dicks aren’t muscle. I’m not going to argue because I really haven’t figured out exactly what the hell is going on down there and how it all works together. Some of you may get great gains just sticking with a simple routine. For some of you it may be just like in body building where you need to mix it up and hit your dick from a number of directions with some stretching, some jelqing, some pumping, some hanging. The point is nobody can tell you how to do this. They can tell you what’s worked for them. They can tell you what device or pill is a rip off. They can warn you if they’ve done something that’s caused them damage but ultimately all you can do is keep trying until you find what works for you.
In a sense we’re all pioneers because so little research has been done in the field. We don’t even really know what the long term effects may be. For me, so far so good. No matter what happens in the future I wouldn’t trade the dick I have now for the one I had before I started PE, now way, no how.
I hope that helps some of you to not get discouraged, just understand in this venture there is nothing that is “one way fits all.” No matter what anybody tries to tell you differently.
That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.
