What's wrong with me

Wow thanks for that last response that was really awesome. Another reason I feel that my penis is so inadequate is because 3 of my closest friends have 7” penises, and then they saw mine and they just said ” oh man I feel sorry for you”.

>>>Is your erect length also just 5 inches? Like, bone pressed, I mean. I bet if you measured that incorrectly, it could be closer to 6-6.5. I dunno about you, but if I realized I what I had was actually a good deal bigger, that would be an instant confidence boost.

Not bone pressed I measured from underneath the shaft, and not from the side of the penis I heard that adds an extra inch but it’s like cheating.

One of your friends wouldn’t happen to be Nigerian, would he?

Nigerian? Nope ones Indian, the other two are Italian and Bosnian.

If you were working out too much maybe you were just very tired.
If you are overstressed at school, why? Don’t put up with stress, it’ll fuck you up eventually.
At 19 everyone masterbates a lot, but it might be an idea to leave it alone prior to a date.
If you were gay you would know about it.

Big mistake! - Remember, it’s not ‘good’ to be picked to go onstage at a strip joint, its always going to end in embarassment. Let someone else make an idiot of themselves.

Nightmare - Don’t go walking onto any more stages at strip clubs

Find a girl to practice on - Stay away from strip clubs

Whether PE gives you a bigger dick or not, make friends with girls. Relax with girls. Go with the flow when one of them wants a bit of fun.

Stay away from strip clubs.

Welcome to the site Bigman. You’re right; this is a great forum. You’ll find lots of new, supportive friends here. Your penis is well within average. PE is not a ‘magic bullet’, it takes lots of time and hard work, but the results are worth the effort.

As for popping a bone in front of 80 drunken men, who would want to. Get a 10 out of 10 girl back home; you’ll have no problem with the bone!

ascyltos, welcome to the forum to you too!

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Well, just remember, it’s not how big it is, but how you :::wiggle::: it.

:::Wiggle::: ? I’ve seen that before why is it written like that

Hey Bigandsmalldick,

It is perfectly ok to be anxious and not get a boner. I remember one time when I had this girlfriend in high school but we never had sex, then we met again in college and decided to get it on. I was with other girls before, but that night I was so anxious that i just couldnt get it up. Men that sucked, i was thinking to myself, “Every time i dont need you to pop a boner, you pop and try to embarras me. But where are you when i need you the most?” I know that feeling had and it really sucks.

A 5X5 dick is not small, but it is also not big either. You should work on your self confidence more because during your first days of PE you will need it. Also, it seems to me that you are a bit insecure. The insecurity has got to go PERIOD. If you ever want to live a happy life in your 20’s the insecurity has to go! You will have to find a way to fix that. The good new is that PE works and that with patience you can achieve good results, ESPECIALLY in the errection department.

And remember this: “If you aren’t enough without it, you will never be enough with it”

John Schwab

I know I have to get over being insecure just how is the hardest part. I lack a lot of self esteem and I guess I get put down easily. Hopefully I get a big boost in confidence after seeing some gains with PEing.

Self esteem has to be earned. Contrary to the advice of many modern psychologists, self-esteem is NOT feeling good about yourself - genuine self-esteem is having the confidence to rely on your mind to think - whatever the situation. You learn this by experience - taking chances, honest effort, honest errors of judgment (never seeking to get away with contradiction, hypocrisy, lies or the unearned).

First thing you have to learn is not to place other people’s opinions of you above your own. Think for yourself.

Make the most of what you are as a person both physically and mentally.

If you can enlarge your penis through PE - then look on that as a bonus!

Throughout human history men have developed their self-confidence by physical and mental preparation for conflict, often ending with trials/tests after which they were deemed to have reached ‘manhood’. This is sadly lacking in modern society.

I see peoples’ self-confidence in all areas of their life (especially physically and mentally) improve greatly from regular martial arts training. It is the closest thing still available to fulfill the visceral need men have to feel like men.
Just a suggestion!

Hell, I admire your courage to actually go to a strip club, I wouldn’t even walk through the door :(

This is a bit long, but I feel I have needed to tell my story for a long time, it does fit in with your thread however.

I was insecure about my penis size since (as far as I can remember) second year at Secondary School (that’s age 12-13). We had to have swimming competitions every few months and seeing as I was good, I was always picked for the team. Regardless if I wanted to or not. This of course caused me a great deal of worry because we all had to wear speedo’s or other tight swim shorts. Of course, I had nothing to show back then but there’s always the early developer who seems to have a couple pairs of socks down his shorts. Terrified, I used to swim in front of the school. Everyone. This was the beginning of a long and stressful time at school.

I had a girlfriend that year, and we really liked each other. However, she was a fast developer and she actually said to me one day “do you want sex?”. Being afraid to even go swimming with male friends, let alone engage in full intercourse, I actually broke up with her, giving some lame excuse about how I didn’t think we were getting along any more. It was one of the toughest times I can remember.

The first time I remember measuring was probably about a year later, I came out as around 4.5inches EL. Can’t possible tell if it was BPEL or not, but for a strange reason I never decided to look at anyone Else’s “numbers”. Another year or so passed, and the next big thing happened. We had a school trip to an activity camp. In front of about 20 people (including a few girls) my whole bottom half of clothing was pulled away by a so called “friend”, so that everything was showing. Well, hardly anything was showing in this case, as there was very little there. This spread like wildfire and soon enough I was “Weiner Boy” and “Cocktail cock”. I can actually remember crying myself to sleep because I was so upset.

Again going forward a year, (now age 15) I had my first ejaculation. This actually helped me a lot in my small world of depression. For a few days I lifted a burden that had dragged me down for about 4 years, being in the knowledge that I could now do something like all the other boys boasted about for years previously. Eventually, team showers for rugby and football brought this new light crashing down and I was once again terrified. My friends would spend all summer holidays at the beach, sunbathing in the park or down at the river. I very rarely went and never went in the water, for fear of my penis turtling up into something resembling 3 small white eggs in a nest of public hair.

But, this next year (16 years old) was when I actually started to investigate PE. I took my first ever measurements and turned out to be 6.5 NBPEL and 4.75 EG. Some would say that’s perfectly average, some would say it’s on the larger side. Me? I thought It looked worse than ever. I would spend EVERY AFTERNOON after school, reading pages and pages of “average penis size” websites. I read the same pages every day, trying to assure myself I wasn’t too bad. Unfortunately the websites did nothing to boost my confidence and people were growing up at school fast. I did have pubic hair and underarm hair, as much as any of the other boys, but I was weedy. Very tall (6 foot 4 inches) but very weedy. Everyone seemed to be going out, having sex, blow jobs, all the new and exciting things you investigate as your hormones rage. Except for me, I just had masturbation and a handful of “it’s OK, your penis is perfectly normal!” websites.

2 years down the line (Now 18) and I’m still not out of this situation. I have improved a lot since the early days, I can walk around in underwear in front of people (when the situation arises) and I can swim all I like, but there’s ALWAYS the obsessive fact that I will be laughed at again. All I can think about is that as soon as I show my penis to a girl, she’ll literally point, laugh, go home and tell everyone she can. But on the other side of my head, I KNOW my penis is bigger than every object I’ve compared it to in my room, I KNOW girls won’t probably say a thing, and I KNOW that one day I may be able to live my life without fear. But it’s just so hard to break through the barriers, why is it me that’s had this terrible curse?

Now I know that I am extremely selfish. I know that many people would kill to have my current size of 7.5 NBPEL and 5.25 G, but the point is that although PE has shown me many ways in which I can improve my size, I can’t help thinking it will ever be big enough, and that is something I will someday have to try and overthrow. Maybe one day I will actually let a girl look at, possibly touch my penis.

Untill that day, I will be that same weedy kid standing on the starter podium at the pool, with nothing to show.
So yes I must ask the same question as you “WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?”

Going to a strip club and getting smacked by super hot babes? You’re everything I could dream to be.

Measuring from the bottom is cheating too. You should measure from the top, press the ruler in as far as it will go, and that’s your measurement. Do a couple hundred jelqs before measuring to get the number (and your confidence) up!

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Dude! You went from 4.5” to 6.5” to 7.5” and you’re still insecure about your size? On top of that, it’s NON bone pressed.. You’re probably over 8” bone pressed. Get a grip man.. You could be close to setting the world record in the most amount gained in the shortest time.

What did you do to achieve these goals and how long did it take?