What's wrong with me

There’s so many things that can cause acne. Everything from the food you eat to all the stress, anxiety, and loathing you’re doing.
Medical advice and your own research are probably going to be your best bet.

But the weed isn’t going to help man. Look, some people have no problems with it (debatable) and others have major issues with it and don’t even know it. I know there’s a lot of connoisseurs of the stuff around here, and indeed just about everywhere.

If you want to stay depressed and full of apathy then just keep token’ it up. Eventually long term use will leave you mildly paranoid
(or more than mild depending on your psychological makeup). Chronic / long term pot smoking causes chemical and physiological changes to occur in the body and you already exhibited (at least to me) that YOU CAN’T HANDLE IT.

No crime there really. But if you want to get a handle on your personal issues then yes, the first step would be to put the pipe down and then maybe you can eventually aspire to get the fuck out of moms basement before your 40th birthday or she croaks and the new tenets evict you.

To all the tokers reading this and coping an attitude, cool - party up!. I’m surrounded by apathetic pot smokers who lead pretty mundane existences and really don’t aspire to do shit with their lives. All the while implying how some unseen force is controlling their abilities to get ahead.To each their own, who am I to judge?
I just prefer to enjoy my life instead of enduring it.

I watched a Howard Stern show the other day, which featured the “Worlds Smallest Penis” contest. They were all laughing at these guys’ penises. The guys were trying to win money, so they were making a big deal out of their small units. I didn’t get it though. They were all flaccid. Some of them had the whole thing hidden under their fat pad. I’m sure that most of them would have a normal erect sizes. Why don’t people realize by now that some don’t hang?

Wow I can’t believe how big this thread got already, the support on this forum is amazing.

I’m 5’6” tall and slightly rotund. I’ve never felt really confident with women, so I learned to fake it. I’m almost 39 years old now, and I can tell you that confidence and authority are much more attractive to women than any physical attribute. Get yourself an attitude and never worry about rejection. It is a numbers game. Maybe every 5 attempts will equal 4 rejections and one “get laid.” Maybe, it will take 10 attempts. It doesn’t matter. Just don’t quit and start feeling sorry for yourself. Build yourself a wall of self confidence. It might be a fake wall, at first. It won’t be fake for long.

There is an author/speaker named Ross Jeffries you should Google.

I have had it commonly happen where I will do everything right and get a chick into basically being ready to be penetrated but I just won’t be able to get it up!

It has happened on alot more than one occasion and it does piss me off because I have failed at this final stage more than I have succeded.

The worst thing is that I never get a second chance with any of these chicks (except one, and I failed the second time also!)

I actually don’t know how I should feel as I have got the “green light” from them in them wanting me to penetrate them but I haven’t been able to deliver the goods when it counts.

My tally is at;

Chicks Fucked: 2

Couldn’t get it up: 3 (4 if you count the second failed attempt I had at one chick)

Why don’t you get some Viagra and keep it handy.

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I have had it commonly happen where I will do everything right and get a chick into basically being ready to be penetrated but I just won’t be able to get it up!

This kind of problem occurs when you are driven by the need to “perform” and “impress”. For example, if you are putting on an act just to get a girl into bed so you can tell your buddies about your “success”, or just trying to notch up another “lay”, or want to show girls how good you are in bed, then you are having sex for the wrong reasons and are putting unnecessary pressure on yourself.

You have to actually WANT to have sex with the girl for YOU - just because she is female doesn’t mean that you will be sexually attracted to her. Some guys can fake it - most guys can not.

There’s more to sexual attraction than just her body. I can assure you that, (excluding any medical condition or side effects of medication), when the mental and physical chemistry is right with a girl, you will always be able to get an erection.

I am not saying that this is necessarily your problem, but it’s something to think about.

Very true words! If you don’t have a positive mental attitude, fake it. It’s sometimes easier to ‘pretend to be someone else’. This works for all sorts of things! I used to teach shooting years ago, and when people were struggling I’d say to them: ‘OK, close your eyes and imagine you are no longer you. You are John Wayne (or the man with no name etc.). Their grouping improved invariably!

It’s only a temporary measure, but if you can let go of yourself and all your insecurities and take up the identity of someone you feel has all the qualities you don’t, you can be who you WANT to be rather than who you feel you are.
Try it. See how positive you feel about yourself. If you can convincingly act as you would like to be, that person is inside you and you can work towards letting them out; becoming what you want to be.

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Build yourself a wall of self confidence. It might be a fake wall, at first. It won’t be fake for long.

If it’s fake, it will always be fake. It’s far better to EARN genuine self confidence. You are what you are. Girls can usually spot a fake a mile off and if they don’t at first, what kind of “confidence” is it to know that you are a fraud?

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I love how this place comes to one’s aid. What a support group!!

My advice:

Keep coming to Thundersplace for great advice!! A lot of these guys know what they are talking about, whether it’s from own personal experiences or simply because they are wise and full of wisdom. :P

And no, I’m not your everyday brown-noser, the above statement is very true! Hell I may even have some good advice from time to time.

In any account, there is nothing wrong with you man. Many of us have insecurities of our size; otherwise, why would we be here? Welcome to Thunder’s and good luck with your journey to a bigger penis!!

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The problem with e-communications like this, is you can’t hear the inflection of my voice. You are misunderstanding the concept because you don’t like the word “fake.” The idea is that you will build genuine self confidence. It worked very well for me.

Hi Harmony777, it was your term “fake wall” that I did not like.

If you mean that you build confidence through experience by the reliance on one’s power to think and deal with reality (which includes interaction with people), then I agree with you.

Would you agree that the self confidence of an honest businessman, scientist or athlete for example, is not the same as the self confidence of a successful con man?

Bigmansmallpenis,

I wouldn’t really suggest putting up a ‘fake wall’ or faking anything. It’s just a matter of believeing that you ARE great and that any girl would be lucky to have you. It’s all in the way that you think. It stems from there and it will grow from there, along with your confidence.

A friend of mine( who is really good with the ladies) used to say, “No girl is ever too good for you - think it - believe it.” While most guys would be too intimidated to talk to a ‘smoking hot chick’, he’d be right in there acting as if HE was too good for her, as he BELIEVED that no girl was too good for him. It worked wonders for him.

As for your insecurity about your size, dude, you’re average. A lot of women prefer the average sized package. But, as I stated in my previous post, we’re all here for one thing, too increase the size of our members. Whether it be for confidence or whatever the case may be.

Another thing I wanted to comment on was the fact that you didn’t get an erection at the strip club ‘in front of 80 random people’. Who could? I mean sure, she must have been smoking hot, but if I were in your shoes I wouldn’t have popped one either. Now you get me alone with this stripper, that’s another story. Hope this helped some. Later.

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