Why do guys starting at 7 inches plus bother

Huh? :)

I chose the avatar after my first ‘experiment’ with Tantric practice recently. It’s actually one of the things y’all might try. I’m becoming the pied piper of Tantric practice :D . The avatar depicts the "yab-yum", a Tantric position that can be used for intercourse but serves another purpose. Check this thread out : Thanks Thunder’s - Tantric is cool!. I talk about an experience I recently had with my fiance’ (we’ve been engaged longer than many people stay married).

I have no idea how it works with a woman is isn’t prone to passion. My fiance’ and I have always had an affectionate and sexually satisfying relationship (satisfying being something of an understatement). She point-blank likes sex, will freely tell you she does, and isn’t shy about engaging in it.

As a result, the experience we had may have come easier because of the existing passion. However, from what I’ve read, it’s pretty common for folks to have similar experiences even if their relationship might have become a bit … predictable.

Good luck.

Goon… approaching things directly and head-on often causes problems. You kind of have to do things that would result in your goal- but not focus on your goal. Sort of sliding sideways towards it. Example: SAY you want her to have a G-Spot orgasm and now she has expectations- feels like a failure if it doesn’t happen on the first go, etc. OTH, just be nice, kiss her, etc. until she is super turned on (never going below the waist) and moving around naturally and then pet her about 2” in gentle circular motions and if she has a g-spot orgasm- great. If not, well she got lots of kissing, petting, and nice treatment from you for a couple hours. But no pressure on her part.

As far as the positive part tho.

Picture your spouse as an animal- not a person.

Then look at the way you are training them through your positive and negative reinforcements.

Unfortunately, many relationships are basically set up to train each other out of sex.

If you consistently give them positive sincere feedback and NEVER EVER criticize or complain, the odds of training them to act the way you want goes way up.

Or you can train them to be stubborn, bitchy, unsure, etc. (which is what most people tend to do without intending to do so by just showing their “real” emotional response of slight or strong disappointment)

a) Women can come many times from g-spot— over an hour - every few minutes. (Longest so far was 3.5 of 5 hours she was having rolling orgasms)
b) The experience is deeply spiritual for them.
c) When the sex is so good, they become almost wild and you find yourself doing things you never thought they would do.
d) They do literally say things like, “I want you to be happy! I'll do anything for you!”
e) They are in a wonderful, happy, friendly mood for days afterwards so every other interaction from dinner to garbage duties goes smoother.
f) As you fill them with pleasure, they finally really do get full and it starts to come out as “d” above in many ways. They are just so happy with you that they have to find ways to make you happy too.
g) They say things like “I fell in love with you all over again just now!”

All very true. Add in an over developed empathy as well as skills in four play and working the clit and CDS and things just get worse.

As I have posted in the past you ne3ed to be very careful with that stuff. Like Spiderman says, “With great power comes great responsibility.”

I’m sure we all have our reasons- mankind rarely embarks upon time consuming campaigns absent some personal motive- but just because some people’s reasons don’t happen to be your reasons don’t mean they’re therefore rooted in insecurity either.

Now since you’ve gone on about “stats”, I’ll do something I hardly ever do- I’ll give you mine. To date, I’ve had more three ways than you’ve had sexual partners, and I had all of them but 3, with my God given meatus.

I’m now in the 7 inch club, with no plans to stop.

Insecure? No, I think not, just very informed. I’ve penetrated hundreds of honeys with dildos, cucumbers, extensions, and finger combinations that far exceeded my own size. I liked what I saw. I liked their reactions. I want more.

With what God gave me, I’ve made ‘em squirt, blush, scream, cry, pass out, and piss the bed. Oh well says me, I want more.

That’s the human beast amigo, a living challenge to perfection. And sure, that’s also why we’re also fucked up- we're greedy.

But don’t forget, intention amigo, intention.

My intention is to have a whang, which by the sight of it alone causes wetness, vaginal salivation, and fallopian hunger.

You can kill someone with a .22, sure, but if you do it with an atom bomb, you're doing it with style.

When I can tattoo the word “HIROSHIMA” in 1” all-caps down the side of my dick, I’ll call it a day.

Amen Wanstmore!

Is that you Mr. Chamberlin?

:rolling: Funny, funny shit.

However, that stat is pretty slanted due to a promise I made myself when I broke up with my ex: “I will NEVER go out with a woman who is not bisexual again” It just solves so many of my problems.

I replied here without first noting the date of the thread. Thought this was a runaway favorite from today! Just read through it and saw that our boy was not long for Thunder’s world.

Hey, does anybody have the .pdf for Dr. Phil’s new book? I’m also interested in a bittorrent for “Barney’s Magic ABC Bus” if you’ve got a line on one.

:lightning : Just Kidding!!! :lightning :

Can I get your autograph Wilt? I can call you Wilt can’t I?

Why does a billionaire want more money?

Personally, I’m happy with my ~7” bp length. If I never gained another millimeter in length, I could care less.

Girth on the other hand… I could have 6” and still wouldn’t be happy.

I do it because I want the girl im with to think that I’m huge… average is never good anough for me. Also what I could be doing randomly for 45-60 minutes a few times a week doesn’t really compare to having a huge dick for the rest of my life. I started at 7 inches bone pressed by 5.25 girth. Now im pushing 7.75 bone pressed x 5.7 girth, and not planning on stopping any time soon.

I’ve built my body up, I would like to add an inch or two to my dick, and make it thicker. I’ve never had any complaints or piss takes about my dick, it’s just something I didn’t realise you could do, that now I want to do, that’s all. I’ve been with women who had bigger and smaller dicks and I would be a liar if I said when I was told that her last bf had a much bigger dick than mine, that it didn’t make me feel a little insecure. I feel good about making my dick bigger.

I might be a little too late to comment this now, but I feel like I have to:

Penis is a very central/ important part of being a man, so it’s natural that we pay more attention to it, compared with women and their attention to their clit (f.ex.).
So when paying more attention (can be also subconsciously) to it we tend to elaborate our thought about it; so this is how we get motivations for it; looks, size, ways of using it in bet and so on. It’s important to mention that it’s not just the media (f.ex. Porn) that strengthen the penis size motivation, in lot of ancient cultures the penis was/is an important part of ceremonies. And the symbol is used in different kind of pictures, sculptures etc.

So it’s quite natural that on a psychological level the penis has a real connection to ones own self esteem. So those of you guys that believes that when getting your penis bigger well boost your self esteem it’s just normal, and surely it can. All ways after a fulfillment of an motivation (getting bigger penis) one will feel a lot of joy, which can rise our self esteem (most probably if other things (variables) are playing along).

Human insecurity well always remain, it’s a part of human cognition (thinking), but we by all means want to get secure, probably because it’s a evolutionary advantage. (But it can give rise to illusions; group thinking; an extreme example is Hilter and how the people actually supported him).
Everybody gets insecure about different things, also things that are connected to one personality/self esteem, and it’s quite normal, the importance lies with how you deal with it.

Manc is dealing with his issues very well, and his source of self esteem (which is not necessary comes from the above quote) is actually quite alike with those he is criticising (“>7” big cock and you want to get bigger?? Then you have a self confidence problem”), we could say the same thing about his above comment even though he’s “not boasting”.

But I, at the time I had the average penis (5.7”, Nov 2006), being just 18 and slept with only 5 different girls (hotties), should I feel less self confident or inferior. Lol, that would be just stupid.

The bottom line is that we are all different (in subtle ways) both genetically and contextually (socially), AND we have different ways to keep our self confidence intact. But remember that too high self confidence can make you blind.

Hey iamaru I have experienced all that man, when my girl squirt she became another person, you are very wise my friend.

Sry double post