8" x 6" and not happy??

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Always wise advice from Bill :)

First time posting here but I’ve just read 31 pages of some girls like it big some like average etc. Etc.

Personally I PE for me and the wife gets a bonus. I haven’t done PE long enough to make any real contribution on that side of things.

BUT I can tell you what most women want.

Fuck them in the brain then the bed will sort it self out. In other words the foreplay starts when you wake-up in the morning in the words you say the way you touch her and a bit of sexual suggestion. She wants to be desired by you

Sure there are big dick trophy hunters out there but most will try a big dick once and be happy with average to above average.

I couldn’t agree with this more. As a married man with a family it is extremely easy to become overwhelmed by the daily stresses of life. Preparing for a heightened experience at the end of the day or even the middle of the day starts with being a part of my wife’s life that she sees as a foundation of support and fun. A hug in the morning with some playful touching, suggestive words, and joking around helps to not only make her feel wanted and desired but also helps to get her day off to a positive start. She ties feeling good to you!

I agree, it starts in the mind and if done right it will pay dividends in the bedroom.

Every time you criticize a women or add to her stress she relates those words and feelings to you. If you feel you are with a women that you have to be critical of throughout the day, she ain’t the right women for you, move one.

I agree with this. I think everyone has a different motivation for PEing. Some do it to impress people at glory holes, to get hookers, cure self confidence issues, improve mirror-staring sessions, make their wives happier, break a TP roll when it’s flexed, etc.

Some reasons require a bigger dick, and some take a little more finesse. All depends on lifestyle

I don’t know a whole lot about hookers, but i doubt getting 1 requires PE.

Just $$$$

:)

Yeah, I don’t know much about them either (never really want to), but I read a thread that someone said they didn’t get laid, or something, because it was too small.

I just like when they struggle to deepthroat me. If they go all the way down I’m impressed but slightly disappointed. (Lol) Nonetheless, it’s nice to be relative to your height. At 6’4 I feel I’m on the small side with a 7.2 x 5.3 but that’s just me. I feel like I gotta get it up to 8.5 x 6 to make it more relatively impressive. If I was 5 feet tall I wouldn’t wear clothes. Anyway, that’s just my .2 cents. RELATIVITY.

I hear you. I am 6’3 tall and 7,5 inch soft. If I was 5 feet I wouldn’t west clothes either but it feels less impressive at 6’3.

I thought this would be a good place to share a recent study (as am noob) that I’ve not seen referenced on here before and I thought this thread is appropriate: Women’s preferences for penis size: A new research method using selection among 3D models

Study used 3d printed models to allow women to share preferences for erect size. It’s somewhat interesting that women prefer larger penises for one night stands (avg. 6.4 x 5 for ONS vs. Avg. 6.36 x 4.825 for LTRs) but for me it was interesting that the mode for girth in ONS is 5.5" vs. A 4.5" mode in LTRs. I’m more interested in mode here as it describes what’s most common, not what’s average. The most common total size was 6.5" x 5.5" (also found in the ONS group which had a smaller average).

Based on the study 0.05% of women prefer anything greater than 8" x 6" for a ONS, and 0.031% prefer that for a LTR.

The study has more to say for men who care about the ability of women to recall size, and for what they think average is. I don’t care about those so I haven’t bothered to look at that data.

Cool find on that study effdawg.

Given those findings, I feel like I should be done with PE.

However, the wife and I are in a LTR, and she doesn’t mind gains.

Well given the study, you might never have started! But hey, studies go so. You know your woman and yourself. It seems we who grow our dicks seem to have a kink for being above average and stretching partners boundaries.

Interesting!

Thanks for sharing all this.

Yes, this study was music to my ears. It doesn’t surprise me that the most selected size is 6.4 x 5 (one night), but close enough to the 6.3 x 4.8 for long term.

My wife has a rabbit that is only 5.5 x 4.5, it by no means looks small and many women would just use it and never think twice. They might even assume it’s larger than it is.

So by comparison, many women would hold a 6.4 x 5 and think, wow, it’s got some length and some girth.

The more I read the more I begin to realize that a lot of women will be more than satisfied by 6.3 x 4.8 penis. From there it’s just using it right!

I think this issue becomes clearer, if you, as a hetero man, start imagining whether you would prefer to take a 7 NBP dick up the butt or a 4.5 NBP (or 5.5 BP) aka avg. one!

Obviously up the butt is different and more painful (at least initially, as woman sayy) than up the vajayjay!
But I think thats still makes it like 80% of the reason why!

But hey… still gotto have that monster dong doe!
They shall shiver in fear upon sight.

Muahahaha *trips over 3rd leg

8.11 BPEL qualifies as “monster dong”, at least in my book. That’s almost my goal length.