8" x 6" and not happy??

The longer I do this, the more perspective I get. And it’s becoming more clear that about 90% of us here are only doing PE for ourselves, if the study is to be believed regarding what is a functional size for average women.

That isn’t a bad thing. It just means the idea needs to be kept in mind that excess is where a lot of us have set the goal. I realized it a while ago but excess, the bar for it, is lower than many of us consciously realize. Which is kind of nice for us, but needs remembering. Just so we can see how far we’ve come. So we can fully understand and appreciate it. If only for full bragging rights. *chuckles*

Excess?? Maybe.. but when I see lex’s rod from the professionally best perspective and compare it to my 8.11” looking at it from above… well.. ugh..

I would not really call it “monster”..

“Monster” is different!

Its huge.. very very big, sure! But monster.. mhmm… my eyes are too jaded for me to call it monster.. yet! :D

Statistically huge.

I know, I feel the same as you.

I was in that boat for a while. I got to 7.5” after the first 2 years. Said “that’s not really big, 8.5” is really fucking big!” and then after some more years got to 8.5x6” and said “This is sorta big but it isn’t monster. Monster starts at 9.75!”

Now I’m here. After several different situations where size was an issue. After a long term girlfriend who couldn’t get but half of me in her and I actually got too thick to deep throat during the relationship.

So…I urge you. Take the perspective of the ruler and the survey more seriously. I love my size but importing condoms, stashing lube in my car, gear bag and jacket pocket and kissing anal goodbye…I had to start thinking.

I listed the benefits and downsides. I’m still here and moving towards a goal because the benefits outweigh the downsides for me. But list them before they come slap you in the face like they did me. That’s my suggestion.

Thanks for the perspective. I am now shooting for 6.4 x 5, I have been using this study for some time now as a bench mark for me. It’s also a good goal considering I am currently Nbpel 5.75 x 4.75.

I figure it will take some time to get there, then some time to cement it. Once there it will be interesting to see how the results are received. I will base my next goals on feedback or lack there of!

Ultimately I think 7.5 x 5.5 is reasonable and much larger than what I currently am, I have no idea what kind of result that would produce, fun to imagine.

This PE stuff takes a lot of time and I’m pretty much stealth. I am looking forward to being able to back off, but as I mentioned, got a long way to go!

Thanks again for the perspective.

What’s weird to me is that my base girth is approximately 6.75” and I have trouble getting the clamp around the base. It always slides up.

Even with this, I think “every one must have the same problem”. When I measured 7.75”, I thought, “I’m just cheating. This isn’t the real dimension”. Even, when my wife of 7.5 years pushes back after the first penetration every time, I think “I need to get bigger.” I don’t get it.

A poster here posted pics of himself and he is the same measurements as me and I was shocked about how massive he looked.

Body dysmorphic disorder all the way.

Stealthers unite!

Do we get some kind of Captain Planet type of rings?

Do you use any kind of wrap or cloth under the clamp? Looks like you place the clamp without anything under it.

Either way, one hand forcing the clamp against your body should fix this.

Lol, she knows there is a lot of attention paid down there behind close doors, I just don’t do it in front of her.

She runs into gadgets at every turn!

Rings would be great!

Yes. I cut a sock into a donut that goes under the clamp.

Stealth PE-re here, able to hide a coffee maker in bathroom though since family is oblivious. I am sure if I had a wife she’d find it though. Then I’d have to plan better.

I agree with the 7.5x5.5 goal. It seems like a good balance between size and versatility.

I have read a few blogs where many woman post their upper limits to be 1.75” girth, so 5.5.

However, you 6” gentlemen should be nothing but proud of what your swinging! Hats off….

However, with all that said who knows what my wife’s true happy place is, it could be 6 for all I know!

I am fairly certain that as I pass the 5” mark anal will most likely become a mythical unicorn I once knew, so I guess I need to do some anal soul searching as I continue to gain.

Sometimes I feel that I need to reconsider my girth goals. Of course, anal has been that mythical two headed unicorn for as long as I can remember. :(

Since that’s not an option, onward to 6.25 mseg!

So true! I can rarely make it happen at 4.75, I might as well go for gold!

Coffee maker?? Did I miss a hot (sure, it’s a pun) new technique?

ThoughtfulGold you’re living up to your namesake. What about the shock and awe reactions you must have gotten with your size? Are they worth the sacrifice of backdoor joy and deepthroat?

I think a lot of men (myself included) imagine having a monster dong will be like the endearing reactions we see in porno. Also being the subject of rumors seems to be a draw. I have personally witnessed the ‘curiosity effect’ in action and it did leave me with quite the set of horns. I’ve also seen the struggle of insertion turn into pleasure when toying an ex-gf with a bottle of Victoria’s secret love spell (aptly named). Same girlfriend referred to a new lover as ‘blessed’, but women will do that to grow the aforementioned set of horns. It’s a power dynamic for sure.

At this point what attracts me most is the power to change something that’s considered unchangeable. It carries over into all aspects of life.