Originally Posted by expandable
I think even if you were “overly-long” you could still play around with the length during sex.. Just don’t thrust too far in. But if one were to become “overly-thick” for his partner/wife, it would be much more difficult to get around that problem. Personally, I would be more mindful of gaining girth than length. Although I do know that it isn’t easy to gain girth in the first place.
If u are in a steady relationship the girth gains won’t matter Bc she’s adjusting over time with you, so odds of outgrowing her are slim ;) our bodies are flexible like that, 6” girth may feel great, but if u started at 4 and got to 8 (yes I know that’s unrealistic but I am using it to illustrate the point so don’t stress it) and you have been with the same partner the whole time, yes she will definitely notice the difference, but u aren’t likely to make it uncomfortable for her unless you are skipping out on foreplay and her excitement prior to. 8” girth could be very uncomfortable or outright painful for a new partner tho. The reason the wife or other long term partner wouldn’t have issues is the gradual increase over time, our hips allow for babies to pass thru there with average head circumferences of 13.5” so trust me when I say a gradual increase in girth is not going to be an issue. It would just make it harder for someone else of less size to give her the same sensations u did for awhile lol. But, like with birth, with kegels etc she can strengthen and tighten those muscles again over time and could eventually enjoy someone on the 5” side again, it just wouldn’t likely be the first person after you.