I’ve only been with my present girlfriend since I started PE nearly three years ago. Pre PE I was 6.75” BPEL and 5.25”MSEG. I’ve gained an inch in length and a half inch in girth.
Obviously, the gains have taken place over time but my girlfriend said at one point, maybe a year or so ago during sex, “Either you’re getting bigger or I’m getting smaller.” I’m a stealther, so I just laughed it off.
But I will say that sex is generally better for the two of us, my girlfriend is tighter, I get the feeling of more friction during sex and as a result I sometimes have to fight the urge to cum. Thankfully, I have ways to do that so it’s not usually a problem. In fact Pre- PE I had, if anything, difficulty being able to cum at times.
From my girlfriend’s perspective, I’ve noticed that she seems to initiate sex more frequently, is louder and more vocal during sex and she cums very quickly after insertion. Like within 30 to 60 seconds. It would take her at least 5 minutes or so pre PE to orgasm, now it’s much, much quicker. And most of the time she has multiples, depending on how long I’m able to last.
I’ve also noticed that she is looking at my dick a lot more when I’m naked around her and she grabs it and plays with it more than she used to. My flaccid has also gotten bigger and I can see it’s a turn on for her.
On the downside, she has bled occasionally during sex, quickies are pretty much a thing of the past, I sometimes feel teeth during blow jobs. She’ll occasionally complain of pain when I first put it in and she is sometimes sore afterward.
I’ve bottomed out a couple of times and I can say she absolutely didn’t like it, hated it in fact. So I have to be careful about going in balls deep but I can deal with that.
Bottom line is it’s been a noticeable improvement for both of us post-PE, with some minor issues along the way.
But there’s no way I’d do anything differently, I’d do it again in a heartbeat.