Big Girth - The Downside

Thank God for you.

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I want to give my wife more pleasure, not pain

Here’s another take on it. Just so there is something to chew on.

My wife has never given a blowjob and never will. So the ideal blowjob girth is meaningless to me.

She does like my increased girth and length. How much will she take? I think my goals are conservative based on our progress. In my estimation she likes it fat, hard, and long. The bigger I get, the deeper and harder she seems to want it.

She doesn’t know I PE and she doesn’t have to tell me she likes it. Her sexual language and vocalizations are more than enough for me to tell she likes it. And she keeps coming back for more.

Thanks, and I could care less if I’m too big for some women. There’s only one (maybe two, My wife licked cake on my buddy’s penis last night) that I care about fucking.

Amen brother. I did read your thread awhile back and I was shocked, but it was a night of drinks, but I will not hijack this thread.

Maybe I’ve just been with nothing but sluts (not the case), but I started at 7.25” length and 6.25” girth, and only two girls ever had a problem with the girth before PE. And that was in high school. length ws a bigger issue, where most girls bottom out around 6.5-7”

6”-6.5” girth is not a problem, hell, most girls comment on how thick I am now, but don’t have a problem taking it. On the contrary, they love it. When I pump up to 7” girth and wear a cockring though, then I’m pushing the limits, but again, no complaints.

I don’t get it - complain about how difficult your girth makes sex for you, but want to be 0.25” thicker still? :-/

I’m the same girth as the OP and I don’t have many of the problems he mentions. Blowjobs are fine, and my girlfriend’s mouth (although not tiny) isn’t unusually big either. Perhaps part of this is that I’m not obsessed with getting ‘deep throat’ like some guys are, and get the most intense sensations when she’s licking the underside of the head or just taking the head (but no more) into her mouth. We have anal sex more often than probably most couples do, and she’s not the first woman I’ve done that with, either. ‘Quicky’ sex is still feasible, as long as she’s really in the mood - lube helps, of course. And yes, she does tend to get sore quite quickly but we both love doing things other than penetrative sex so it never stops us from pleasuring each other.

I guess it will vary from couple to couple, but I don’t in the slightest regret reaching the girth I have now. It’s great, and I wish other members here the best of luck in reaching their girth goals.

Aye, good read, pretty informative. Still, I am going for about 7 girth for me personally. Having about 5 at the head, 5.5 midshaft, and 6 at the base I’ve never encountered any problems as of yet. If the same pattern continues when I reach 7 girth, then that will make me 6.5 midshaft and 6 at the head. Penises aren’t nearly as hard as some household objects, and are often squishy and can compress. With that said, a 7 inch object such as a beer can and a 7 inch around penis are different. Like, a woman being unable to take a inch 6 girth dildo. Yet she is able to take the 6 inch girth penis.

A good point which people often forget. Even with a really good erection, a penis has a bit of give in it, unlike a hard object like a glass jar (often used as a point of comparison, e.g. “I can’t get this 6” girth mustard jar in my mouth, so there’s no way a woman could get a 6” girth penis in hers”).

Bingo! You’ve hit the nail on the head.

Wait wait wait so you guys are hearing this right.
He’s telling you that women many a time can find having sex with a cock this thick is quite frequently PAINFUL, and actually takes CONDITIONING to be gotten used to and further doesn’t even 100 percent guarantee pleasure on her part and many of you are still self conscious an further still linking it up in your heads that it still makes sense to keep growing your cock?

IMO professionals and straight up people you know would likely recommend You guys should be working on your heads not your dicks if you fall into this category.

Old news. It’s a well aknowledged fact that I’m the sole sane guy on this board. :homer2:

Clearly, if your sanity has been recognized by countless certifiable dick-pullers here, only a crazy person could question your assertion!

Having a pre-PE 6 inch girth and plenty of experience through the years, I can’t say my experiences match the OP. Issues have been rare.

Good to hear.