Big Girth - The Downside

LOL, I thought I was the only one doing that!

There’s an actual measurement on record for the normal capacity a mouth can open for the ADA and AMA. In diameter it’s 45mm-55mm for women, that’s 5.6” to 6.8” of girth your head can be and still fit into her mouth. I said head girth for a reason, because even most male porn stars have a head that’s slightly smaller than the shaft behind it due to excessive pumping. If you had an even taper increasing down the shaft from the head you could easily fit into her mouth with a head girth of 5”-6” and be 6” or even 7” at the base. To argue over how much of your penis will fit into her mouth at different measurements is such a pointless argument, it’s your head that matters.

Let’s end this ‘uh-huh nuh-uh ‘debate once in for all by saying if you want girth over 6” then go for it, but what might be right for you may not be right for others. I just really don’t see the point in coming onto a PE website and telling members to not reach their goals. They can reach that decision all on their, that’s not going to be for a long time.

A voice of reason.

Which posters are telling members not to reach their goals?

No one that I can see.

Thickhouse, Para-goomba, Redbear52, TNTjockey, and others are speaking of their experiences. TNT has a slightly different perspective than the guys who were naturally 6, so he is a little bit more outspoken.

There are similar threads on LPSG - advantages and disadvantages of big girth. Nobody over there seems to get all bent out of shape about those threads. It is what it is.

There are pros and cons of most everything in life. I think is it worthwhile to recognize that.

I think it is good information. I don’t see a “debate” here, I see a realistic sharing of information. Which is something worth having on a PE site.

Well said, sta-kool.

I, personally, am glad to have the large girth I have. But as you said, there are definite advantages and disadvantages, and it’s good for members here to be able to make an informed decision about what kind of PE goal might be right for them, especially because many members don’t actually have sex partners while they are PEing, so they can’t see firsthand how size increases will affect things.

For someone who cares most about having a highly flexible sex life, a huge girth is not a great idea. For someone whose main passion is vaginal sex sessions that include lots of foreplay every time, a bigger girth makes more sense. Admittedly, however, my own main reason I enjoy the big girth is pure ego — I think I’m someone who would be prone to size anxiety (as stupid as it is) if I were smaller.

“There’s an actual measurement on record for the normal capacity a mouth can open for the ADA and AMA. In diameter it’s 45mm-55mm for women, “

This has to be the quote of the year. A very scientific find.

Also keep in mind, just because the head can fit into it, and it may barely fit into it. If the jaw is too wide open she’s not going to be comfortable.

Then once it’s in we have the spacing between the molars.

For deepthroat, 6” or girth or more will block on the throat entrance for a VERY large percentage of women.

All of this information did confirm that 6” or girth or over will start to limit blow job potential.

I just came across this thread and I totally agree with Thickhouse. I am currently 6.2 EG and 8.4 BPEL and I wish I would have listened to ms tnt when she asked me to stop when I reached 5.5 EG and 7.5 BPEL which I think is the ideal size. My buddy sta-kool is correct that I have been a little bit more outspoken about this subject. Bigger is not necessarily better, the grass is not always greener on the other side. Our sex life was a lot funner before my big gains, but ms tnt’s menopause didn’t help either. Read the last 5 pages of my thread I have reached my goals. In fact, if you read the entire thread, I post that ms tnt had asked me to stop when I reached 5.5 EG and 7.5 BPEL, but like an ass, I continued and things went to shit.

I have posted so many times about being realistic instead of being egotistic. When PEing, think of your partner or future partners and think of your self as well. How much fun are you willing to give up, like Thickhouse mentioned about blow jobs and teeth, no more deep throat which used to be nice. I no longer get anal and that was fun. Like he mentioned about quickies, that came to a hault. It took a long time for ms tnt to get used to my gains and my new size almost ended our marriage. I wish I would have lost some gains, but I did not. I don’t want to come off like I am bragging, because I am not, I am talking reality. Think about it. I dare not PE anymore because with my luck, I would gain immediately.

Para-goomba,

At this point in time you must be slightly over 8.00 BPEL and 6.00 Girth. I was looking at your PE stats, but assume that if you where close to 9.00 BPEL you would have updated your stats to indicate it.

How has your cock size fared in the real world? And special note as to sex ( vaginal/oral/anal ) and differences to before and after?

I’m around that size, and have to say - with all the women I have been with since growing into it that there is no more penetrate and slam it to the hilt. You have to work it in taking a little at a time until you are fully penetrated.

With oral, the deepthroat is gone ( and boy, was that incredible ). You have the molars that may give you a nice gash on your shaft if you hit them.

With respect to lots of time, she may say “can you hurry up”, because its starting to get sore.

They do act and react differently around it. Kinda like more respect given to it.

How many times have I heard that? Also a sharp tooth during a blow job can make your cock go limp quickly.

All the time.

I often get a kick out of the goals the members have here. The famous 8 X 6 size. They have no clue what they are getting into and what they have to give up when they reach that size.

Oral is pretty similar with most women: They don’t get much past the glans, and they get tired quickly. Some women are more skilled than others, but overall, with a large girth, you don’t get the kind of amazing deep-throat blowjobs that you see in porn on more average-sized penises.

I don’t have a strong interest in anal so I haven’t pushed it with most women, but only one has expressed any interest in it, and others have said “no way” (because of the girth) at the slightest suggestion :D I’m sure if it mattered a lot to me, I could coax a woman to learn to accommodate me anally. But yeah, no doubt that’s easier with smaller girth.

As for vaginal sex, it varies a lot between different women. With all women, quickies haven’t really been possible: a good deal of foreplay, lubrication, and relaxation are required for comfortable penetration. With these things in place, some women really enjoy the girth and can go at it for fairly long periods, without excessive soreness afterward, especially if we’re having sex frequently enough. However, with some other women, the duration of sex is definitely limited, and “recovery” periods can be significant afterward (a couple days). Even some of these women, though, have stated that they get off harder because of the large size, and that the trade-off is worth it to them.

I must say thank you to those who have posted. I always thought I wanted the 8x6 but have redefined my goals to 7x5. I know my wife could take more but she loves it now and there is no way I would give up her trying to deep throat me (she can almost do it now) and the occasional anal. I do love vaginal sex though and maybe it would be worth it to see her eyes roll back as I hit her deep. I guess I will see if I gain and just stick to the newbie routine for now .

I think every woman is different. I recently ( a week ago) started pumping my cock. My dick normally is 5.75inch around. When I pump it up to around 6.5 my girlfriend, who is 5 foot 2, loves it. I did pump it up to 7 inches last night and she said it hurt too bad.

I just fucked her with the 7inch girth with minimal foreplay. She thought it was somewhat painful, but she liked it.

I’m all for the guys here having a clue about their goals. I’m also for guys patterning their goals to their wives/girlfriends/boyfriends/poodles/whatever. For me, my wife likes it deep and can handle a little more girth which I’ve checked by fucking her with a pumped cock. As I get bigger I will listen and curtail my PE as needed.

In addition, we don’t do anal and she has a huge mouth, so neither really limits me.