Originally Posted by Big Girtha
Quite honestly, it is getting to be a bit of a problem. You never get more than a three minute blowjob, and I only know a couple of women I can bang hard balls deep. There is one young lady I’ve been seeing lately who is very petite. So far she has only been able to take me to the circ scar, it is very frustrating. So there is a slight downside to heavy girth.
It funny you say that. Lately I have seen some really large girth porno, and that confirms what I see on it. BG you know that look in a woman’s eyes when she is totally into it and is virtually stoned with sexual endorphins, its unmistakable. This is what I look for in a porno to really enjoy it, when the woman is totally wet, red and swollen and her eyes half lidded.
Well, in the pornos where the guy is the thickness of a coke can, it looks like the girl is definitely turned on by the appearence, but really is rarely able to really enjoy it. Most of the grimaces that show on her face are truly discomfort or outright pain. And almost never do I see that look in her eyes.
This has made me wonder, what really is the optimum girth that would be the best to stop at. I recently have been working on girth, and feel like I am on the right track to gaining. I feel like I’ve cemented 6” finally and am closing in on 6.25. The question is now, maybe I should make sure I know how far I want to go before I end up going to far.
I long left deep throat blowjobs behind, in that I get a ton of teeth if my wife tries to force it, way too uncomfortable to enjoy, but that I can live with. However, 3 minute blowjobs are UNACCEPTABLE! I draw the line there. My advantage is I am with the same woman, so I should be able to see the results at a gradual enough pace to be able to stop.
The next problem comes in however is what if you really enjoy your PE moments and don’t want to stop? TNT jockey got into a world of trouble with his lovely wife that USED TO HELP HIM PE! But he got to a point where she said, “enough” because she was starting to have trouble, it might have been with oral sex, I don’t remember. So anyway, he says “ok” but he had really come to enjoy clamping up (don’t we all?) and started to sneak it on the side. Well, she caught him one day and man did all hell break loose and IIRC it almost ruined his marriage.
Its so rare that any of us are successful with PE to the point of actually starting to DEGRADE the quality of our sex lives, that its a discussion that is rarely held, certainly rarely held in the realm of reality rather than “what would you do if” type of discussion.
So, its good to hear your answer. Its kinda’ like, “be careful what you wish for, you might actually get it!” How’s Mrs G with it? I can’t imagine her not being fully supportive of it. She’s my kinda’ gal! ;)