What the hell? Man, where do I begin? I think actually five and a half inches is the average. Two things skew this in women’s perspective—first off, women are lousy at judging length, especially when cock is involved. Second, because men are so insecure about penis size, the ones with bigger dicks are more sexually confident and get out there and ask more. Still, in my own experience (which is considerable) I’d certainly say six inches was the typical.
Second—less than half of all women can have vaginal orgasms, from any size. If you go to sex toy websites where women buy their own dildos, as opposed to most sex stores that cater to men, the most popular size is six inches. One of the most popular toys ever that women buy for themselves, the Rabbit Pearl only has a penetrative shaft of five inches.
Third—women do like thick cocks. Because they have sloppy untoned pussy. That’s just laziness in my book. If a woman gets good tone all girths feel good.
Why do couples advertise for hung men? Because it’s men who are so preoccupied with penis size. There is a common sexual fetish where men who think their size is inadequate really get off from seeing their wife/girlfriend get screwed by a really hung man. It’s a common fetish.
And why do women ask for huge cocks in personal ads? Hello, we’re female. If a woman is out trawling for cock, she doesn’t need to take out a personal ad. For dating, for relationships, yes, a personal ad is sometimes necessary. But cock? The odds are like 90% that a woman who walks up to an unattached man and asks, “Wanna fuck?” is going to get lucky, no matter how ugly she is, and even for attached men that percentage is pretty substantial. So for sex a woman only has to take out a personal ad if her tastes are something that is not readily apparent from outward appearance. So yes, size queens would have to resort to ads.
Honestly I have been a regular poster at female sex advice boards for several years now, and I can remember only one time a woman complained her partner was too small. She had had multiple vaginal births and was having a hard time feeling him inside her. But she just had to work out a little. It’s not that hard.
Okay yes, big cocks are ornamental and fun to look at. But in terms of mechanics, the only length issue is cul de sac orgasms. As I said in another thread, for every woman who enjoys cul de sac orgasms, there are two women who hate having their cervix bumped. Less than half of all women can even have cul de sac orgasms. And even there, I’d say seven inches is plenty to hit the cul de sac of just about every woman.
*Getting off soapbox*