Do you think showing a bulge is offensive?

Look bros, the mean flaccid length (bone pressed!) based on an average of three studies is 3.4 inches long. If you have a 6.5+ inch flaccid you’re going to get attention. You know why? If you really have that kind of flaccid and you’re not cheating yourself with bullshit measuring techniques then you’re literally 1 in 10,000 or better. A 6 inch flaccid is 99.99th percentile and the standard deviation is 0.68 so for sure a 6.5 inch is better than 1 in 10,000. It’s like if you saw a girl with perfectly round and firm DD boobs at 5’ 5” and 125 lbs. Only downside is people might think you have a hard on but as long as it’s pointed down the leg no one will think so. So the question is, would you want to be around this girl and talk to her? No shit. Even if a girl has been with 100 guys then chances are she’s never seen a flaccid as big as yours. The attraction is part fascination, novelty and wanting to “explore” the unknown. The biggest dick she has probably seen was in porn and here you are standing there with a sausage down your leg. If your sausage is attached to a decent body then no longer are you 1 in 10,000 but 1 in 100,000 to 1 in 1,000,000. All you have to do is smile. She should consider herself lucky to be near you.

Personally I don’t think it’s offensive to show off your flaccid. I mostly wear basketball shorts that fit really loose because I find pants uncomfortable but when I wear pants I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t embarrassed in the first few minutes walking out. Looking down and seeing a bulge down my right pant leg isn’t always the feeling but hey I’m trying to become more confident so I show off. Now I am taller than average (6’ 2”) and have a decent level of musculature (45” chest, 31” waist, 16.25” arms) so a lot of the time I intimidate girls. Because of this I really don’t have any insight into direct reaction sadly. I will say that girls do tend to stare a lot and I have caught girls looking. Kind of funny actually because if I catch them looking they never look again. I mean sometimes I’m sneaky about seeing who’s looking so I can see some look more than once but once I directly look them in the eyes it doesn’t happen again :P.

However despite all I said I think there is a definite downside to displaying a large flaccid. Number one of course is male jealousy. Pretty self explanatory. Another one would be that women see you as being “out of their league,” only interested in sex or you’ll be likely to cheat. For example: I read that men prefer B cup breasts over all others (based on survey). Now I was thinking: seriously? That’s bullshit. I was right. Another researcher gave a woman a padded bra so she could be an A cup, B cup and C cup on different nights and count the number of approaches she gets. Holy shit man. The C cup got 2x the B cup approaches and the A cup got around a third of the B cup approaches. What does this show? Simple. The process of “self selection.” People automatically make judgements based on physical traits and prefer the less pronounced trait in a survey but in actuality they prefer the more pronounced trait. Look at all the chicks on the huffington post and other bullshit sites talking about how “size doesn’t matter.” Yea just like breast size doesn’t matter. Do some guys prefer small boobs? Yea they do but more like large boobs. From a purely visual stimulation perspective flaccid penis size is the same.

Go proud and show off your flaccid. If people are offended and comment then make a joke about how you’re being discriminated against.

4.5 flaccid here.Hulk dick. No bulge.

If you want a giant flaccid (over 7 inches) then you should do some intense manual stretching along with wearing an all day cockring. I did this and I went from less than 3.5 in flaccid (which is under the average) to around 7.75 in flaccid on the warmest days. It shrunk down since I stopped my 6 days a week for 2 to 3 hours a day routine (currently around 6 on an equally warm day so maybe 5.25 in flaccid on a normal day). All the time under intense load really helps your dick stay big when flaccid. Gets kind of obscene at times but if you want a super large flaccid then you can definitely get it. I will say it had positives and negatives. It can lead to disappointment because people often compare the size increase to what they’ve seen in the past. Going from 3.5 to 7 is a lot more impressive than going from 7.75 to 8.5 but a 7.75 in flaccid has a lot more novelty and show value. Also you don’t have to worry about getting an erection so the girl doesn’t think you’re small because even if you stay flaccid the girl will think you’re huge. But as other guys have said it is hard to wear certain kinds of clothes. I tan in a speedo but I’ve only had the courage to do it at my parent’s house because I have to fold my dick on top of it’s self so the fold is near the top of the speedo then run the rest down the front and put it under my balls as it goes to my ass. Kind of a pain in the ass to do and yea the bulge is close to obscene but it’s the only way I can wear a speedo. Up to you if you want to get a huge bulge though. Personally I love having one.

I do enjoy the “size doesn’t matter” mantra that everyone has been spoonfed to help people feel better about themselves. The doublethink that Orwell spoke of describes this situation extremely well. You’ve got one message that size isn’t important, while others are pushing it in your face through songs, women’s magazines, and the movies that having a huge dick will solve all your problems and make you a rock star. It doesn’t.I’ve been this size for almost 20 years and even now I have people PM me and ask me how it feels to be this big. Is it fun? Yes, it can be. It can also be a pain in the ass. Has attaining the mythical 8x6 size solved all my problems? No, and in some cases its made things harder. Am I going to complain and say whoa is me? No freaking way. I worked for this, its bought and paid for through hard work, and now I have to own the good and bad that comes with it. It won’t make you a better lover, and pounding away with a larger penis doesn’t last as long as you see in porn due to the soreness the women feel having to take the added pressure and friction. The larger I’ve gotten, the shorter I can go before soreness begins and I have to stop. My wife can take more than I’ve got easily, and even she can’t take it for too long before fatigue sets in. And don’t even try having sex without lots of lube and foreplay as the size increases. The menopause aspect is definitely not addressed here at all and something I should begin to consider as she heads into her 40’s and my size continues to increase. Should we just go for it as we want to, or should we consider I may not be able to fit it in a few years time. Great discussion and food for thought guys.

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Sage!

Thanks Titleist. Guys come on here constantly looking to get to our sizes and don’t realize only half the work is getting there. The other half of the work is dealing with the consequences of getting this big and creating new problems they never had before. Its really a buyer beware situation.. Be careful what you wish for.. You may get it.

+1 again.. :D

Partners that have had a child or several are preferable to the ones who have never had one.
Even some of those are really small. Had a 42 year old, 5’9” blonde knockout, big tits, all that,
Tell me I was just too big. She did enjoy stroking it, though ;) and this was just for a wax job.
I had the shaft waxed, once, for the heck of it. Kind of rough on the skin, however. :(

@Tungsten Man
How do you do the bands for the length?
I get the fluid buildup when I use bands :(

Thanks man.! Be real careful shaving or waxing the shaft. I had an ingrown hair on the shaft at one point after shaving right before a session and the hair follicle grew back under the skin.. No sessions for a long time until that healed right. Girl sounded pretty sexy.

I have to say that being big is not easy and doesn’t really mean anything, size is important to women who want it, I know that I have been turned down for size. And it is a lot of time and work for a new partner.

Men need to be more in touch with their lady, meet her needs.

Gaining size, quality, or stamina should be to enhance what you have not magically solve a problem,

Just my 2 cent,

A bulge may attract them, but you’ve got to learn how to please them in and out of the bed.

Amen Titleist.

Just go gentle and make sure you get them off several times before penetration to ensure maximum vaginal dilation and lubrication. Even if you go in with lube 15 minutes after you kiss her for the first time it’s not going to work. Give her a full body massage by starting outside (feet, neck, shoulders, hands) then working in (boobs, waist, pubic area). Then give her good vaginal massage (be careful and do not bring her to orgasm yet) so you can build anticipation for the next step. Finally use your fingers to slowly bring her to orgasm then you can repeat the process with your mouth (assuming she doesn’t have STDs). After you do all this you should be around 45 minutes into it. Only after doing all this will she be physically ready. Just make sure to go slow comfort her in the process. If you do it right then you’ll know.

Good advice, good post.! Or you could date a woman who’s had kids or is a size queen, in my case a woman who is both.. LOL We have almost zero foreplay due to time constraints (4 kids) and even then she takes my size most days like its nothing and there are days I feel like she’s barely feeling me even at over 6+ girth.! Hence the desire to PE and see what her limits are.haha. Yes, it really is more about performance and how you make her feel than about sheer size. Women that are purely into size won’t be satisfied with anything less. I know all about that aspect for sure.

Back to the bulge discussion though. Has anyone here had whispers behind their back because co-workers have seen the bulge? I’ve been getting the women giggling lately as I walk through their area and I know they’re talking.

I “Almost Always” shoot for what I like, and that is the bigger breasts. Always did fairly well, maybe they were “feeling my vibe”! We’re all unique in our own way, that is for sure. We just need to find out what way that is, and key in on it. Use that to our advantage. The ladies will _notice_ “that guy is ‘different’” and wonder what you have going on. I got so good at it, I used to hide the “package” until I had them firmly by the imagination. I asked one gorgeous 38DD babe if “size mattered” and let her go on for about 10 minutes about how it did not, and she said “I don’t care if you have a small dick” so then I said “I’m glad you’re not shallow, but reverse your way of thinking” and then she was really wondering what I meant, and I asked her “how big is too big” and she said maybe 5” was all she’d ever had… Gotcha ;)

She said she had to see it, after I described it in general terms, at her request. I made her ask me. I love the “dirty minded” ones! Mind you, this girl is almost 20 years younger than me, but it did not hurt that she originally thought I was only 7 years older or so. In fact, in the interest of “full disclosure: I asked her “how old am I” and she said “34-35 at most?” I LOL’ed :D

I got a pheromone trick I will share with you all, but on my Pic Post or another one in the appropriate forum. It is a no lose method, your positive reactions will go up several times over. There will still be unapproachable females, but that vast middle ground will be YOUR Playground. If not some of the “upper crust” ;) The trick is damn near Free, so I think you will want to learn this! :D

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Good advice, good post.! Or you could date a woman who’s had kids or is a size queen, in my case a woman who is both.. LOL We have almost zero foreplay due to time constraints (4 kids) and even then she takes my size most days like its nothing and there are days I feel like she’s barely feeling me even at over 6+ girth.! Hence the desire to PE and see what her limits are.haha. Yes, it really is more about performance and how you make her feel than about sheer size. Women that are purely into size won’t be satisfied with anything less. I know all about that aspect for sure.

Back to the bulge discussion though. Has anyone here had whispers behind their back because co-workers have seen the bulge? I’ve been getting the women giggling lately as I walk through their area and I know they’re talking.
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I’ve had women approach me and comment directly about my bulge. I was wearing running tights with it going down my leg. That was interesting to say the least.