Originally Posted by jellogecko
I am Asian, but sadly I fit the stereotype. Your starting measurements are larger than my realistic goal. I am 5.5x4.5 now and wish to be somewhere between 7x5 and 7.25x5.25.Would you consider yourself the tall and thin type (basically an ectomorph > 6’1”)? Whenever I see tall, thin guys (not just a normal definition of “skinny”, but body/extremities that could be described as long rather than big — their height is due to length not mass), I tend to think they are hung. No idea why I think this way.
How do you fair with the ladies (comments, etc)? Are you mostly with Asian girls?
Apologies for all the questions haha
Thanks.
Jello, I am 5’9”, 5’10-11” in shoes; at 145 lbs. I am actually fairly muscular build, almost benched my own weight when I visited the gym once with a friend. (I never lift weights.) Didn’t think that girls liked me at all until recently that I found that I had some sort of game and that some girls were actually silently very infatuated with me (moral: be confident and project polite interest and positivity towards whoever you want to go after, and if they being to reciprocate subtly they’re probably in favor of going for you). I have actually never dated an asian girl yet. I’ve had a big busted shorter blonde, a 5’8” slim swedish girl with a track and field lower end, and the girl I’ve mentioned lately is a 5’6” redhead at 40-28-41 and 112 lbs — hardly the “limited” or “compromised” history of interested girls. They tend to comment on how muscular I am (this confuses me as I have average arms and 2-pack abs LOL) and how I am “really thick” and “well above average” and “big but not painful big.” I had a moment with one girl who told me that I was pretty thick and that “if you were any bigger, you would probably really hurt” (this was when I was about 6.25x5.2).
No worries about the questions. They’re intrinsically awkward and unfortunately our culture doesn’t let us ask in person so we come here on the internet to find information. Since PE is pretty closely related to relationship matters, I don’t mind those questions either.
How old are you? Not long ago, at the end of high school, I was concerned about my size at only about 5.5-5.6” long. I was only about 6.25x5.0 a year ago, so if you are still relatively young, your body could do a lot of the work for you.