Whilst I understand your points doubles and I have no wish to challenge them and certainly no desire to make you uncomfortable in any way, for I know you well enough I think, by now, to know that you would be amongst the first to open your wallet, should the need ever arise and willingly contribute towards the support which is necessary, to maintain the wonderful community we love and know, as Thunder’s Place.
However, as the points you make are possibly the impressions that new or potential members might have, being unfamiliar with the history and the commendable ethos, which lies behind this Forum, I will use them if I may, to clarify (in my view) the actual position to be, from what I have constantly seen and what I have consistently found, throughout my all too brief membership, of Thunder’s Place.
Originally Posted by doubles
If Thunder wants to bring the donation issue to light every now and then by all means he should. But to have member after member push these donations is getting a little out of hand.
I don’t recall the Boss ever asking for help with funding, at any time, from anyone, even though I think perhaps he should, but no and any fresh appeal from time to time, comes from others who are either party to the financial situation of this forum, or from those who may stop to think and consider who is footing the bill and find just as they thought, it is him. I personally assume that the costs are covered, until such times as I find such a thread pointing out that it isn’t so and I am grateful for this, because if you know, then you can do something, however little, to help, if you find you can.
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This place is free…all these donation pushes make it sound like if you don’t donate you don’t belong here. I say we uphold the principles of this wonderful place and let the issue arise when it does…and not force it down everybody’s throats.
So often, I have seen Thunder respond to suggestions of a possible rate, that $1 can mean a whole lot more to some, than $100 means to others, as he dismisses the idea for this reason. I cannot think of a better way in which to make anyone who doesn’t donate, because they can’t, feel just as valued and welcome as those who can and in doing so, uphold the principles as you say, of this wonderful place. I’m not sure however, with the grand sum of $14 in the kitty, when another time would be better, to make some push (if you like) for donations. I suspect the issue has in fact arisen already.
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I think everyone should donate, but the philosophy behind donations is “give what you can, when you can”. But to everyone out there who hasn’t donated, you are just as welcome as anyone who has. IMO
Thunder couldn’t have put it better himself! :-k In fact I am certain he has, on so many occasions.
Thank goodness Thunder is the owner, for even though I am, I’d say, fairly easy going (which is hard to believe I know), I would be so disappointed when any apparent even if unintentional lack of gratitude is shown, that I would ‘pull the plug’ without further ado. But he takes it all in good grace, the good along with the bad, with little by way of complaint and I know I am not alone in being so grateful that he reacts in this way, for the other alternative is ending it all and this is the constant fear I have, when I read posts such as yours, which could be misunderstood! :nodding:
So if I haven’t said it lately or nearly often enough, I say now to Thunder, ‘Thank you, for all that you are to us, which is seen and spoken, but most of all for all that you do for us, which is unseen and unspoken’.