Gains after PE?

I haven’t PE’d much recently. But I have had the perception my dick kept getting bigger. I have a few ideas that could explain it, but I can’t quite shake the idea that my dick is bigger and bigger.

I did a quick measurement, and I seem to have gained a little. I need to measure a few times to get an average and see, but I’m 1/8 to 1/4 inch bigger than I expected. I didn’t measure girth, that also seems bigger. I’ve always used a regular condom with no complaint, but using one a few days ago my partner remarked that it barely fit, and I should get the bigger size.

I have lost significant weight. That gives me bigger EQ, and the perception of a bigger penis with less fat pad and also visually because of smaller hips. I’m not convinced that would translate to an actual increase in size. It could help explain why it seems so noticeable to me when its a gain, but not a huge one.

I’m also thinking it could just be that my perceptions are registering my real size, not what I was used to seeing after 25+ years. I remember being surprised at my measurements, knowing that my dick was bigger but not really seeing it. It could be that I just haven’t measured it so long that I did gain and didn’t know it, and my vision is just now catching up.

Still, I feel like it’s bigger! Anyone else notice gains happened at a time they weren’t really PEing consistently?

When I was on a almost 3 year break, I didn’t gain or lose anything.

Gains whilst a deconditioning break are relatively common, from people coming from manual based routines. Combined with the ‘I’m not alwyays looking at my penis now that I’m not PEeing’ factor, this could explain what you report.

Yes. I have gained on a decon break.

I believe that frequent hard longer duration erections can put some guys into the growth zone.

I base this on a sex manual I have read called ESO: How You and Your Lover Can Give Each Other Hours of Extended Sexual Orgasm by a husband and wife sex therapist team, Dr. Alan Brauer and Donna Brauer.

http://www.amaz … /dp/0446677620/

ESO training is basically tantric sex without the religious trappings. Emphasis on edging techniques for the male for "training", and then long duration sex between partners.

They report that a number of their clients have reported that the size of their penises have increased over time. They attribute it to the very hard long duration erections.

It also does sound like your perceptions are also catching up to your actual size. It is pretty cool when that happens.

I haven’t gained in erect size, but I have gained about an inch in flaccid length.

Well I have had a lot of extended erections - staying hard for 60-90 minutes at a time. Maybe that is helping cement or continue gains.My flaccid was a bit thicker when I PEed more regularly. I’m thinking to start again, should have the house to myself soon, will make use of the privacy.

I’ve gained small amounts during breaks before. It was actually after breaks that I would fully notice my gains since my EQ got better after some rest.

How do you stay fully erect for that long? Even on Viagra I cab only keep a full blown erection for like 30 minutes at most.

UM1991: I can only do it while edging. Then I can totally concentrate on the sensation, and make sure that the stimulation is perfect.

This is my experience as well. I’m wondering if he meant during sexual activity. In my case I often lose my wood before I bust. Although sex sessions will go on for a few hours, it consists of multiple sessions where I lose my hard on after 15-20 minutes on average.

I’ve not done PE for about 10 weeks. I’ve lost between 1/4” and 1/2” in length. It sucks bad.

I bet the length loss is just lig tightening. You can get that back probably in a week or so with just some minor stretching.

Right, I mean erections during sex. I stay hard until I ejaculate, as long as I’m enjoying it I won’t loose my erection.

Maintaining an erection for me is psychological. I had this much younger, hot girlfriend, but she wasn’t very sexual unfortunately, and I had a hard (or should I say Soft ;) ) time getting it up, or maintaining a hard on more than 5-10 minutes. And my hard-ons’ weren’t very strong; just hard enough to be able to penetrate. I was going nuts with worry. I thought, OMG!!!!, I’m getting ED, and I scoured the internet for answers. Thankfully I was still getting morning wood, which was a positive sign. So then I broke up with her (not cuz of sex), and now have a new girlfriend who’s closer in age, and really sexual, and I can keep my hard on, and it’s like a rock, & can go for 30 - 45 minutes, some times more. The first time we had sex, we ended up having 4, 30-45 minute sessions, in about a 10 hour window. I was so relieved that day, and it struck me, WOW, I had no idea how much my mental condition could play into getting & maintaining a hard-on.

That thing between your ears…, yeah, that’s the most important sex organ. The rest is accessories.