help! can't maintain 3/4 errection while jelqing

Hey guys, Ive been doing PE for 2 weeks now and all is going well for the most of the part. Ive been doing the newbie routine. My only problem is when I do my 10 min jelqing session, by about minute 4, my penis is almost completely flaccid. I also have a bit of trouble keeping the skin pulled back because my member is uncut. Can anybody give me some advice here?

I have the opposite peoblem in that it’s hard for me to keep it from getting erect (even with a dry jelq!)

When that happens to me, I give it a V-stretch with the fulcrum right at the base. The erection gives up ( softens ) after about a min.

thanks :thumbs:

You should lay out some porno before you start, to look at when your erection goes too low. Then look away once it gets harder, to avoid getting a full erection. Common sense really.

Cascade, try holding your pc muscle whilst you jelq, until the erection level lowers. Or you can go with the flow and do erect jelqing for girth, until your dick eventually softens after a while and then finish with normal jelqing.

I have a porno video on while I jelq. It still lowers. Is there something wrong with my penis?

massivemember,

I’ve been experiencing the same thing. I know what my problem is. It’s that I’ve been having sex way to much this week. Seriously. On weeks I don’t have allot of sex I have no problems with maintaining. Could this be the problem with you as well? Maybe if you just try to abstain for awhile that might help. That’s what I do.

Or maybe it’s just time for a break. How long have you’ve been at it? Maybe your dick’s trying to tell you to ease up a bit and needs a rest.

Could be anything really.

JM2C

Massivewang, I think Elite8’s suggestion is pretty good. When I first started jelqing I had a hard time keeping atleast 50% erection and my skin would pull forward (circumcised here.) When I started getting used to the jelq I started trying different variations and I was cutting down on the masturbation sessions.

I even started doing erect jelqs (half intensity so as not to hurt myself and continued through when it started going flaccid.)

Now if there is not enough blood in there I’ll do helicopters and kegel in between jelqing. Also, I get a really tight grip at the base and ease up while I continue up the shaft and pull my skin back with my free hand. It seems to be working for me.

Maybe I would not look at porn while jelqing if I were you so as to keep an even level intensity throughout the session without the porn becoming a distraction.

Hope this helps.

Maybe you should take some horny goat weed each day, and some ginseng. It should help erections. It also helps if you don’t have an empty stomach when you do PE, or haven’t drunk any water recently. Both hunger and thirst decrease labido temporarily. Stop having sex or masturbating for a few days aswel.

One more thing, try to relax and breath deeply when you do PE. If you are anxious about anything, including how well you are keeping an erection, then it will make the problem worse. Try to relax and actually set yourself the goal of enjoying your PE. Relax into it. Enjoy the porno, allow yourself to be turned on. Don’t try to force yourself to better erection levels, don’t get anxious, just enjoy. Relax.

I don’t think it’s your dick telling you to stop!

Probably just too much sex or jacking-off

Can’t maintain 3/4 while jelqing? Shit, I’m 38 but I have the opposite problem. Try looking at porn, I’d say.

I also have this problem, although it now has gotten better.

As mentioned, watching porn while jelking really helped ,try to get aroused beore you start.

Also staying away from sex the same day was really helpful and do some exercise before jelking also seems to help ..guess this get the blood “flowing”

I really appreciate all the suggestion, guys. Ive actually been experimenting a little and have found that edging just before my jelqing session works and the last couple of days, my jelqing sessions have been great. Thanks guys. I have one last question. I am beginning the third week of my newbie routine. How long will it be until I can start trying Uli’s and Horse 440’s and other excercises?