I like my little flaccid

Yup. Small flaccid is absolutely miserable. I came here with a nice sized erect 6+ length 5.7+ girth, but what sucked was the whole shower thing. I like PE and the effect it’s having on me and my spouse. I agree with clubber, I like to let my pumped flaccid penis lead the way through the showers. Before, my wife would see me naked and not say anything, now she turns and sees it and smiles. :)

Yeah. LeftCoast, that is what I was trying to get at a few posts back. It was nice to go from “hardly ever aware of my penis” / “may as well not had one” to being aware of it every time I shift around in a chair or whatever. It is just cool.

This is good to hear. I have been PE’g for almost six months and I am just now beginning to find it easier to find my flaccid dick when I pull down my fly at the urinal. Sometimes it was so turtled it would slip out of my fingers and I ended up peeing on them. I still sometimes have to pull on it to get it out, but it is now usually long enough after pulling on it that it doesn’t slip out of my grip. I will continue to work on PE so that when I pull down my fly my flaccid dick will flop out onto my hand on its own.

Very encouraging news.

I have a medium flacid length and I don’t care for it. If I could be 1-2” flacid and 8 ” erect I’ll take this, thank you.

I think what is important for people to take into consideration is the difference in lifestyles we all have and how that affects our opinion on the significance of flaccid size. I don’t agree with blanket statements stating having a big or small flaccid size does or does not matter.

Damn, you guys sure made me feel more insecure :p

The most immediate thing I noticed when I began PE in december `09 was an increased flaccid hang.

The nice full feeling of being accompanied by my dick makes me smirk occasionally.

It sits 5” now as I walk, whereas six months ago it would be a couple at most.

And yeah, my wife tracks it across the bedroom. Little sweetheart.

I really want a good 7 1/2 - 8” erection, but I really also don`t want a 7” flaccid hang.

I would have to give up my my american eagle low-rise boot cut jeans….and that`s not a good thing.

I’ll probably get raked over the coals over this by some but as for the pants bulge goes…that is sometihing gay men are more into than women in my opinion. Tight jeans or dress pants are not fashionable and North American women generally hate to see a guy in a speedo. I agree that the unintentional display of the goods can be attractive for a woman. Loose fitting slacks while a light breeze picks up revealing the outline of your package gives them the hint they like. Women like the mystery.

I live in a city with a large homosexual population and whenver my wife and I walk down a street in the “homosexual district”, she is pretty grossed out by the amount of penis outlines she sees in young and old wearing anything from bike shorts to dress pants to tight jeans.

So I’m not sure the impressive flaccid in jeans argument has much truth for hetero men.

My flaccid is really small. I could care less if it increases at all. The working size is all I’m interested in.

Yeah, I can see how it is important for some guys but I never find myself suddenly pantless in a room with a woman who I didn’t already know I was about to have sex with. I have literally never been seen fully flaccid and, until married, I don’t see how I ever will be.

Don’t get me wrong, I like seeing and feeling my own bigger flaccid from PE, but some of us simply don’t get into situations where impressing someone with a flaccid even presents itself as a concern. Then again, I try my best to avoid superficial bitches that act like they’re going to be disappointed when I’m not pornstar material, so maybe it’s varies a lot from man to man.

I agree, ddolphin - in the US, it’s mostly a gay thing. But in Europe where tight clothes are more acceptable for men, there are lots of women who look. Depends hugely on time of day, place, type of woman, but in my experience tight trousers will very regularly draw lots of looks from women. I live in a big city and on the metro there are constant looks (and tourists who talk about it in front of me in their language, assuming I can’t understand).

None of this bulge showing has ever led to sex or even a conversation – so I agree with earlier posters who said erect size is what matters most for a relationship - but a nice flaccid hang does give me an ego boost.

How did you get your flaccid to grow? Which excerise(s) did you use?

My current mode of thought is that flaccid size matters zero, none. When my 2 inch flaccid goes in her mouth and grows to 6, that’s what matters. She likes making that cock grow, and she fucks it when it’s hard. So many guys think girls don’t know cocks shrink, but they do know. Girls talk. A lot more than guys. They know about shrinkage. If you’re a good fuck they’re not going to be talking about your tiny flaccid dick. If anything they’ll talk about how amazing you are. I worry very little about flaccid length at this point in my life. Big when it’s hard, that’s all I care about.

I think most people have no clue about concept of showers and growers. If they see you with small flaccid, they will probably believe you have a small dick even if it’s 7” erect. Sad but true.

Everyone knows penis grow when they become erect. There is a loose correlation to flaccid size and erect size. You could argue that no one’s erect penis is smaller than the flaccid. Studies have linked flaccid size and male attractiveness, even going so far as to show that women gazed longer at males with larger flaccid penises.

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Of course, height was equally important, and broad shoulders trumped all.