I like my little flaccid

And I’d never want it to get bigger.

A general theme I’m seeing on the forum is that men really care about the size of their flaccid and other people’s flaccid as well. They want to have the biggest dick in the locker room or they don’t want to feel insecure when they are using the urinal.

None of this makes any sense to me as I simply do not want other men to look at my penis, nor do I want to see theirs. This fact wouldn’t change whether my flaccid was two or seven inches. The only time I wouldn’t mind if another man saw my penis was if I was in an orgy and I’d be erect anyways.

The next area that men are concerned with flaccid size is when they are with women. Again I think that isn’t too important because the penis usually grows during sex. The flaccid size has little relevance in the erect size. So even if a girl saw me flaccid, I wouldn’t care simply because she’s not going to experience me small. In fact I’d probably be 100% erect before I even took my shirt off.

Just because :)

You’re probably not the only one who doesn’t care, but the majority of men do. When in a locker room or at a urinal or whatever and you have a bigger flaccid hang than the next guy it is a big confidence booster. I’ve always been a shower, so my flaccid state is pretty large compared to most.

I sir, do not agree.
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Most men care because not to many people want to see a small dick. It is cool to have the biggest dick in the group and if someone does see it (and someone will see it accidentally sometime) it is nice to have a big one. Like Dxero said it is a big confidence booster. And when a women sees your small flaccid it may change her mind or she may wonder how big could it be if it is that small now. But some people don’t care, but most of us do. I wish I didn’t care but I do.

Unfortunately, usually a small flaccid equates to a small erection, especially in the PE world since we usually transform to "showers." Also, with a small flaccid you will won’t be able to fill out a pair of jeans or a nice pair of pants……women look at these things btw. Women notice an extremely fat beef log blatantly protruding from the side of your thigh, through a pair of tight Hugo Boss pants, while you’re sitting next to her at the bar and ask her if she likes your watch, which is ingeniously attached to a wrist that happens to be in close proximity to your giant flaccid.

OK, you picked one scenario where you think it would be better to have an unnoticeable flaccid size, since you don’t want men to notice; personally, I don’t take public showers and I always urinate in stall….I really like going to the bathroom alone…always have….always will…it’s a private matter to me. Also, when your in a relationship with a women you can’t hide your flaccid forever. It is also a good feeling to be able to walk out of the shower when your at your girlfriends apartment….and proceed to walk naked to her bedroom where she is to change and watch her stair at it with her jaw to the ground because you just did a few squeezes and a quick pump in the shower. I know most of the other guys will agree with me on this.

@Clubber:

That is definitely true. When you are changing or walk by naked to change and you catch her staring, you’re going to feel damn good about it. Often times like that even lead to sex. If she can’t take her eyes off of it, she’s going to want it.

Women love to put large flaccids in their mouths as well from what I noticed.

I like watching her do it. ;)

Heh, so it’s a type of male dominance. Wanting to be the the biggest in the group, just in case they accidentally see your penis.

Not really because showers and growers do exist. Amazingly enough, after doing PE I have become even more of a grower than I was before. Even though my BPEL has gone from 5.25 to 6.2, my flaccid has remained at 3 inches. It’ll be a trip if I keep gaining length and my flaccid never changes. It would be amazing going from a 3 inch flaccid to an 8 in erection.

I always had a little fantasy of a woman giving me a BJ when I’m completely soft, then when I start to grow I can see that she’s looking a bit confused, eventually it becomes too much for her and she tries to get it out of her mouth. But I hold the back of her head, not letting her get me out of her mouth, then she starts to panic and making a whining noise. Then I take it our of her mouth and she looks at at in amazement. Maybe in a few years I can do something like that.

As for having a bulge in the pants or walking out of the shower, I can accomplish the same effect with a semi.

The problem is that if one does have a small flaccid and times when has no sexual interest, no bulge will be possible. So that is a weakness.

My flaccid varies day to day, hour to hour so I really don’t give it much thought. I do notice at the gym, bathroom and reading posts on here this is more of an issue for the younger guys than older guys like me.

I agree with clubber. Nothings better then whipping out a big flaccid in her mouth and then watch her stare in amazement as it grows into it’s full size.

To me that’s not your typical flaccid. By the time I’d get a chick to that point it’s fluffed up. Different mindset from going to piss or walking out of the shower.

About 90% of the time anyone, man or woman, sees your dick for the first time it is going to be flaccid. Women judge men by their flaccid size more than erect size. Most all men look big when they’re hard, women expect that, but a large flaccid always wows them. Having one that looks big, heavy, that hangs nicely is very attractive to both men or women. Anyone who spends any time at nudist resorts can tell you this. To me a nice flaccid is more important than BPEL.

I agree with Big Girtha. I started out with a turtle dick for a nubby flaccid size, but now have a nice hanging thick flaccid. I will take the nice hang anytime over turtle dick and am so glad I was able to change.

I’m not sure about that. Since I don’t do the nudist thing, women just aren’t going to see me flaccid. The only time women have seen me naked was right before we’ve had sex and I’ll always already be hard before I take my pants off. Though she may see me flaccid after sex, I don’t really care because we already did it. If she enjoyed my dick during sex, will she suddenly think it’s small because I don’t have a big flaccid?

That is an unfortunate fact of life. Women shouldn’t judge a dick based on flaccid size but there is nothing we can do to stop them. Somehow for some reason, they got it in their heads that flaccid size is important.

I probably will avoid nude resorts or beaches

It’s because women aren’t savvy to the whole grower/shower thing, in most cases. My woman is, but that’s because she is a member here. Most women see a small flaccid and they automatically assume that it won’t get much bigger, sad as that is, it is a fact with most women. Also, if they see a bulge in a guy’s pants, they will just assume he’s packing. Most women know very little about dicks, or size. Since guys don’t walk around with a hard-on most of the time, a good flaccid says a lot, whether it’s swinging at a nude beach, or packed into your jeans.

Lets say your with some girl for the first time. You’re getting ready to go to bed. The second you drop trou she is judging you, believe it or not. Or if she sees you just out of the shower, or pool, or even in a cool room. Or say she reaches in and grabs your dick before it is completely hard. Even if you pound her later with a big erection, that first feel, touch or sight of it is engraved in her mind, and it will sway her assessment of you even if you do have a big erection, it wont feel as big to her if she has already determined you are small.

To me it’s important to look good flaccid. First impressions carry a lot of weight.