Is It In Yet????

I get the “no free lunch” bit, but didn`t she get value from the righteous railing?

He did say he had a hell of a time with the girl, but realised that it wasn`t going to be a regular thing for him as she was “temperamental” to use his words. Lots of “I want this” and “that`s fucked”, and so on. Typical daddies little girl shit.

I`m 50 and my step-daughter`s friends run the spectrum from fresh teen to big trouble. I leave that shit to my step-son, and even he`s not equipped to cope sometimes.

I’m 20 and almost 21 and a virgin, the last time I put my dick in a girl, she said those words, I was 18 and believe it or not was with her for a year wihtout having sex once, I eventually ended it due to sexual frustration.

I have never been able to get a good erection when it comes to the down and dirty and I feel like it’s destroyed my life, but being a virgin I believe has made me extremley wise and spiritual.

I always have girls gagging to get in my pants aswell but just don’t have the confidence to flirt because of the potential outcome.Yer I’m pretty fucked.

BPEL=6” EG=4.5”

Your pretty much normal sized, it was most likely a case of not a good erection. You need to find if that issue is mental or physical. So as far as size goes start a routine and after a while you might end up on the large size if you have the will to stick with it.

Sorry this does not compute.

I’m getting married in less than a month. I’m 27 and she’s about five and a half years older than me. She looks quite young though. She’s an teacher at a university and sometimes campus security confuses her for a student. We’ve been together for seven years (separated for a year after the third or the fourth year).

First time we have sex she literally said "are you in me?" Can’t believe I’m marrying this girl LOL. I guess I had poor EQ due to SSRI’s I was taking at the time and she was "too wet" (sigh, we know that this is no excuse). I can make her cum like half of the time (through intercourse). I’m 16 cm (6”) long, 13 cm (5”) around. I know that I am normal. But also know that normality has nothing to do with sufficiency. It only informs us about the frequency of something happening, not it’s quality. People always do this. They confuse normal with natural in causal speech, and in the case of penis size, normal with sufficient. Normal doesn’t mean sufficient. Normality is an objective attribute, while sufficiency/quality is quite subjective and depends on expectations. God/Nature didn’t mean normal to be sufficient; especially for higher expectations. They also do this with the question of "does it matter?" Well, do you mean "does it have an effect" or "is it really important?"

I’ll try this analogy: If you’ve ever had weed, you know that there are different qualities. I know some guys who smoked in college and then stopped and have one occasionally. I also know some others, who constantly look for the best quality and the best high. It really depends on your character type. Some people are euphoria-addicts. To them, the intensity of euphoria/pleasure matter a lot. To others, they just like the whole experience.

Sex is no different. Orgasm is a natural high. As Trainspotting tells us, only heroin can beat meat injection :D But meat injection is legal and healthier :P In short, for some people it really matters. So if "does size matter" means "is it important" these kind of people will confirm without hesitation. The others would say "nah". But I don’t think neither would mean "no, it has no effect whatsoever." Well, there are people who say so, but we all know that this is bullshit.

Anyone who had sex knows that size "has an effect". I’ve been a lurker, and a half-assed PE student. There was this one time that I PE’d regularly and took a gas station pill named VitroBull or something, and got thicker/harder. She came like crazy. She asked me what I did, and I told her that I did "a kind of exercise" and she said "do it from now on" (in a sweet way). I didn’t. But I was sure by then that it "had an effect."

I’m starting to feel that she’s not interested in me as she used to be. I can relate to this guy very well. I think this is happening because she’s not satisfied. I don’t think she’s doing it intentionally. No one can be blamed for his/her emotions. It’s just an unconscious reaction. We know that hung men get more sex. We know that after gains, many people had an increased frequency and women initiating sex. Less "oh it hurts, let’s stop" or "I’m too tired."

I have to say I don’t want a bigger dick for her. I want it for me. Because I want to be desired, not being treated as a chore in bed.

Thanks for listening.

P.S: I’m not a native speaker.

I would never have known. Good post.

Co-signed, dude!

I’ve had sex with over 100 women and I have had good experiences (the girl was tight) and horrible experiences (is she feeling this?!?! lol) In March of 2010 I decided to do PE because I wanted a larger penis and my wife, after our second child, wasn’t tight and she is not the type of person I can say “Hey, do some kegels!” lol

I did have one experience with a girl who broke up with me after I got drunk and arrested (it was overseas and I was in the Army). After she broke up with me she told my group of friends I was as small as a quarter around. I remember hanging out with them and my roommate mentioned this and I knew he was smaller than me (he was around 5 inches) so I whipped out my penis and showed everyone. That ended that dispute. It still bothered me because the boyfriend she had before me was rumored to be very large. And based on her loose V-Jay, he had to be huge.

At the time I was around 6.75 inches erect and 4.8 inches EG (not big by any means) (I assume that because those were my measurements in March of 2010. Anyway, after my wife had kids, and reminiscing about my previous lovers, I decided to take matters into my own hands and start PE.

As of today I am 8 inches BPEL and 5.5 EG. It only took one year. I am in this until I am 9 x 6. My main focus is on girth now.

I haven’t told my wife directly that I am doing PE but she knows. The other day she said “Whatever you are doing to your penis, stop. It is big enough.” It is not big enough for me yet!

Actually that is well above average. Perhaps not compared to how you measure now, but are you really inspiring anyone who is striving for six or seven inches by downplaying such a decent size like that?

Over 100 women? I feel the need of a shower to get clean just for replying to this post.

Hahaha, nice. I agree, it´s not huge or anything, but well decent. I guess if you score 100 chicks, you´re going have some bad experiences regardless of your penis size.

Interesting reads as to all the things that motivate us men to enlarge our reproductive organ.

Will have to remember to post in here later after my exam.

My realization first started with porn, but I would always remind myself that these guys were hired based on their size (much like the ladies are hired for their big boobs & butts) and are probably rare in the general population. This was actually true, so it was able to keep my fears at bay.

I couldn’t help but notice that I was still small. And when I would turtle in my flaccid, I’d get scary small. I knew I wasn’t micro, but I wasn’t sure how close to “average,” I was. So it was my scouring of the multiple PE forums that essentially was my “is it in yet?” moment. I found it remarkable that people on messageboards, including TP, would be reporting girths no less than 4.5”, maybe 4.25” once in a blue moon. Here I was, at 3.5” MSEG, realizing that I was the classic pencil. My BPEL with the best EQ possible was 5”. I was genuinely small. This was confirmed by websites I thought only small guys would come to in order to correct their perceived shortcomings. I learned that these websites actually attract all sizes & motives, but to this day I’ve only found 2 members with comparable girths. I sometimes reassured myself that the real small guys were too embarrassed to post and simply lurked.

Another aspect of realizing I was small (most especially in the girth department) was having to use “Snugger Fit,” condoms because the REGULAR types had a tendency to slip if my EQ wasn’t holding up. Once the local pharmacy near my house stopped stocking them on the shelves (but had no problem replacing that section with more Magnums), I had to go online to order myself a batch.

I can gladly say that my girth issue seems to have been resolved mostly. I’m back on this forum to refocus all my energies on achieving some length. Hopefully gaining as much as an inch NBPEL would really be thrilling. A better hanging flaccid and improved EQ are also goals.

What did you do for the gains? Especially length?

I’m proud to say Magnum XL is tight to roll down, and if you continue yours will be too.

Does the question “Are you in yet” always mean that you’re too small?

I remember having to ask my ex whether I was in her yet, and her having to ask me, too, despite the fact that she was painfully(in a very good way) tight at times, and I was pretty large for her.