A lot of the stories here have sickened me to the bone. Some of them seem so painful, I almost get traumatized myself by only reading them.
One thing I can say, from a background in psychology, is that men have always been insecure about their penis size, and girls know it! Most of them do at least, and some of them very much like that power. In general, women are more intelligent socially, and where they lack physical strength compared to men, they are able attack you viciously when it comes down to insecurities. Women attack each other all the time in the most subtle, cold ways (most of the time men don’t notice that psychological warfare), penis size is actually one of the few very effective tools which they can use to intimidate men. Some of the women do that out of resentment, other’s are just sociopaths and do it for power. (And some women indeed like BDSM so much that for them pain equals pleasure, and they long for the biggest dicks imaginable.)
Anyway, if you get targeted by one of those malevolent girls out there, reflect on this:
- Were you really not meant to notice her ‘disappointment’? Maybe she just thinks less of you, and therefore her perception of your dick is altered as well. Or she’s just tricked you and tried to hurt you. Because I’ve never experienced a girl myself that was totally into me, and who was interested in my dick size as a condition for sexual satisfaction.
- When you I ‘overheard’ her talking to friends, are you sure you were not meant to hear that? Or was this a way of getting to you?
Also: just like men can brag about big asses and breasts, maybe women do the same for big dicks? Funny fact is that the dildo market has
Always been dominated by male industrial designers until quite recently, always coming up with huge hard plastic units. Since there are more female industrial designers, dildos are now often a lot smaller, vibrating in various forms, and made of soft silicone ‘skin’.
- ‘When she’s said ‘she’s seen bigger’: how metrically precise do you think her perception really is? Maybe it’s just her perception of you? Or how did the topic come up in the first place? Your insecurities? Maybe because of that alone the perception of your penis has just shrunk two inches. (Fact: men’s spatial perception is far more accurate then women’s). For sure she’s not literally measured anything.
- Is it in yet? Same questions. But most importantly, how hard was your erection? Because with the bones and muscles in my thin index finger, I can make almost any woman come, in my experience, explosively!
- For looser vagina’s, yes, it might be quite obvious they need thicker dicks for the right amount of friction.. You can feel that, because you obviously also feel less pleasure yourself (!) than with more average or tighter girls.
- And the other way around: for two of my very well endowed friends (they always needed to buy special XL condoms, which they experienced as awkward.), they actually tore their foreskin once because of too much friction.. I still want a bigger dick myself, but sometimes I miss these examples in the bigger picture.
My own insecurities also brought me to this forum of course. I’ve not had any of the cruel experiences described above, but I have been belittled and humiliated in all kind of other ways.
As a fact check, I can really recommend this YouTube video from an expert, presenting these amazing up to date graphs on both length and girth. With 7 inches in length I apparently belong to the top 3 percent of the world.. With 4.9 inches in girth I belong to the top 30%..
Check it out yourself: