Is It In Yet????

It was online only, so it’s possible it was not female, however I feel like that is a cop-out and there’s many variables here.

There isn’t really a way to grasp size from a picture unless there’s a frame of reference. I’ve seen dudes who had 8 or close to 9 inches and it looks the same as mine from a picture.

All that is true and you’re right I didn’t exactly put effort into making it look big! My thing is, under promise, over deliver! I play down my size actually when they ask “are you big?”. I ask them first, ”what is big? Give me a number”, they never do. I have a buddy who does the opposite to me, he uses all the angles etc to make it look a lot bigger than it is (he’s about 5”). The guy never ends up banging the chicks though, where as I do, so he never has to deal with the awkwardness of pulling out something that looks nothing like the dick pic he sent them! Obviously if I exaggerate the size of my tool, it might not be that bad as I’m ultimately pulling out nearly 8”. Still not my thing though, but a better pic is due, you’re right.

To your other point, my fat pad is about 1” and actually my dick doesn’t look that big at all in pics. idk why, probably because we’re talking about 7” NBPEL, that’s not that long looking to me. Probably the good old dysmorphia we all suffer from kicking in also. I’ve seen people’s pics here and some might be over 7” or whatever and I’m just looking at it thinking, that doesn’t look that big at all. But with some other pics you’re thinking the opposite but they might be the same dimensions! Strange! I saw one dude, he was 8” and he looked about 2” bigger than me, so strange! Another dude was rocking 7” and it looked like 5” to me!

No I didn’t know her and anything is possible! I’ve met up with a lot of these chicks and they turn out to be women. Anyway, if I worried about that, I wouldn’t use any dating apps. The worst a ‘guy’ could do is jerk off to my dick pic, not ideal I know, but definitely not the end of the world. Hahah. I’m not a fan of sending those pics anyway, but yeah sometimes chicks want them.

Lol, they’re a finicky bunch! There’s no way I’m resting my happiness on what other people say or think! Well, at least strangers that is! That’s not why got you into PE is it?

Nah, I’ve had much more trauma inducing comments than these. I had a woman tell me she fucked a guy strictly because he had a big dick. Like she found out from a co-worker and ended up having a 3 year relationship with the guy. He was ugly as sin and worked at a fast food restaurant. She couldn’t even name one other redeeming thing about him except that he had a big dick. Then when I got uncomfortable about it, she said “dick size isn’t everything”, but she literally dated a dude just for that.

This one in particular fucked me up, because I thought she was “the one” at one point.

It’s like some women are programmed to say stuff to inflict damage, isn’t it? Just to mess with you a bit.

I remember a girl telling me mine’s big but then, almost as if she realised that she didn’t want to boost my ego too much, added “for a white guy”. In one sentence she managed to make me feel good and then inadequate.

In the middle of a nasty fight “Btw Tom had a really big penis. Such a big dick. MAN that was a big cock! And yes, it was a lot bigger than yours. And it was awesome.” (I’m not that small, so this dude must have had a pretty big cock)

My dumbass fault for asking about this huge dude she was talking about earlier on that day. It made me insecure as fuck. So here I am!

Of course that motherfucker’s name was Tom lol. And of course he was 6’5”. Blah blah blah.

In some kind of sick self deprecating way I’m glad she threw that shit in my face, because if she didn’t I don’t think I would have gone looking for solutions. I thought I was stuck with what I got. I always wanted a bigger cock, but thought it was unattainable. I’m bigger now. Not a ton bigger, but a little fatter and about more than a half inch longer. She reacts positively to it, but she doesn’t know I do PE.

Seems like you’ve known some screwed up women bro! I think a lot of them have that in them, where much of the time stuff is said for effect! To cause you damage, to bring you down! There’s no doubt that words can affect even the strongest mind to some degree, especially if they had a special place in your heart! I’ve never suffered those comments thank god, I was 6.5x5.5 BPEL prior to PE so in all actuality I used to get positive comments a lot. Anyway, if it wasn’t your cock it would be something else they’d target, unfortunately that’s nasty people for you.

I’m not 100% sure why I got into PE, could it be I fell in love with the positive comments? Despite the fact I know women lie and most of the comments may have been insincere! Could it be like most dudes I just wanted a bigger schlong? Or maybe because one FWB’s was always telling me about dudes she had with massive ones and how her face would light up when she’d talk about it, which may have had some effect! Not sure it matters why we do PE, as long as a part of it is for us I guess.

She sounds like poison my dude! As though she’d say and do anything to psychological bring you back to a place where she can dominate your head! Well done getting rid of that and congrats on the gains!

Picture the inverse:

‘By the way, Amy had a really tight pussy. Such a tight girl. Damn she was so tight. And yes, she was a lot tighter than you. And it was awesome.’

Imagine saying that to a girl you were dating. How awful would that be. Would you ever say something like that? I suspect very few men would.

Doesn’t sound like the kind of person I could be in love with.

Oh, and I read Russell’s story from a few years ago. I don’t like to be the type to claim things are fake or false but this story just doesn’t add up.

No dude is gonna sit there and watch his girlfriend get pounded, and then also try to stay with her afterwards. It just comes off written like some cuckold fantasy.

I’ve had my share of eye-opening experiences in my lifetime, plenty of ups and downs through the PE years, but what he wrote looks like fiction.

I had my moment when I was ten and saw the ‘big’ guys in the locker room.

It became part of my identity and the way I feel in general.

I was obsessed with size.

No comments from women but sex felt constraint sometimes.

I am doing this for me and not for anyone else.

Now the obsession has gone and it is more like sports.

Honestly most of them aren’t that big from my experience.

Some penises have almost the same flaccid and erect length. So 3” flaccid can sometimes be bigger then 6” flaccid while erect.

The only cock I seem to remember seeing as a kid was a guy who I thought had no cock, but must have really been a shower… The cold is no penises friend.

I suspect we all have, to some degree, had a lifetime of comparing ourselves to others. Yes, gym classes in elementary school, then junior and senior high, plus team locker rooms and showers. While never paying much attention, you do see! I recall the ordinary, plus the guys with the proverbial clock tower swinging down. In adulthood, the locker rooms were even more striking, though sometimes for the older guys with balls seemingly to their knees!😜 I have always considered myself more of a grower, and didn’t worry too much, while assuming I was “average.” But, a downward look foreshortens actual perspective, and it turns out I was always above “average,” which is reassuring. But, who wants to be high average, or just into large? Anyway, all of us here will probably continue to compare, to the extent we can, but really only lovers count, and have the best perspectives.