Is PE mainly just for ourselves?

I just want to throw some thoughts out there for all of us who are here for one reason: to get bigger schlongs. I have a friend who boasts 8 inches. He always has and I have no reason to believe he is lying. Odd thing is, his wife doesn’t seem to care. In the past she would brag about how big her husband is, but talking to him tells a different story. According to him and the things the wife tells my wife, their sex life is almost non existent. So an 8 inch dong is apparently NOT always the answer. Sure, this is one person/couple, but I found it interesting.

I also found it interesting that I have added over one inch to my schlong. My wife and I have always had a great sex life, but I told her the other day that she is truly proof positive that a bigger dick really doesn’t make a difference. She asked why I said that. I said, “Look, if women really cared that much about big dicks, why aren’t you all over mine, touching it, grabbing it?” Not that I’m expecting her to worship it, but whether it’s 7 1/8 inches or 5 7/8 inches, she has never treated my dick differently. One would think that with a bigger dick, my wife would love it more and make more comments about it. Or maybe that’s just what I expected in my mind.

Anyway, the point of my post? In my own experience and my friend’s experience, it seems that we men put way more emphasis on our penises than women do. Maybe it’s just certain women, mostly one night stand women who place the higher emphasis on size but committed women really couldn’t care less. So is PE mainly for your own ego and satisfaction? Or do we do it because we think women will respect and crave us more? Thoughts?

I am enlarging my dick for my own ego. I don’t practice PE for my girlfriend at all. She absolutely loves my girth, but it’s not like she is horny for my dick 24/7 just because I have a big dick. When I grow an extra inch we will still fuck about as frequently as we do now. An extra inch or two will do wonders for random hookups, though.

I’m currently single (and a virgin, to be honest) and I’m doing PE entirely for my own benefit. A bigger penis would be a massive ego boost.

It’s for me first and theny wife. I want to be bigger and won’t stop until I’m at my goal.

I guess this was part of the reason for the post - if you found the right woman who loved you for who you are, penis and all, would you still feel the need to do PE? I mean, WHY would it be an ego boost? Because of other men? I think my desire for a bigger schlong honestly goes back to every public restroom experience where there are no dividers and the fear of always being the one with the little dick. So all in all, my PE is so other GUYS envy me.

Talk amongst yourselves…

Well it’s the same thing with working out. It’s for you first but ultimately for your significant other as well. Currently I’m single so PE is purely for “my” benefit but as someone who hopes to be happily married one day it’s also for the continual pleasure of my future wife. :D

Anything dealing with appearance will always be for you as well as your partner/future partner. So it will mostly likely be a combination of both in the majority of cases.

For myself. I don’t think I’m small at all, I’m 7 1/8 x 5 5/8 but it’s knowing I could improve it just like I can improve my body though bodybuilding. I like having goals and trying to reach them.

Ditto. My last boyfriend was pretty happy with my dick size, but I still want it to be bigger to satisfy my own ego. There’s something awesome about knowing you have a big snake in your trousers. Especially a thick one. I’m aiming for 8”x6”. I’m also quite competitive, and dick size is no exception.

I see it as part of an overall body improvement regime. Just because your significant other doesn’t necessarily derive any additional satisfaction from you improving your physique, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t for it’s own benefits, particularly to your confidence, and especially when there’s no reason to think they’ll be with you forever.

That’s true, Girthfirst, when we make ourselves happy first the resulting confidence makes us all the more attractive to those around us.

I originally did it thinking my wife would enjoy an extra inch. She always said she didn’t want more but I figured she must be just making me feel good about my size. Turns out, she really didn’t want more and really was happy with what I had. She still enjoys it but would go with less if given the choice.

Once I found out it was possible and it was working for me, it became a quest for me. I try to be above average and then some in all areas of my life and this is no exception.

It’s just something to do that happens to be more beneficial than most hobby’s.

Well I can answer a few of your questions through many first hand and personal experiences.

Every ex of mine (4 long term girlfriends) have said it was either: “1.The thickest they have seen, 2. Bigger than they can believe, or 3. It hurts and any more size would possibly be a downside.”

However, when I would grow, it didn’t hurt any more for the ones who were sensitive about it. My girlfriend now had an ex who was “reportedly” .5 longer (8.5”) but I kind of doubt it, and his girth was apparently way smaller. I never trust girls with size measurements but she says mine is the biggest all around, and she has hooked up with a decent amount of people. So why do I still wear my extender all the time? Well I want 8” NBP, which if I would lose about 15 lbs I would probably have, but I am not willing to cut down as I bulk almost year round. I would rather make it altogether larger versus just more of it showing.

I’ve always been comfortable with my size and always able to please the women I’ve slept with. But I long for an “oh shit” moment when I pull down my pants. Psychologically exciting.

I’d say it’s for the ladies. It is also for my confidence but that has a lot to do with approaching ladies in the future because I am not stressing over whether I’m sufficient in that “department,” to satisfy.

I do it for myself primarily. But my wife gets a bigger phsychological kick out of it than she lets on.