Spiro,
To a strong degree I can relate to your thinking… All is not lost Brother, nor is everything as it seems… By many peoples standards I started out fairly large, and while I *did* have a hir trigger on my prick it has been fixed for many months now… In the 8 plus years I’ve been with my wife she has only had two orgasms (multiple), ONCE… I’ve got the comment “thats too deep” and ”slow’ down” but many times she does not orgasm UNLESS she uses the SPECIAL DEVICE as I call it… My wife has this tiny egg shaped device called a space controller that has several speeds and vibration modes… That damn thing gets her off EVERY time and I’ve got used to just piggy backing on this Darth Vader type viabrator to her orgasm… I think all of us to a greater degree want to be the *all* in our girls lives and when we realize that some things get them off better then we ourselves can, then it fucks us up… I know it sure does that to me…
My wife uses THE DEVICE about 98% of the time that we have sex…. While the tool is tiny (smaller then a marble) it has the same impact on me as your wife liking a larger dildo does on you…
A pump would drastically increase your girth like right now.. The increase would be termporary but last several hours… You could easy hit 6.5” of girth after an hour of low pressure pumping and with your current length it’s a no brainer as to what her reaction would be…
Lots of us here have had painful things happen with the wemon we love.. I know all about dealing with feelings of insecurity due to an affair can be devastating, also feeling that we somehow are not enough or lacking in some area to give the wemon we love all of the pleasure we *think they want*…
Thanks for telling us this, I know I’m right with ya on this one!
Regularwhiteguy