More evidence of size importance: Dildo Test

Thanks for all the responses.

So what was I thinking? First, I know she’s used larger objects on herself before; it’s not like my doing this made her feel things she’s never felt before. Secondly, I wanted to satisfy her in any way possible. I’m sure she appreciated my sacrifice, if only physically.

Of course, I don’t think I’d ever have tried this if I didn’t know that PE works. Now that I’ve done this, there’s no doubt in my mind that I’d like to be bigger. It’s not just for me now, but her as well. She doesn’t know that I do PE yet .. I’d like her to figure it out for herself :)

I don’t think her arousal had much of anything to do with the novelty of a toy. I think something that *did* play a role, though, is the way it can be manipulated. With a dildo, I can go in hard and fast for a very long time and only slightly wear my arm out. This is so much easier than moving my whole body. In this sense, I’ll never be able to compete with the thing. I don’t mind this aspect nearly as much, since NO one would be able to fuck as fast as an arm can be moved.

I might try the me-sized dildo next time, or I might not .. it’s not really important to me now. In any event, you all would have to wait quite a while for the results, as she won’t be back for 3 months.

I’m not trying to scare anyone away from PE. I don’t see how my post could do anything but the opposite, anyway. I just wanted to share my grief, and pass on some of the motivation it has given me.

There will always be devices/objects/etc that can outperform anyone. That doesn’t stop me from trying to be the biggest and best I can be, though.

Could it be that she was really turned on to be fucked by the dildo. Im not saying its size doesnt help but im sure she just really got off on the fact you fucked her with the dildo, considering its illegality. I strongly dought she would use the dildo and get off with it without you there, you must consider the physiological factor.

Spiro,
You hit it in one, it’s not necessarily the size, but the stimulation provided by varying the speed and the thrusting angle. A little tongue work thrown in, maybe a finger for her butt. Of course she’s going to get much more stimulation than regular sex.

No one can thrust quickly for a long time, with a dildo you can swap hands.

Also maybe it’s a mental thing, relaxing into it because both her and your focus is just on getting her off.

I like it that you’ve seen the positive benefits. 3 months to do some serious training then a helluva reunion.

Hey sorry for the venom, obviously I can relate to feelings of inadequacy when it comes to dildos. They never get soft, and can come in any size imagineable. I guess I’m from the school of thought where if you’re using dildos, than you must not be delivering the goods yourself, and that’ll wreck your self esteem. But who ever said I had a healthy outlook? I wouldn’t be against dildo play, but it sure would intimidate me to fuck a girl I cared for with a dildo larger than me.

There is a moral to the story, and after the initial bruising of the ego, like a broken bone, will grow back stronger. There is a light at the end of this tunnel though, since gaining an impressive size is not impossible, it just takes so long when meanwhile a chick can grab a huge rubber dong and get that instant gratification right away.

When I first joined here, I was bummed out by these posts, and in a way, they can still get me. But strangely enough, the bigger my dick gets…the more quietly confident I become.

Sorry I tend to always look at the darkside first, but as with the light side, one cannot exist without the other.

Also… you certainly are lucky to be with a mature, empathetic, and sensitive partner who cares about how you feel and it sounds like she’d go out of her way to make you feel good. That kind of stuff is golden, man.

Comes as a no shock, no shock at all.

Prickle,

I must say, your 180 was very touching. Another indication of why this place is so great: the people are open-minding and compasionate. A true sign of greatness. Thanks for sharing.

Prickle wrote
>>but it sure would intimidate me to fuck a girl I cared for with a dildo larger than me.>>
I feel the same way, i would never buy a dildo for my girl that was bigger than me. Problem solved.

Prickle wrote
>>since gaining an impressive size is not impossible, it just takes so long when meanwhile a chick can grab a huge rubber dong and get that instant gratification right away.>>

Wrong, if a girl wants REAL PERSONAL gratification she will use her finger on her clit or put a vibrator against her clit. In one way or another it would be cliteral stimulation not vaginal insertion.

This is cool idea! I will make a candle condom dildo!

Super excellent.

But yeah, agree with all the negative hateful bullshit about how it is no good that shit is better than you> In fact, I have had experiences lateltly that have altered my perceptions of all this stuff. but It doesn’t change the fact that I am going to aim for super-monster mega size penis master…. althuogh it doesn’t seem to be happeneing!! GO WITH THE FLOWQ!!

Spiro,

I can’t stand to see you or anyone else torture themselves over this type of silliness. Consider this:

No matter how much PE time you put in you will never ever become a wax dildo. The goddamn thing is made of hardened wax and is the size of a sapling tree trunk! Even if you personally attain the same exact dimensions as your masterpiece (or even bigger) unless you inject liquid iron into your dick it will always feel like a human dick to your lady. Which is what you want.

Everything everyone has said about the naughty nature of the act itself is true. This and the fact that your wax johnson has such a “foreign” feel is what spun your ladies head.

Grow your penis. It’s a noble pursuit! But surprise yourself and your girl by working on other new and different ways of pleasing her. Earlier in this thread you noted that after sex she felt unsatisfied. THAT my friend is where you should focus your attention. Use your mind and body. Use her mind and body.

It sounds as if this thread has helped you some - but you also sound like someone susceptible to screwing himself up even further with this nonsense.

Please, don’t compare yourself - a human being with a soul - to a piece of boiled down wax.

It’s silly.

CapthnHook hit it on the nose, IMO. I’ve personally noticed better performance in myself (in anything I do) if I’m more confident in doing it. For example, I’ll play much better in a video game against a peer, if I fancy myself the superior gamer. For some reason I’m more relaxed and make fewer mistakes.

If you compare yourself to the wax and try to be something that you’ll never be, your effectivness may be greatly diminished on account of trying to be more like the wax! Trust me, your girl would choose you over a prop anyday, just as you’d choose her over whacking off, despite perhaps having a larger ejaculation when doing so. So do as the good Capt’n says and just work on satisfying your girl.

And be thankful you have such a caring and empathetic mate. Fuck, be thankful you have a mate at all! :)

Good luck brother,

Thanks for sharing that with us spiro. As dino put it, it is fuel.

I do think that she appreciated it.

Wow, so this is the infamous thread. I stay in the basement too much. I miss some good stuff up here at times.

First and foremost, thanks Stevie for the toy link you shared. Great stuff there!! I found stuff I would not mind having at all.

Second, great idea on making a dildo. That’s damn ingenious. I have to try that one time. I assume the skillet has to be non-stick. Does the hot wax melt the condom? How many times did you try before you got it right? How long do you let the wax sit before pouring? Do you wait until it starts to film up a little? (Can you tell I am interested?)

Third, why are dildos illegal? I know many asked but I never read a legitimate reason. Also, since it was something different, I think she got off on it mainly because something new is usually exciting. You were trying something new on her that was sexual and intimate because you made it for her to please her. That alone can make someone get off. So I wouldn’t focus much on that.

What makes you think she was trying not to react the next time you tried? Was there some conversation that you might have failed to mention that cause her to think that you felt insecure about her climaxing with the dildo? Maybe she was trying not to react because she told you that she didn’t want you to use it on her, yet you had anyway, so she in turn didn’t want to give you the satisfaction of being as turned on as she was before. (Assuming she thinks you must be turned on by her response since you insist on using it again on her).

There was something else I was going to mention but I forgot now. Besides I get nervous when I come upstairs. It’s in office buildings. The higher floors have the most intimidating people up there.

Hi,

I think its the material of most of the dildos around.

My girlfriend uses a crocodile dildo (yes, LOL), and because of its material it surely has _much_ more grip then a cock, that means her pussy feels more intensively. I dont know the name of the material, but its very “grippy”.

That means even if u have a very big cock, its hard for a man to give the pussy the same friction as a dildo with that grippy material.

:Cya:

Spiro,

I hear ya man, I’m here for the EXACT same reason. I bought my girlfriend an 8x6 and we hadn’t really used it to too much of an extent. We’d have sex, and I knew how hard it was to get her off, sometime she still tries to fake it (we won’t even go there in this post).

So last time I was with her, instead of the sex, I used the dildo I got her. The *way* I used it really wasn’t much different than the way I’d use myself. She came within 10 minutes, saying “wow, it’s never felt that good before”. So we’re in the same boat. I was demoralized by a stupid cheap toy, and she, also sensing how I felt, tried to lie later saying she didn’t know why she said that, it wasn’t THAT great. I’m really bitter towards the thing now too.

So that’s why I’m here too! I knew right away it was the girth of the thing that did it for her! The length wasn’t an issue, because it didn’t all fit in her anyways, but at that point she even admitted she’d like the idea of me being thicker. There’s my fuel, and it’s gotten me through solidifying a new routine. Good luck with your endeavour man, let’s see how things go.

Dildos are our enemy! But also something that can kickstart you into PE.
My girl get a dildo in the class 6,9 x 5,5. I was at the time 5,3 x 4,9 and she yell wow when she wrapped it out of the box. I could have killed the friend that gave her the present. 6 mnd. Earlier she bought a dildo her self. I was with her and she would have something in my size ( by the time ). When I see the two pvc enemies I saw the difference. And what about my feeling about this……. Well I have reached the stats of 7,3 EBPL x 5,5 so I have beat the pvc enemy, and it’s funny to look at the dildo that she bought in compared size of the “old me”. Further gains seems difficult. I’m sometimes measuaring 7,5 x 5,5 but I’m not stable there so I can not say that it’s a 7,5.

Goal……. well….. 9 x 6. Must I live long…… I would really call the “thing” peewee……