More evidence of size importance: Dildo Test

I thought I’d share my recent ego-crushing, but PE-motivating experience with you all … Maybe you’ve had a similar experience, but hopefully not. If not, maybe you’ll benefit from mine!

I recently acquired (ok, MADE) a dildo for my girlfriend (dildos are illegal here in TX… only vibrators, sold as “massagers” or “instructional tools used for contraception” can be legally sold). I made it quite a bit larger than myself (in girth), which perhaps I shouldn’t have done…. I gave it to her as a present, and soon afterward was able to use it on her.

So we had sex for a while…. I was finished, and she wasn’t quite satisfied, so I pulled out the dildo and used it on her. The effect was astounding (it’s around 7.5 X 6.5, while I’m about 7.5 X 5.5). Within 30 seconds of wiggling/thrusting it around inside her, she came multiple times … and I was not trying hard at all. I’ve made her orgasm with vaginal sex maybe ONCE, and never multiple times. While it turned me on to do this to her, it also devestated me, and made me feel quite inadequate… she’s pretty sensitive/empathic, so she sensed this huge dive into depression for myself, and what had caused it.

Again curious to satisfy her the next day, I suggested using it on her, and she said “that’s only for private use!” to spare my ego further harm, I assume. I used it again despite her protests. She didn’t realize that there was no way to hurt it any more…. it was dead :P Anyway, she tried very hard not to squirm and show signs of immense pleasure as she had the previous day, but there was no denying the intense orgasm she had at the end of the session, despite her attempts to muffle it.

I asked her about it, and of course she gave the expected “sensitive female” answer : “I prefer you!” Yeah, she prefers me as a person over that piece of wax; however, there’s no denying the fact that she’d much prefer the dildo’s size to be mine, and perhaps would be in heaven at a much larger size.

I’d known size was of importance before, but had never been able
to witness the difference myself.

Oh well! I’ve gotten over this, mostly. It has just made me even more dedicated to PE than I was before.

Shit, that’s a good thread. I always worried about size when I was with my girlfriend even though she was a virgin and had had nobody else. Alot of the time it also hurt her too much for me to go in, but if she was really horny then I could pound pretty good and she would love it. Even so, it would have killed me to know that she had a dildo that she liked better than my penis. I mean, I would have been severely depressed if that had happened. Even after we broke up I would sometimes worry that she would find someone bigger than me and like it better. Anyway, I hope you find some good girth routines that work for you. My current goal is 6.5” girth, I guess yours probably is too now :) .

8x6 is the number one selling sized dildo!!!

It takes a man to admit all this. Greeet post, mate.

Now go get the rest of that inch in girth.

>I thought I’d share my recent ego-crushing, but PE-motivating experience with you all.

That’s what it’s all about. You have to flip these normally demoralizing situations into fuel for PE.

Just curious, how did you make a dildo?

>Just curious, how did you make a dildo?

Hopefully from nothing that splinters too easily.

Hmm…. my goal is what it’s always been : whatever I can get, I’ll take. If she starts complaining about my size, I guess it’s time to stop whatever type of routine increases what she’s complaining about.

I’m working mostly on length, now, though. I’ll go mainly for girth once I’m happy with length. According to many PE veterans, this is the way many wish they had gone.

How I made a dildo: candles (for the wax), skillet (for heating the candles), funnel (for transferring the wax to the condoms), condoms (one for the shaft/head, another afterwards for the base)

I’m a poor bastard…. no $$ to order one. self-made is probably more fun anyway. Also, it had the lovely aspect of being a gift from the ‘heart’ since it was self-made and had the shape, at least, of my own penis.

> Hopefully from nothing that splinters too easily.
That was my first thought. I imagined a wooden dildo fresh off the lathe.

> How I made a dildo: candles (for the wax), skillet (for heading the candles), funnel, condom
Rather ingenious, I never would have thought of that.

Just a thought…

Is it possible that it was the use of the dildo, not neccessarily the size, that brought her off?

I’m not denying the size factor entirely, but as so much of good sex seems to be psychological, is it possible the novelty of using a toy on her had a stimulating effect?

Could you do an experiement? Make a dildo the exact same size as your dick, then try it on her…report back.

N.

Really? I thought it was smaller than that. Is 8x6 meaning bp or nbp?

I guess the entire dildo is 8x6, and she needs somewhere to hold it at the bottom. So I guess it could be counted as BP. Or?

My wife has an 8” long dildo.
She can’t take the whole thing. Looks like she gets about 6.75” of it in, thats all.

Spiro,
I think that it was the innovation that she found stimulating.
No need to get intimidated by a dildo, let her have her fun.

Why are dildos illegal in Texas?

walter,

Don’t you recall that infamous sex shop massacre a couple of years ago? Guy went nuts and beat some peep show customers to death with a Sean Michaels dildo repo.

Threads of this kind are thoroughly depressing, and there’s an awful lot of them on the boards lately.

While it is good to get things off your chest by talking about them, it also breeds discouragement. The amount of people who regularly post here is minimal compared to members who do not post. I’m speaking for the silent majority here. You’re gonna spook people right outta PE.

Deep inside (or maybe right up front) we all know that bigger is better, we all want to get bigger, etc.. why else would we be here? Why reiterate the same truths over and over? Why keep rubbing salt in your wounds?

The original post really is an ego-crusher. But I can’t help but believe that it was self inflicted. I’m not into dildos, or props of any kind. When I’m with a girl, the only phallus she gets is mine. And even if I were into toys and shit, I sure as hell wouldn’t fuck her with anything even remotely bigger than my cock. Let her do that shit when she’s alone. What were you thinking, man?