I see where your coming from, but what is worse?? Lying to your self, when the mirror tells the truth? Or sticking it in a “bucket”, who tells you the same lie? I personally feel that I hit the wall with my exercises, and am not at my goal. Being very realistic about my goals, one can only go so far. I am not committed to surgery., but I am still open-minded to the fact that its more for me, than my wife. Confidence is a point of view. If you can buy complements to help yourself, then why bother with PE? The truth is also a point of view.. We do this for ourselves.. Not our lovers.