no more stealth pe for me

After missing my Thursday and Friday PE sessions last week I was feeling pretty down. I missed them because I had no time alone, not even half an hour to get some dry jelqs in. So what did I do about it? I told the wife everything.

Boy, you should have seen the look on her face. I thought she was going to fall of her stool.

The first thing I did was show her the little introduction bit above the forum list. Her mouth fell open, eyes popped out and said “so your telling me you want a penis enlargement”. I quickly told her under no circumstances was I going to let a surgeon near my dick with a scalpul again after being circumcised and told her about manual exercises.

Within half an hour of discussing what I was doing she asked if there was anything that she could do to help. I then knew it was the right thing to do. For me it was anyway. We have been together for ten years and she knows how I feel (felt) about my dick size.

Now, I have no worries of being caught with johnson’s baby gel all over my dick and hands and I can do my two on one off routine that I wanted to
do from the start.

That’s one less thing to worry about now and I can concentrate on getting a bigger dick.

murph

Good for you, man!

Fantastic, Murph! :up:

It probably would have been much worse if she found out by catching you and wondered why you never told her. May nothing impede your progress now!

Didn´t she pull the usual stuff “you´re fine as it is, dear”? But then again, you wrote that she asked “what she could do to help”. I just know that if I would tell my wife she would consider me a freak and a lunatic and run me from the house. Lucky you who have understanding wives.

Priapos

Right on, Murph

I told my wife a few weeks ago and she thinks I’m a freak and a lunatic and she (sometimes) wants to run me out of the house.

Many times have I heard “It’s fine as it is”. But I did tell her just before I showed her the home page that, no matter what I’ve got to do this. Looks like it paid off.

cheers guy’s.
murph

My Wife had resently gotten a tattoo (Very small in an inconspicuous spot) and she knew that I was feeling kind of left out. That was about the time I ran across this site. After doing a good amount of reading and deciding that this site wasn’t just a bunch of hooie, I told my wife that I wanted a larger penis. She thought that I meant surgery. After explaining PE to her, she told me that it was fine with her.

She doesn’t want to know what I’m doing to my penis, she just accepts it. I think that in time she’ll begin to enjoy the fruits of my labor more and more. :-k

‘If ya know what I mean.’:thumbs:

Good for you to be able to tell your wife. I have been married for over 20 years (and I’m 41) and have not told my wife about the PE stuff at all. She has noticed that I’m hornier and “dig a little deeper in the ditch”, and that I hang better flaccid but she hasnt verbalized anything just that great moaning that comes from great sex. Anyway youre right one less thing that you have to hide from the old lady.

Good luck

678

Good going murph, remember your the king of the castle and you don’t hide for no one.

Murph, you can be a pioneer in the new field of PEing with a partner. See if she can help you with stretches, or doing Uli squeezes. Maybe you can convince her the ulitimate lengthening exercise is anal sex.

Murph

you made a good choice. apparently the timing and your approach was right. I am glad I told the wife. I’m not actively PEing when I was it sure was a lot less stressful to have the wife know and not try to cover my tracks and worry that I left some evidence somewhere.

Your lucky that she was so supportive. I told my wife before I even got started that I wanted to get into PE. She got upset saying that she loved the size that it is and doesn’t want me to change it. I later found out that she was feeling a little insecure about are relationship and that perhaps I was doing this for someone else.

Although I believe her when she says that she is satisfied with my size, that doesn’t mean that I am satisfied with it. She has since lightened up about it, but Im not sure since we really haven’t discussed it since. Im not the kind of person that hides things from my mate, so I was really hoping that I would get the response that you did, to bad I didn’t :(

~Tox

I can only just keep it flaccid when I’m stretching, If she started stretching it, well there’s only one thing that’s going to happen. And I think we all know what that would be:) .

As for anal. Do you really think I could convince her that’s what BTC is. LOL.

Tox

Maybe your wife needs a little more reassuring that you’re doing this for nobody else but the two of you.

Cheers guy’s

murph

Way to go Murph. I have been preaching to everyone on the pumpers forum
to share PE with their wife-loved one. My wife is great about it all and gives me the
space and privacy I need to do my work outs. Hell, I even got her doing squeezes for
me when she goes down on me!!! How can you beat that!

koooky

Hi koooky
It would be great if everyone had the same positive response that you and I and many others have had. But I think many fear a negative response. I’m sure my tone would have been a lot different if my wife had reacted badly to me telling her.

Also, a blow-job and squeeze in one. great thinking bro.:)

murph