Passing it on

No family member told me about PE. Although I had an online friend on AOL when I was in my pre-teens to early teen years. He said something about squeezing mildly making the girth larger if done long enough over a period of time. After feeling so inadequate from watching porn movies with the big-dicked stars, I thought there had to be a way to increase the size of the penis, much like muscles. On the KaZaA network someone was hosting this free PDF (Document) about Natural Penis Enlargement. It explained the history, the theory, and most importantly, the techniques and subsequent routines. It explained stretching, jelqing, squeezing, and kegeling. I performed a few jelq sessions at 15 and noticed my flaccid was bigger.

The night before junior year of high school I made a commitment that I was going to PE religiously through the rest of high school, going from average to huge. I worked diligently for over 2 1/2 years, increasing my penile volume well over 75%.

My grandfather and dad both walked in on me doing hanging exercises. They have never brought it up, although they have noticed my ADS devices which I have worn over the years, telling by their glances.

I don’t think there’s any difference between bringing up working out or PE. In fact, I would want my sons to at least know about both from an early age, if not perform them!

If you told him to do 5 minutes of moderate stretching everytime he took a shit, from the time he was about 16 to 19. I could only think that would help and would be enhanced by the natural growth process.

No hanging, clamping, pumping or any extreme things should be mentioned. A light stretch with about 5 lbs of force.

I’m sorry to burst anyone’s bubble here but I have to speak up.

I can’t express to you how wrong it is to plant the seeds for penis size anxiety at such a young age. There was a time in my life when I didn’t even think about how big it was. If you think you are doing your son a favor by showing them something that could be physically and mentally detrimental, well, you’re not by any stretch of the imagination.

There are a number reasons of why a kid shouldn’t partake in this activity. Right off the bat, it is dangerous because they don’t have the discipline or patience to know how to do these kinds of things safely nor effectively. Even if you show them how or warn them, some might just go off and pull too hard.

Secondly, there is reason to believe this could stunt and not help growth. I know I got my size complex when I was 14 or 15 or so and started stretching. I didn’t gain anything from it, and who knows if it actually stunts natural growth by causing cells to repair and strengthen rather than multiply. If you really want to help your son, get them eating healthy (whole foods and avoid environmental toxins), make sure they get enough sleep and exercise, and then make sure that they don’t get into hardcore porn at the age of 13 or 14, because trust me some of us knew more about computers than our parents and could get away with it.

There is no dignity or heroism in telling your son about something so vain and possibly dangerous, it is pure delusion and self-righteousness. We are here either because we need to a way out of our own problem, or some of us are here for a recreational hobby. Now if you think your son might have a problem with his penis size during late adolescence, then maybe then try to help him out.

Take this or leave this, but if you go through with this, don’t expect your son to be thanking you down the road.

Wow, who would have guessed everyone has their own opinion!

From what I read here, I hear two very different takes on this. 10inchadvantage found PE in his early teens and he’s lived to tell about it with good results. No father on this forum wants to hurt their son, period. I can guarantee it.

The same thing was said about lifting at first, that it would stunt your growth. The fact of the matter is growth is genetic. Just like lifting isn’t going to stifle your height, PE isn’t going to stifle your natural penis growth.

Humpty, you’re making a judgement call on right and wrong. That’s for each father to decide for this own son. This forum is for how to let your son in on PE, not is it right or wrong. Some men may choose to wait until their sons are adults. Some men may let their sons in on PE during “the talk”. Other men will let their sons in on PE somewhere in the middle. Some men let their sons grow up from youngsters knowing about PE. It’s not our place to judge their parenting, even when we wouldn’t parent the same way.

I know I was making a strong judgement on the matter, and I understand that it is just an opinion. I just wanted to voice my opinion in order to make sure that you consider the full weight of opinions on matters such as these.

I am just asking you to consider the moral consequences of an opinion that amounts to more than just an opinion. Afterall, you are impacting another individual’s life, and I just wanted to point out that the perceived good you are doing may not be a certainty in reality, and that the potential negative consequences could be devastating. If you bring your son into the world of penis size concerns, make sure you know what you are doing on all levels.

Hey guys reporting back to you on a funny idea that I took and ran with. I hope you do not mind me telling this but higherone PMed me saying that I had the opportunity to flip the script on my father and let him in on the amazing world of PE. Well after reading it a couple times and laughing at the idea, I tossed the thought around for awhile til I had decided that I should do just that. The other night I walked into his office and was asking him questions about sex and how he felt about my girlfriend and stuff like that, just so the conversation was on the topic. We never had a “talk” when I was younger but that is partly because I never let my parents in on just about anything in my life. So when the time seemed appropriate, I believe it was just after me saying “Well I know that Barbara ( Not my girlfriend’s name but I do not feel right saying her name here not sure why, sorry ) really likes this one position but I feel like I can go deeper here and she has said that she would like it a little deeper too”, I dropped the PE knowledge bomb on him and told him about this place. I chose not to tell him I was a member, but I did tell him that I perform many of the exercises here and they really do help my EQ. His jaw dropped just a little, but then oddly enough he smiled at me and said, ” Son I really do not need to hear about how you are playing with your penis under my roof, but I am glad you felt confident and trusting enough to tell me about this even though it doesn’t seem like a problem to you. I am not mad, sad, or disappointed in you telling me however I do feel like this conversation can wait a little longer as you have sparked an interest in this for me”. After that it felt like there was this new bond or maybe an old bond that was just waiting to connect us or something, but I really feel like I changed the world between me and my father for the better. I am not sure if he has said anything to my mother ( though I doubt he has ) or if he has read any more of the information here than the little that I showed him but I certainly know that between me and him now is a much much better relationship. So thank you higherone for your idea it really was an excellent one. Cheers everybody!

I agree that it’s a decision that shouldn’t be taken lightly, and that you need to look at the whole person your son is- mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. When you as a father feel the benefits outweigh the risks, then consider it. If you don’t feel that way, then don’t let your son know about PE.

That being said, unless you’re talking to your son, you’re not going to know what his views are on anything. The most important thing in being a father is being there for your son.

Sweet! Glad I could help!

If anyone lives in the area I do then much sitting inside happened due to a certain blizzard, which often times leads to conversations. Just so happens I was shooting some shit with my cousin and I dropped the PE knowledge bomb on him as well. He is older than me and in all truth is a pimp and has slayed many a sluts. That being said I do not think he has ever had a problem in this department of his life, but for some reason or another I decided to tell him. He kinda laughed it off and we just continued our conversation of getting laid and life. Reason for telling him was simple: If man has a challenge he confronts it at all angles, by telling other people I feel I am adding benefit to the world not with holding it. Please Gents Pass This On

Wow Patiently Growing, you’re getting pretty open with your PE endeavors. I’m sure it’s similar letting a cousin or your father in on PE as it would be your son. The only thing I can think of with your son that you would have to be more careful of is that he has the proper maturity to handle PE or the amount of knowledge about PE that you let him in on.

Hahaha I suppose I am, but the more I read here, the more exercises I do and see results I just sorta want to tell people about it, all thanks to you guys. How I would tell my kid I still have no idea, probably have to start with some smaller secrets or life facts to let him in on but I am sure I will figure it out. If because of it my son turns into a man whore and sleeps with every girl in sight then that is fine with me so long as he doesn’t produce a baby or contract an STD.

Spoken like a man without a son. hahaha Seriously though, I like the idea about slowly letting him in on PE over time as he is mature enough for it. As for the manwhore thing, definitely tell your son to wrap it up. While I wouldn’t get angry if he had a lot of partners, I would prefer that he have have a steady girlfriend instead. What he does after that is his choice.

Must agree, a slow steady snowball effect of PE smashed in with just basic exercising ( push ups, pull ups, dips ) and lots AND LOTS of stretching for all parts of the body. Honestly I would have him do the stretching with me as a daily routine for father son bonding time.

That sounds pretty gay.