Passing it on

I get where you’re coming from WestLA. Those are very valid concerns you bring up. You definitely have to know your son and his maturity level. I don’t buy that every son whose father tells their son about PE is going to think something is wrong with his dick. I base this off of my buddies that I let in on PE. None of them thought something was wrong with their dick because I told them about it. They did say it was awkward to talk about, but none of them thought they were small because of it.

It’s also important to point out that none of the dads that posted that they let their son in on PE said they regret it or wish they wouldn’t have done it. If your son is mature enough then he’s ready for it. Only you as the father can determine that. A lot of sons probably aren’t. Some are. The closer your son is to adulthood, he usually is more mature, though not always. That’s up to the dad to decide either way.

This is what give son’s complexes about their penis, not conversations about PE:

Dad to his 6 yr old son: “Wow, they really did a hatchet job on your circumcision.”

I thought I was very deformed until I got to the highschool lockerroom. That stuff fucks you up.

Then the solution is to make your son believe that this forum has been a family secret for years! Tell him when he is of age you will give him a piece of information that has served you well. Make him wonder what your talking about for a while, then out the blue give him the Website and say nothing else! But seriously..

I guess I will never understand what it is like telling your son information like that until the time comes. But what I do know is that in the past week I have let countless people in on PE who have been a lot older than me, and some who were younger than me(I’m 19). There hasn’t been one person who didn’t show immediate interest. Again with your own flesh and blood son it may be a different story, but when the time comes I’m definitely letting my son know!

Beware stealth pe people. Mummy dearest will be informed the same day and she would know what you’ve been doing all these years, all the lying closed doors and explanations will be remembered.

Be sure you have something on the little fella before you entrust him with something that might destroy you. Like the time you caught him pulling off and said nothing

Wise words, absorb them

School - The mind - Society believes it is necessary
Physical Fitness - The body - Society is okay with it, but does not demand it
PE - The penis - Taboo

They’re all self improvement, just a different connotation. Having a PE talk and letting the kid go for a few years, probably a dumb dumb idea. Having continued talks about PE, penis health, accurate statistics, sex in more depth, the actual importance of size in the scope of life.

I agree that a one and done will probably fuck with the kid, but opening a dialogue is only going to deepen your relationship with your son, and you will be able to mitigate some of his own insecurities be it penis size or acne or anything. Just because you don’t hold your son’s hand for him to cross literal streets anymore doesn’t mean he wouldn’t appreciate you holding it when he’s crossing the figurative streets that exist in growing up.

Sorry if that’s a bit disjoint, but to sum up, in my opinion opening a dialogue is never going to create problems only make them more tolerable.

I know my desire to have a larger penis is somehow due to psychological inadequacies, and I don`t want to put that on my sons.

They may come to that position on their own at some point, like all of us here, but I struggle with the thought of being the one to give them the idea that they are somehow not good enough as they are.

Besides, their mother does enough of that as it is.

Excellent post, Clemski. Well said. I couldn’t agree with you more.

I would teach my son but he just barely turned 3. But when the time comes we are giong to have that talk .

17ml.that post was priceless! I’m over here and I can’t stop cheesin!

And Clemski.I also couldn’t agree more! I’ve been on a mission the past few months to improve myself in every way possible! ( Physically and Mentally ) I feel having the talk may be awkward at first and things may not go as planned, but ultimately your only letting your son know

“Hey, you can talk with me about ANYTHING!” As stated in Clem’s post what is more taboo than talking about Penis’? I’m sure your son will appreciate it, even if it takes a little time.

Maybe you could start PE on him yourself now, as he sleeps. The time he gets to preschool he’ll be walking on the dam thing.

That idea is so creepy :D I creeped myself out.

By the way those of thinking about telling your sons one day, try and tell your father about it now, if you can’t tell an adult who’s been around the block then think again on your ability to tell a kid.

You bring up a good point, Audacia. It the same relationship (father-son), and you’re both adults, which is different. I guess the thing that would be different is you didn’t raise your dad, but you are raising your son.

I did let my dad in on PE. Way back in the day after i gained my first inch. I had to dig through the old threads but I found it from 2003. I wish I would have been consistent with PE and not taken years off! I’d be beyond my goal by now! If anyone is interested in reading about it:

Told Father about PE

To me, PE is no worse than jacking off or lifting weights. To me, there is no shame in PE. It’s no different than when guys first began to lift weights/bodybuild and it was a fringe thing. Now it’s mainstream.

I talk to both my parents about my general sex life, not in depth, and they talk to me (they are divorced and have new partners). I also do kung fu, and sexual health is part of kung fu. Sifu will often look round and tell us all we’re ejaculating too much. Always good for a chuckle, but he is damn serious. We are also taught chi gong where we rub around the genital area to increase blood flow, so I’m used to talking about this anyhow.

I also come from a biological science background. The wonder of living organisms is and always will be the true love of my life. Teaching any of this to me is the same as teaching nutrition and exercise.

My approach would probably be:
1)Start teaching some basic chi gong exercises
2)Discuss kegels as part of male sexual health
3)Masturbation and links to premature ejaculation
4)General exercises for male issues that can also lead to increased size.

I would not dump this all in one go, I see this as a progression, which I think builds quite nicely. It also approaches all the things they don’t teach in school. School sex education is basically the biology, the act and the diseases.

Also add a good book on sexual technique for their 16th birthday.

Plus things never go exactly to plan, this is all just an outline, but it gives me a frame work.

When I was in 7th grade (we’re talking decades ago) all the boys were ushered into one holding area, the girls were taken into the gym. When they left the gym, we boys were taken in, for a film. It was a totally nonsensical film beginning with deer frolicking in a meadow and birds flying around. “Science” film, we all concluded.

Then appeared diagrams. Arrows moving toward and into circles. More little arrows with a dubbed over voice that said things like “egg” and “sperm”. Then they let us out for our next class.

My friend said to me on the way out, “Must be geometry. We have to take that next year, you know.”

Ah avocet8 you take me back. "From Boy to Man" was the one we saw. !968 I think.

To give you guys a flavor, here’s one from 1957: "As Boys Grow"

As Boys Grow : Medical Arts Productions : Free Download, Borrow, and Streaming : Internet Archive

I found pe when I was around 14 and a 1/2 while reading through junk email. Must have been close to the time I found myself. I remember searching for days through the parental filters online until I found a descent routine through googles image search. Back then I injured myself a lot more and had to take more time off. It wasn’t until highschool that I was able to pe conscisently for 8 or 9 months straight. Starting out I figure I was about 4” BPEL by 4” BPEG tapering evenly to 3” HEG. Now I’m 8” BPEG ,having lost .5” after a long lay off, by 6” BPEG tapering evenly to 5” behind th head with 4.5” HEG. I havnt had any psychological or developmental disorders brought on by pe, like you would find with sex at too early of age. I’m married now and my wife supports me in my efforts so long as a bigger husband doesn’t mean her neglect, infidelity, or lockjaw. In the future I plan on teaching bodybuilding and breast/penis enlargement techniques with an optimistic and open mind to my son or daughter someday. I certainly wish I had some guidance when I was learning “The ropes”.