PE Dilemma

I’ve PE’ing for about one year now. Prior to PE my wife would occasionally (but rarely) complain during sex that I was hitting something. I never felt myself hitting anything, but it caused her obvious pain. I never felt like I was bottoming out or anything. Prior to PE my BPEL was about 6.25”. I am now pushing 7” BPEL, I’ll probably hit that this month.

The problem is that now almost every time we have sex she is complaining about me hitting something and that it hurts. I still can’t feel that I’m hitting anything, but her discomfort is obvious as she always placing her hand on the lower part of her stomach…apparently where she is feeling the pain. Once that happens, the chances of her having an orgasm go down drastically, which is a real big bummer for me. I started PE to increase those chances, but it seems to be having the opposite effect.

Do you think I’m bottoming out and hitting her cervix or is it possible that there is something else going on inside of her….I’m hitting something else maybe?

I don’t really want to stop PE and I could always concentrate on just girth exercises but I’m afraid I might still gain more length while doing that.

Speaking from my own experience:

You may have to let her be on top more so she can control the angle and how deep.

Positions in which you used to be able to fully penetrate now may require less than full penetration.

Waiting for a few minutes before complete penetration may help.

You two may have to re-invent how you do it. The old favorites may be out, and you get to have fun finding new ways/positions.

These new positions are one of the main reasons we started PE. Like you sitting in a chair with her facing you on your lap for example.

There are other threads to search for, I think I searched “too big” once.

If she does not have regular check ups, it can’t hurt to get one to see if there is a medical problem.

Superhick that is a great nickname:) ; I suppose you like Alan Ford too.

Anyways, my advice - longer foreplay and easy penetration at start - go easy at first, and then when she is really horny and wet, go deeper.

She has to adapt to your new size man, so go easy!

It’s been my experience that the cervix moves. Sometimes it appears to drop lower so you can feel it more than others. I’m 8” and I touch it less than I did at 7.4 , I think they adjust to length that they are not used to.

That you all for the advice. I have tried some of these things already, but I guess I will try more diligently.

I think you should ask to a Doc.

The wife has said she is going to ask the next time she is there.

If your wife ALREADY had problems with you hitting her bottom because of the size, I wonder why you even started PE length exercises. :P (Obviously I SUPPOSE you have sex MAINLY with your wife, so, that’s why I wondered). ^^

Things you should try people already told you. Different positions, slower movements, etc..

What I can add, I guess, and this is recommended even by doctors (serious, no bull), is anal sex.

Good luck :)

Source?

If Boo-Ya can pull pull up a source on this one, I’ll be surprised.

However, it is true that the ass can accommodate more length, so I guess it’s not huge leap to think a doctor or two might have recommended it.

Now if you could get a formal survey going, complete with an ad campaign: “4 out of 5 doctors recommend anal…” - that’d really be something.

Trust me…I suggest anal all the time…it hasn’t happened since we got married.

Prior to PE I would only cause pain occasionally and I never caused pain prior to her having two children. So, I don’t know what is going on in there. I really just don’t think I’m hitting her cervix. I don’t know what it feels like to bottom out, but I just don’t feel anything at all when she says it feels like I’m hitting something.

I have primarily tried to stick to exercises to increase girth, not length, but the length has increased regardless.

I don’t’ know superhick, sounds more and more like she needs to be looked at, particularly if she has any other changes in the whole female plumbing/monthly cycle thing.

I don’t have any ‘official’ source plus I don’t trust/like medics that much/what they say anyway. :P
Still, the ass can accommodate (repeating what Mr. Happy said) more length (and more girth too from what I’ve seen) than the vagina, so, it’s also a logical possibility I guess.

I’ve seen this ‘doctor recommendation’ on tv once and read it on the net twice.

:)

I don’t know about girth, greek. I think that varies.

I don’t know why this isn’t more obvious: Just like there are some guys who have small genitals, there are some women who do, too. And just like there are guys here who seem to lack the physiological flexibility to gain much if it at all, there are women who don’t “tent”, or stretch, or somehow manage to comfortaby accomodate more than they were built for.

FF