I’ll repeat what I’ve said in other threads concerning this and my own experiences..
I am very heavily involved in the BDSM scene here in South Australia, in addition I spend a lot of time at swingers parties, host my own plus gang bangs etc. So you could say I’ve
seen a lot of both women and men, erect and otherwise. I’ve also slept with quite a lot of women, including girls who are full service and have been for years.
The long and the short of it is, no one has had larger than me, except for one of the working girls who refused a visiting black American basketball player as he was, “deformed” :)
I have seen on occasion someone who is my girth, or close to my length, but never both. This is after nearly 8 years in the scene here.
The last swinger party I went to, (2 weekends ago), there was a petite asian who’s partner asked me to bed her as she was a self confessed “size queen”, who had apparently had
all sizes without trouble.. I broke her in 15 minutes and she went home too sore to fuck anyone else.
So, please stop worrying about this stuff, in my experience it’s 90% mental connection, and the rest is physical..
Be confident in you, the rest will happen on it’s own.