Originally Posted by fendool
I’m really selective with who I date to begin with because I understand my size is disappointing. She wasn’t a size queen and she wasn’t mean about it but it was obvious that she wasn’t into it and when I asked her she admitted she couldn’t feel anything. I’ve been with 5 women and only 1 was able to cum through penetration. One other seemed to enjoy it but couldn’t climax, the other three were not into it at all and discontinued relations with me. Im 31 and sex is a complete disappointment to me. I don’t enjoy it at all. It’s sad.I don’t think people understand how rare and unsightly a 1.4 inch width is. I’ve seen people with 4 inch girth posting a width of 1.5 inch so i’m definitely well below 2 standard deviations. It’s almost at the point where it could be classed as medical condition.
It would be nice to hear from any other fellow 1.4 inchers, but I suspect I might be the only one on this site…
Hey Fendool,
I see you’re a bit down in the dumps. Anonymous78964 has a good thread on the go at present, which might be a good read for you.
Below average guy looking for some inspiration again (p. 7)
There are more to read on Thunders as well, just hit the search button.
I’m sure average (or near average) sucks. Fortunately (or unfortunately depending on your perspective) around half the worlds male population are in the same ball park as you.
In my day, when I was playing the field… and I definitely had my share of the field, I can tell you from experience you will find all sizes, and types of vaginas… I’ve had a girl just lie there while I just lightly tickled her vagina with my fingers, and she had multiple orgasms. I’ve had another that has never had an orgasm, and may never have one. I’ve had girls that I could barely get a finger into (I actual gave myself a small tear once on the skin that attaches the glans to the bottom of the shaft, while trying to enter one). I’ve had others that I wish I had a plank tied to my ass, just in case I fell in. I could tell you some funny stories, believe me.
The ones that you need to tie a plank to ass for, can certainly hit your confidence, and if you have a few in a row, you can really start doubting yourself. It doesn’t matter how big you are (within reason) we have all been there. This is where I think you are now. You’ve had a bad run, which hits your confidence, women like confident men… and they can smell when you’re not confidence… which I think is the biggest turn off… not your penis size.
You need to get back on the horse, and keep looking. Don’t ask them stupid questions, it shows weakness… if you can’t feel them, they can’t feel you… no need to ask… be confident, even if your shaking inside.
There a plenty of women out there that would love to be with someone average. I’ve seen the concern in some of there eyes when I waved why penis in there directions, and I’m sure they would have been much happier with you.
You just need to find one of them, they are out there… you’ve just had a bit of bad luck, that’s all.
Good luck ;)