Post your penis width.

This particular female was vaginally orgasmic. We had a very candid conversation and she could orgasm “almost all the time with all her previous partners”. Her words, not mine. I asked what I could do better. and she just went really quiet and then admitted she couldn’t feel me.

I know you’re trying to help but just a couple of points:

1. I’m not “just below average”. Based on my research, at 1.4 inch width I think I’m in the bottom 2%. I have looked at so much small dick porn that I can confidently say that I have seen very few penises that are narrower than me. If you look at the pics in my signature you will realise why I say this. It looks like the bottom half of my penis had a run-in with the ebola virus. To very many females it’s a big turn-off.

2. I get to the bottom of your post and I see in your stats that you started at 5.3 MEG. Dude, how do you think it makes me feel when you say that you couldn’t feel some women and you have, I’m guessing, 1.7-1.8 width…it makes me feel pretty damn narrow.

I’ve been on this site since 2008 and unfortunately PE just hasn’t really worked out for me. I’ve tried it a few times and I always end up with hard flaccid (even on the lightest of routines). I’m trying it again, probably the final attempt, and I’m thinking of just ‘powering through’ the hard flaccid and see what happens. I could ruin my penis completely, but at this stage I can’t see any alternative. I don’t want to find women to fuck, I want a relationship and that thing between my legs is one serious handicap. Its ruined my life and will continue to do so until it gets wider.

1. You have an insecurity about your penis, many of us have similar insecurities about ourselves. However, a lot of these insecurities are in our head, and people don’t even notice them. My wife told me after 15 years, that she feels short (she’s 161cm) I’ve never even thought of her being short… but now that she has brought it to my attention, I’ve started to pay more attention. This is the same for you. You think there is a problem with your penis, (I’ve seen your pictures, don’t really see the problem) but no one else probably sees it. As soon as you point it out, directly or indirectly, the other person suddenly sees it, and then it becomes an issue…. where before there was no issue. Your head is the problem, and you need to be more confident, positive.

2. It’s like getting into fights every weekend. You may be winning them…. but sooner or later there is always someone better than you that’s going to kick your ass. What I’m trying to say is it doesn’t matter how big your penis is, there is always going to be vaginas that are going to make you feel insignificant. The difference between you and me, is that you are going to feel insignificant a few more times than me… but we are both going to experience it, one way or another. But you are forgetting the other end of the scale, where they are below average in size…. some being one finger tight. I had a mate that was on the low end of average, came home one day happy as fuck because he had just made some girl bleed, because she was so tight. You just got to get out there and find them. Honestly, most women really don’t give a fuck about your penis size. My wife even says to me, “as long as it’s bigger than a peanut, she really doesn’t care”.

Confidence is the key… pick up your game! ;)

Yeah mate ive seen your pics and I wouldn’t be concerned at all.I have been with plenty of women over the years most of them absolute stunners and never once had a negative comment about my dick.My starting stats were 5.75BPEL x 4.75 EG.Which again is average.Do the newbie routine then get into clamping. Clamping has improved my base girth alot.

My PE journey has been plagued by hard flaccid. Ironically, stretching and jelqing are the worst exercises for my hard flaccid so newbie routine is out. At the moment I’m doing 20 squeezes every other day and have slight negative PIs but nothing too bad yet.

If I could just work out what this hard flaccid is I could fix it. I mean, I know it’s a muscular issue, but I don’t understand what actually causes it. I’ve tried so many exercises and their variations to no avail. Even if I orgasm too many times I get hard flaccid. Even pumping which doesn’t involve touching my dick at all gives me hard flaccid. Seriously… I’m cursed.

Also you are average girth, and probably average width too. But I’m not average width..That’s my issue.

Slightly more than 2”. The 2” tube takes some effort to get on. (:

Out curiosity I looked at the stats I posted years ago in this thread, 5.25” girth and 2.00” width, I am surprised that I am now at 5.8” same width and it just seems average to me but I know statistically it is far from it. Funny how the changes happen so slowly you don’t even notice them and you just think it was always like this.

Let me say this: years of clamping has results if you just stick to it!

You probably increased your Corpus Spongosium.

A hair over 2”.

I’ve never worked on girth ironically.

That and I was always wide side-to-side but comparatively thin front-to-back before I started clamping and now I am much more rounded. A fatter Corpus Spongosium was something I wanted to get so I am happy with the change.

I’m actually almost perfectly circular. 1.6” wide, a little under 5” girth.

Measured in at 1.75” last night and just a tad over 5” girth.

Slightly more than 2” at 5.7” mid shaft girth

Around 1.75” mid shaft, pretty much circular.