Below average guy looking for some inspiration again

Good luck mate.

Hope you get great gains too.

Hi Anonymous78964! Can I call you Anony? I’m not the best at giving advice, better at listening to others. So I hope you don’t mind if I ramble a bit, tell you something that motivates me:
I’m diabetic, Type 1 (the rare version, you hear Type 2 a lot) and my pancreas is as dead weight as an appendix. The major downside of diabetes? It affects the blood flow of the body. You know what needs blood flow to function? Exactly (Brain was the number one answer, lol). On a serious note, diabetes doesn’t kill directly, it can cause complications and the complications will do me in. I have to work twice as hard to prevent the absolute worse from happening. At first it was daunting, especially with the hand I got dealt with from the pool of genes. I got everything from my dad’s side: weight problems, cardiovascular problems (had heart murmurs and asthma when I was a kid), grandparents had a history of diabetes.

It took two years for me to completely understand that diabetes is chronic. There’s no cure for it. So after one year of trying to avoid something I can’t avoid, and another year of half-stepping it, this year (and beyond) I’ll be giving my very best effort. I will (and already did) catch myself slipping, but instead of feeling sorry for myself, I will try harder, do better.

Besides, if I’m going have to ED before my first time, I’d rather it be due to my nervousness than needing Viagra before 40 :) .

Oh and whenever I need extra motivation, I just go through the Progress Reports (And Pictures) thread, especially those that have gained. Just to remind myself that it can be done!

Welcome to Thunder’s Anony! It can and will be done.

I hate to be that guy, but I feel like the posters in this thread are giving you unrealistic expectations when it comes to having sex with the opposite sex.

I’m larger than you and I have been with 5 carefully selected partners. Three of them were obviously unimpressed with my size and one of those three told me that the sex was bad because she couldn’t feel me. At your starting size I would estimate an 80% chance of rejection/embarrassment. I’m not telling you this to bring you down or to be a dick. I just want you to have realistic expectations. You should still get out there and try to make it happen though. 20% is better than 0%, easier said than done, I know.

If I may ask what’s your size???

Like I said in your Thread, being confident is the key… and the way your confidence is now, you have a 0% percent chance of satisfying any women. I’ve seen the pictures of your penis, and it looks a lot bigger than Ì was expecting. I really don’t see the problem… you need to get your mind back in the game… your penis is not even close to being your problem.

Also, having 5 sexual partners does not really put you in a position to give statistics. Just because they were “carefully selected” and may have been the most pleasant girls on the planet, doesn’t have any relationship to the size of there vaginas. I’ve fucked shy, quiet girls who didn’t have very much experience, and it was like catapulting a hot-dog into outer-space. Once, I even thought I was fucking a pumpkin, like that guy in the American Pie movie.

On the other hand, some of the biggest sluts I’ve been with, had the smallest.

So from my experience, and I can put another 0 on your number easily… your way off.

I was just giving the guy another perspective. Its a brutal world out there for any male well below average.

And not feeling anything is not the same as being humiliated and embarrassed for a lack of size. Two completely different experiences.

Okay. I see your point. But read the title of the thread next time.

“Below Average guy Looking for some Inspiration again” means don’t be that guy. You weren’t being inspirational and I’m sure he can find some stuff to make himself feel worse without help. Respect the request of the OP.

Yes, my bad. I didn’t read the title, just all the responses. Now I feel terrible.

Well as far as inspiration goes I know a guy that has Klinefelter syndrome. Basically, he didn’t go through puberty, he is happily married now :)

Sorry for the delay in replies, life sucks atm lol

@ Panther - Thanks for the ramble :D it always nice to hear peoples experiences, and im sorry to hear yours hasnt been to great! thanks for the advice :) i do often look at the progress reports and it is a great proof that this stuff does work - you just have to commit to it which i havent been able to as of yet :( Real life complications are making it hard to stay on track so im not PE’ing still although i really really want to!

@ Fendool - honestly, i appreciate the advice :) although at first read i was a little bit hurt/destroyed i just back read this thread and it made it all better - to me now, i have 100% become “penis enlightened” - by this i mean i now understand that dick size isnt everything, although i am still not happy with my size at all, i know thats just my preference. if i find someone i like, i want them to like me for who i am not my dick, so therefore dick size is no longer an issue in that respect for me -
Im sorry you have had some bad experiences, i think if a girl only wants to be with you for the sex then thats not the kinda girl i want to be with. Although not talking from experience having not been in a relationship or having sex, but i would imagine that in a relationship sex only takes up a very small percentage of your time together , and if my relationship was evaluated on that small percent alone, then fuck that :)

I realise this thread is like a protective bubble from some of the “Truths” about dick size, but i do think this thread has taught me alot about the importance of everything else :)

Thanks to Skygod and TG for the support :) appreciate that, however i think everyone’s opinion is valid here

I know im rambling on haha, but i just want to hopefully help other people who have been in my position, and not just size wise ….. just emotion wise. I used to come on here and be almost angry/annoyed at people who posted things like “yeah, i know what you mean, im on 6.5” and i have the same issues” but now i understand :) size is irrelevant, it affects us all no matter who big we are

anyways ill shut up now haha :P

Hey man! Glad you’re starting to get into the right mindset about dick size and life in general. You’re exactly right, dick size has no importance on how happy we are nor on the relationships we can have. Can it be a burden during sex? Sure it can, but only if you make it. I’ve read plenty of articles written by women regarding the size thing. MOST do not care about size, they care about attention, emotion, foreplay, love. One porn star said, if she can get a girl off (I guess she’s done her share of lesbian porn), than a guy can get a girl off with 4”. She even said her preferred size was around 6” even though she’s had plenty of 8” guys in her career. Confidence is key. If you’re worried about your size, it will show to her and that’s what kills the mood. I read also that women don’t want to hear your excuses or for you to say you’re sorry about “being small”. Most of the time they don’t even realize it unless a guy were to bring it up!

As you said, relationships are NOT based on sex. Good sex can come from all shapes and sizes, it’s about communication. Once you get into a sexual relationship, you’ll be a sex God if you just listen, ask, and listen.

Keep you’re head up OP, remember we’re doing this for US and not to prove something to someone else. There will always be bigger out there, but there will always be smaller as well.

Thanks :D

I’m still not 100% over the size issue, and i dont think anyone ever is able to fully accept it really, but im trying my bloody best haha!

It’s hard, but … i will normally come back on here every other day and reread this post, and it helps it all go away :D

ill say it again, great site. If i hadnt found it then i dunno what i would have done :(

I agree, this site is pretty awesome. I find it almost more therapeutic than just about how to grow our dicks. You’re right, many of us will never fully get over our issues with size, not with how society and the media are today. Hell I can barely turn on the radio to pop without hearing some Hollywood tramp talking about she needs to be raped by a horse. But that’s not reality, we need to remind ourselves of that. Reality is that all of us are different, some big, some small. Also the reality is, if women cared that much about size, procreation would come to a halt and 90% of men would be single. Let that sink in ;)

yeah i use this more as a confidence building site and a PE site …. i will PE when i get the time but atm im happy just to be here and chatty :) And in turn maybe … hopefully help other guys in a similar issue to me :)

thats my aim anyways, to try and help others like me as i have been helped :)

Thats a good statistic haha! ;)

Helping others is a great trait to have, in turn it may help you in the long run as well.

And thankfully 75% of statistics are made up on the spot! (Ha, don’t quote me on my stats, they are strictly my own assumption without any real research. But to back myself up, I’m sure it’s mostly true ;) ).

Just saying, it’s made up cuz more than 90% of men would be single. Hit any chart on Length and after 7.5” it gets way slimmer than 10% of the population.