Below average guy looking for some inspiration again

Hey man, thankyou for that! This thread has turned into much more than I had ever hoped.
To see a real success story from guys in and around my stats is amazing, and very up lifting :)

I’m sorry to hear that you too have been dealing with depresssion and things, and can only give you the advice I was given, get fit. Working out has made me so much happier. Not 100% happy, obviously, but it’s definitely helping me through it :)

Again, thankyou for sharing your story and your kind words :) I might take you up on your offer and pm you sometime

Hello Anonymous.

Having a small penis can be a cause of personal depression. I know. I had the fear of asking many women out just because I didn’t want to shock them into finding what I was hiding below. Though I did muster the courage, I was always concerned of what they always thought of my dick. None ever said anything and it was always me that brought it up, in which they always responded it was just fine.

But in all, the depression led me to gaining a lot of weight and I was miserable. Like you one day, I decided enough was enough and took off about 40 lbs. Happy with my new body, I was still concerned about the size of my penis. Again it was me who would ask and again they would tell me it was fine. They’d say I knew how to use it and that’s all that mattered. Typical of what women say but as a man it was always going through my head they have to be kidding. This is probably one reason I have never been able to stay in a steady relationship, my own personal lack of self confidence brought me down.

It wasn’t until recently, with the last woman I had sex with that I noticed my erections weren’t what they once were and I searched for natural remedies for EQ and discovered PE and the benefits it can have for EQ. I thought I’d give it a shot and that’s why I’m here.

Though I’m new to this, I will say you should start with the routine ASAP. I have noticed a big difference in my mood and energy levels since I started. Something I have been lacking recently as well. I know that having the extra energy may be an advantage for you to help lose the weight you want. Just a thought?

And as far as sex, it will come. Just don’t let it get you down. It is hard for single guys to get sex. I know! Many of your friends may talk about how often they are getting laid, but remember a lot of that is show. They want to just make themselves look like studs. It will happen for you though. Be yourself and don’t be afraid to talk to the ladies. Go out, that’s my one bit of advice to many guys your age. Sex is practically impossible to find sitting at a computer. Yes I know that’s the world we live in now, but from my experience: I tried it, it did work, but it took forever. :( I personally won’t be looking for sex dates online ever again. Just a tip for you. Not saying you are, but for future reference, it’s just a waist of time.

Also, like I said I just started and I like you don’t know how often I should journal my progress. I’m thinking weekly or bi-weekly. I know we can keep track in our own statistics as often as we want. I may just do that and journal any improvements. Don’t know yet?

Okay, I’m done rambling now. Sorry.

It’s been a pleasure making your acquaintance and best of luck to you. :)

Hey man, thanks for your advice :) it seems by your stats that you are pretty average, if not a little bit above? Which just proves my point that size doesn’t matter here.
I mean this in the sense that, people with all different sizes see themselves differently, and can feel th same way:) I was reading some posts really of smaller guys getting angry with the bigger guys for complaining, which is just silly. We are all in ‘this together

Your story is very similar to mine, I got depressed and gained a lot of weight etc (started at 19st, now at 17st 7lbs) and I have started my routine too now which has made me feel a little bit better about everything :)

I agree that the best way to progress is go and meet people etc, but honestly sex doesn’t bother me ATM. When I want it I’ll go get it but right now I’d rather just …. avoid that area I think haha. And no because of dick size only, I just don’t want sex :/

I would record your progress each day like I am, in note form. And then maybe make a weekly/ bi weekly progress thread on here? :)

Sorry, not a thread jack but ‘A’ you know ATM has other meanings and when I read your thread with what first comes to my mind seeing ATM it had a whole different ahhhh, never mind.

Lol

Lol yes I know :) automated teller machine hehe

But my iPad auto corrects atm to ATM :(

Strike one,
But it is kinda cute to see a young guy who’s mind isn’t in the gutter. Lol
ATM - ass to _____

Ok, back on topic.
You are going to get me banned.

Well, that is not what I was taught in school ;) but I’ll take your word for it lmfao!

My mind is so far away from the gutter it genuinely concerns me 😂😂

found another site called http://www.measurection.com/ …. aimed at smaller guys only.
If anyone else has issues with small stats, i can suggest looking there also, at least you can get some advice from people who actually have the same difficulties as you :) I know a lot of small guys do get very depressed on here, or at least from some of the threads i’ve read have shown that. and I did at first.

Being surrounded by huge dicks can be very difficult, seeing people literally twice your sizes can be a huge morale killer, I felt like this at the start, but I don’t anymore, at least not as much as before.

I just really hope more guys like me find this place, and no i dont mean more "I’m in a similar position, im 6" x 5" ". I mean actually below average guys. This place is awesome and has helped me so much, i just hope others find their way here and get the same relief.

From micro to average

There are a lot of guys who simply don’t share but he did. And I thought you should see that. I was taken aback by his journey.

And I understand how intimidated you feel. At least why, I understand. But I do want to help, regardless. My apologies if I am not as effective.

Thankyou, TG :)

You are one of the most supportive people on here and I really really appreciate it :)

I hope i didn’t come across to agreesive/jealous if the big guys? I just think sometimes people don’t understand what being small is like, I know everyone has the right to feel how they feel, and if your 6" and feel small then I’m not saying you shouldn’t feel that way at all :) I just meant …. sometimes the smaller guys do get very intimidated

It took years for me to post anywhere other than the X4 forum. And I still wasn’t really active anywhere else until I got here. Men like Titleist, they can be intimidating and I remember being too scared to ask someone of his size anything when I was a member other places. But…I make special efforts to be approachable and available to anyone who wants my help, regardless of size, age, experience level or anything else.

I can easily bring the subject up to anyone and anywhere, it’s not a hard thing to talk about for me now. I’m not intimidated by big dicks, I worship them honestly, I think they are amazing and just look up to them in awe of one day being like that.

I just hope that me talking about it will help others open up about it too :) I am nowhere near as knowledgable or helpful as you TG, but I strive to be :) I know many people before have spoken about size, yguy, Bennett, and many others. Reading their posts were so inspiring, I just hope maybe I can do the same for the newer generation of pe’ers

Wow,

I’m reading some of your posts, excellent stuff dude!

I’m glad you like it. I just speak from experience. We are the force that guides our Destiny. Embrace it. Be the one you know you want to be.

well ….. what a roller-coaster couple of weeks that was :/

Long story short im back, most likely wasnt missed but i missed it here! :)

depression got the better of me again, but im all better now :) going to try and get back into PE starting feb, hopefully see how it goes haha