Below average guy looking for some inspiration again

Ok. Let me start by saying “do not overthink this”. The problem is not the size of your dick but how it affects your psyche. Also remember one very important fact, sex is about mutual pleasure. You are not a device built to satisfy women. To add to this, have you ever noticed how women complain about being objectified by men? You’re doing that to yourself. If a woman ever were to complain about your dick, which she won’t, tell here that your not there for her objectification. That or tell her that her vagina smells like a fisherman’s glove, depending on how mean you want to be.

We can’t cultivate these thoughts and let them control us. Aside from a very few outliers, both big and small, penis size isn’t an issue.

To add to this. Tell your friends to STFU when they claim 10”. They are lying. I’ve seen way more porn than one should and I’m lucky if I’ve seen a legitimate 10 incher. This “monster cock on every block” concept is a phantom fear we created to belittle ourselves. Fix your head. You’ll be fine. Sex is about fun. I can guarantee than the females you have sex with are way more insecure about their bodies that you can imagine.

Here’s some more thoughts:

What is considered hung?

How “Big” was he really?

Average Is Better Than You Think - My Monkey’s Paw Theory

A woman doesn’t have sex with your penis, she has sex with the guy attached to it.

Sure they’re are woman that want a big penis, but the majority of times size is only important to us guys.

Last night I literally only used 2” start to finish. She had an intense orgasm and didn’t believe me when I told her that.

And don’t get me started about oral, which I believe is much more reliable means of finishing a woman.

Get started for you and your confidence. And if the right girl comes along and you’re ready, give her a chance.

GL

They ain’t lying ;) I’ve seen them man, monsterous things lmao. Thankyou mate :) reading that made me feel a lot better, honestly.

I know I need to get it into my head that size doesn’t matter in a sense, but it’s just hard for me :( either way, I’m feeling better today after starting PE and having some amazing encouragement from you guys!

Thankyou :)

Consither these as frames of reference as to the distribution and frequencies of penis sizes out there. You may believe what they say; or, perhaps, they actually believe what they say: but see attached links:

The (statistical) Truth About Cock Size

"That’s Not Normal!" The Statistics of Penis Size | HuffPost Entertainment

Good luck on your journey. Of course, statistics are not sacrosanct but more are reliable than feel, sight and hearsay.

I don’t have as much experience or knowledge as many of these posters here, but I started off in a similar size to you. I was just shy of 6” x 4.5”. Think of it, how much is that? Grab a ruler and look at an inch. That much dick isn’t going to make or break sex. I’m sure my fat pad is smaller as well since i’m just a smaller built guy than you all around, so there’s also the the issue of how hard you’re pushing the ruler in for BPEL, it can be pretty damn uncomfortable. I do this now because I like the confidence it has given me, I enjoy it (like meditation or for myself the gym), because I set myself a goal when I started, and I still get excited every time I measure an extra mm or two. I do this now for me. I feel now the demons that brought me here are in flight. So I say start now, get at it and do this for you!

When you say similar …. you mean 1”+ bigger ? :P
Thanks for the advice thou, i do appreciate it a lot mate so thanks :) I’m still waiting for some people who are literally my size or smaller to come out of the shadows haha!

Although, being the smallest person around makes me feel weirdly special :P

Check Y Guy and invisible

Haha ok touche. I definitely had a complex when i started, but through the gains iIve made i feel that is has decreased significantly. I always had it in my head I was small. I think to find them its a lot of reading through pages on here, they may not be as prevalent a posters but they’re definitely out there. You also come across far more confident than I ever felt!

I use to be 4.something inches and now 5.9 -6”
I started here, when I joined. Trust me stick here read posts and get inspired by others, the guys here would share with you techniques and tips.
Of course it won’t happened over night, it takes some time, can be months or years but it will pay off.
You should control your emotions and enhance your hope to get there. Start now and tell yourself that it will happen. You should have self-confidence, consistency and addiction to this.

Do not look or think of your friends’ size. Focus with your own. Take care of it and it will grow.

Most important is to give your penise rest don’t overdo it. Sleep enough.

Good luck

I do agree with every word above except the size :) it does matter. Lesb example was not an appropriate :)
All women, I say again All women like good tool. If the Penis cannot fill her up, she won’t enjoy it. It’s women’s nature.

Not the inspiraion I need ;) lol ….

THANKYOU :)

Means a lot, I have started and am hopeful I can maintain a stead and stable routine

As well as he may mean, remember this: No matter how many women he’s fucked or spoken to, no man is qualified to tell you what all women want. That’s just numbers.

Agreed, thanks man :)