Below average guy looking for some inspiration again

Still don’t believe it. Big guys like you are supposed to get around a lot.Why do you think every woman has been with a monster dong?

BBF,

You know I was being facetious, right?

While I don’t recall what I was in high school (I’m middle aged now), I wasn’t but about a palm’s width from base to tip. I’m a little bigger now, not sure if it was PE, age loosening things up, or if I just tugged on it so many times it gave up resisting, but even back in college and high school I never had any issues. I had girls in class call me Pinky Man. My dad’s pecker is big, and so is my brother’s, and I recall my mom saying something to me about my size. She never saw it, so it was a general comment, but she said, If you’re anything like your father, you have nothing to worry about.

And I am ~nothing~ like my dad. I’ve seen that thing when he takes it out to piss (country boys). It’s a honker.

I recall a guy in high school who supposedly had a pecker the size of a prescription pill bottle. That’s what this one girl said in any case. Then when we went water skiing, this same chick jumped in the water and asked him to help her learn to ski. He jumped in with her. They bumped around for a little bit, then he said, Y’all take a few laps.

So we took a few laps while they stuck things into places. That was down on the coast around Houston. Lots of alligators, we used to circle the bay before we booted up looking for them. Then we’d just ski on the other side of the bay if we saw one.

Anyway, that chick didn’t give a shit about jellyfish, gators, sharks or game wardens or little pill-bottle sized dicks. She stuck it in her all the same, and I bet she still tells that story.

Had a girl “dump” me for a small dick. After seven years. After doing all sorts of things to it feverishly, even sent her into toxic shock from too many hours in the saddle (true story). Seriously? Facepalm, right. Guess I’m too little to satisfy her, eh.

One girl asked if I was 10”. I said, No, but how about I do you twice as long with half as much.

My wife and I broke up early on when dating. I guess I told her the Pinky Man story, because my neighbor, who was her friend, started calling me Pinky Man and holding up her pinky. That’s a grown fucking woman with teenagers! She even said my now-wife told her I bought a big bed to compensate for my lack of size. More palm slaps.

I said to my wife not too long ago, Do you think I should get penile enlargement? She said, No, if you were any bigger, sex would be out of the question.

I said, So I’m big!

She laughed. No, she said. You are ~not~ big. Just don’t get any bigger.

Anyway, the road goes on forever and the good times never end. Might as well own it. Women won’t care after the new-car smell wears off, and your guy friends really truly don’t want to know about your pecker. Maybe there are some one night stands you’ll miss, but think of it as avoiding chlamydia. Most girls who care about size aren’t exactly discriminating, and the ones who are discerning don’t care about pecker size. They have much higher qualities they are looking for.

Confidence, for one. Even if it’s false confidence, find a way to be confident. Imagine you have the biggest dick in the room. Then act like it. Own it, and trust me — TRUST ME — you’ll see women react in a much different way. It’s the confidence they want, not the girth. They want a lion, not the lion’s dick, if you get me.

- Saul

I preach this. I went through a phase of sleeping around. Size queens I met were usually not affectionate and had 30+ partners minimum at 26 years old. And only one was really pretty.

And being nothing but the next big dick was crappy. I’m being serious. After 3 or 4, I actually stopped fucking around like that for 4 years. Wasn’t worth it and I needed to reassess my own self worth and reasoning for doing that.

Thank-you for that man, that was a good reader :) and I agree, whenever I feel like shit or feel depressed about still being a virgin or what not, I just tell myself “I have had not STI’s, I’ve not got anyone pregnant” etc etc.
It helps lol :)

but recently, I have come to the conclusion that I am not fussed about loosing my Virginity …. I dont know if its the confidence/self esteem thing or if I generally dont give a shit anymore (also I’m Bi, before anyone says “maybe your just gay?”)

Is that weird? for a 20 year old guy would not to want to have sex? to me it seems very strange, in this day and age guys my age are all sex obsessed dogs who are addicted to it unhealthily? but … I just have no want or need for it. I’m sure I could easily go out there and pull a girl/guy if I wanted to, but I simply dont want to?

Maybe its the fear of humiliation/rejection and the depression which has just made me scared / immune to what to have sex? I have no idea, its very puzzling haha

I’m 32 and I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 23, almost 24. Don’t worry about it. When you’re ready you’ll know. Don’t call guys who lost it at 16 dogs, don’t call guys still virgins at 30 anything special.

Just do you. Be you. Follow your heart and stay true.

Thanks man, I appreciate the kind words!

Sometimes its just hard to not see the numbers, I just feel like I’m the only guy around here who is this small, everyone else is like freaking huge haha which is slightly saddening to think I may be the smallest guy on here :( but it is what it is :) no point sitting around being depressed and shit, wasted the last 4 years doing that haha!

I’m 100% not ready to even think about going out there and “sewing the seeds” etc although everyone is telling me I need to .. I just think the risk of rejection/Embarrassment would be a killer right now.

I’m new here too and besides your not the only one which is small mine Erect Length is 5.2 inches and my Erect Girth is 5.2 inches don’t lose hope also I’m 21 years old we ll continue yo the journey of big healthy package don’t lose hope at all at and the most important thing is that believe that you will gain fast easily the mind plays a role too hope I helped you.

Anon, you have no idea what that first woman is going to do to you when you dig her out of the rubble, take her on a few dates and be the nice guy, and then one night you’re having that ~deep~ conversation and you announce you are still a virgin. She’ll disbelieve you. You insist. You even open up about your insecurities. She waves it off, says it doesn’t matter, then she opens up about her insecurities — she has uneven boobs and is overweight and her lips are too thin and her ears stick out and she hates her hair and.. she goes on and on.

But when she finally realizes what she has, that she can be that legendary woman in your history, it will erase all those insecurities on your page and her page and man… man. Man oh man.

You have no idea what that woman’s going to do to you. She isn’t going to take your virginity. Oh no no, my friend.

She is going to destroy the fuck out of it with extreme prejudice. It will be a pre-emptive attack on your virginity, shock-and-awe, no warning, night vision and flash grenades and bodily fluids slinging everywhere. There will be casualties lost to the fog of war, probably your couch, destroyed, now to be dragged to the curb and burned because there can be no recovering from such a trauma.

You’re a lucky guy, you just don’t know it yet. You just gotta find that girl and dig her out of the rubble, see. She’s there with her hand sticking up, waiting for you to take hold.

- Saul

Anon, you have no idea what that first woman is going to do to you when you dig her out of the rubble, take her on a few dates and be the nice guy, and then one night you’re having that ~deep~ conversation and you announce you are still a virgin. She’ll disbelieve you. You insist. You even open up about your insecurities. She waves it off, says it doesn’t matter, then she opens up about her insecurities — she has uneven boobs and is overweight and her lips are too thin and her ears stick out and she hates her hair and.. she goes on and on.

But when she finally realizes what she has, that she can be that legendary woman in your history, it will erase all those insecurities on your page and her page and man… man. Man oh man.

You have no idea what that woman’s going to do to you. She isn’t going to take your virginity. Oh no no, my friend.

She is going to destroy the fuck out of it with extreme prejudice. It will be a pre-emptive attack on your virginity, shock-and-awe, no warning, night vision and flash grenades and bodily fluids slinging everywhere. There will be casualties lost to the fog of war, probably your couch, destroyed, now to be dragged to the curb and burned because there can be no recovering from such a trauma.

You’re a lucky guy, you just don’t know it yet. You just gotta find that girl and dig her out of the rubble, see. She’s there with her hand sticking up, waiting for you to take hold.

- Saul

Your penis is thick trust look at it from the mirror point of view and you will see how much thick it is my friend anonymous