Premature Ejaculation

Has anybody here every tried using desensitizing lotions to cure this problem?

No, I edge and balloon, but I hear they work.

Check out a whole bunch of posts in the Men’s Sexual Health Forum on this subject.

yes…it is a crap…at least the things that you can but in sex shops. I bought medical cream called ‘Emla’(I live in Europe-do not now if you can buy it in US). This one works much better…but there is also problem with it. Penis gets very numb…you feel nothing which means that getting erection and maintaining it is more difficult :) I am sure it is still better than without cream but this is not what I wanted….in other words it can help but it is far from ‘golden solution’ we are all looking for.

A method which will probably help is to use genuine Chinese ‘tiger balm lotion’..

Tiger balm can be bought from Chinese herbal outlets and is available in two versions; a paste in small round tins and as a colourless liquid in tiny bottles. I have no experience of using the paste but the liquid when carefully applied is very effective in delaying orgasm. Tiger balm has many uses in chinese alternative therapies but is mostly used in the west for easing headache symptoms.

To use the tiger balm lotion you need to get a small paintbrush similar to those used for watercolours or painting small models etc.

Moisten the brush with the tiger balm lotion so that it is NOT too wet, just enough to brush lightly around the rim of the glans and also brush lightly onto the frenulum and underside of the shaft for about one and a half inches to cover the sensitive area which actually triggers climax. DON’T apply the tiger balm to any other areas, and DON’T splash it about either, especially near to the opening in the head of the penis or you will spend the next half hour jumping up and down in agony!

If you have applied the tiger balm effectively, the glans will have a ‘glowing’ sensation which is not unpleasant but will not affect the sensitivity in the other parts of the penis. You need to apply about ten minutes before intercourse or apply during early foreplay.

If non-circumsized, apply a little to the pulled back foreskin as this area is also very sensitive and will cause orgasm too.

I personally don’t have any problem with fast ejaculation but still use the tiger balm on occsision such as when I have not ejaculated for a long period or when something particualrly sexually exciting will be likley to result in over sensitivity etc.