I always had trouble with the refractory period, ever since I was a teenager I couldn’t manage to masturbate 3-5times a day like I heard other kids were doing. I remember doing this once and I wouldn’t have anything to ejaculate after 2-3 times(and my balls are very big, maybe huge), so I guess I’m a no horniness having, lame square loser, unfortunately. I have been edging with fleshlights(2 years on and off, 30years old now), my hands(edging properly since 2019 I guess, also on and off, a week or two might pass and I won’t edge/masturbate at all), metal rings on(2 years, this has been my go to thing and I have been consistent), I still can’t seem to improve my erection quality too much, all I can do is gain girth or length with lots of dedication. But if I try and ejaculate too much, I will lose my horninenss so much that PE and sex will be out of my mind and impossible to do. So that’s why I always try to abtsain from ejaculating for as long as possible, I only get scared after 10-14 days when I feel my balls are full, and I usually end the abstination period around that time. But since there isn’t any danger if done for longer, I will try and do it for longer. Btw, it only works for me if I do it often. If I only edge for 10 min and call it a day it won’t work, I will remain sexless for more than 7 days in a row if I don’t do something manually about it.
What can I say about all you other guys who don’t have a problem with this at all, you must be horny guys, good for you, either you’re very lucky or I’m very unlucky, or something in the middle. Anyway, posts like “masturbation doesn’t affect gains” come off as guys bragging about their libido/sex drive.
Originally Posted by Rahman810
It has already been established that if PIs are positive you will make gains regardless of sex frequency or masturbation.