Should I stop PE?

Always look at it this way. If you get to a point that it causes a problem just back off. Gains have to be cemented or loss will happen. It takes considerable time to cement and more than enough time for you to know if she is right for you.

Congratulations on a great sex life. The amazing thing about doing just jelquing and other basic PE exercises is that before long you will be able to maintain a very hard erection through the entire act of intercourse. That in itself is a good enough reason to continue PE.

As far as “talking” with a woman about whether the man should do male sexual health/PE exercises, well, that makes me chuckle a bit. My guess is that if you asked the question to women out of the blue you would get somewhere around a 90% “NO” from them.

Hey men, you will be sitting there with a limp 5” dick til hell freezes over if you talk to your women about PE’ing. I’m not saying that you can’t go overboard with PE, but you want a dick that will turn your woman’s pussy inside out and don’t let any heart to heart nonsense ever convince you otherwise.

I wouldn’t do anything man, you got everything you could want! If you really want to do some PE, just talk to her about it.

I’m late but focus on her cause your cock is huge. You should be lucky you can fit that huge piece of meat in.

Keep gaining, and if she starts to complain/show pain, then back off/stop there. Likely you’d drop a little bit and she’d stretch a little bit, so it shouldn’t be as if it were game over or anything.

I still can’t believe you want more girth though…

My opinion is, do what you want to do. I would have continued with my PE. When I started, I also did it in secret and didn’t do it very often. However it didn’t take long for my wife to catch me, and she actually didn’t mind much, so I continued. But soon after I became bored with PE and I didn’t see any immediate results so I stopped. My wife kept asking me every night if I was going to do my “thing” tonight, and basically started begging me to start doing it again. I might not have seen any difference in my size, but she was feeling it, and as a bonus, I was also lasting longer.

So that’s my short story. My advice, do what you want, because I’m loving my PE now, be open and honest and keep communicating, and women do actually like it bigger. Well mine does anyway.

Hope it helps. Cheers.

When she’s really aroused she gets really wet and have no problem handling my dick, even if I gave it to her hard.
But improper foreplay and she begs me to slow down, so I think that for now I should keep track of the gains and her reaction. I love to be able to fuck her hard, especially when she’s about to orgasm.
Lengthwise I’m hitting her deepspot, but I could use 0.25-0.5” more.

Foreplay is at least 30 min now before I penetrate her, and I usually giver her 2 clitorial orgasms and 4-5 g-spot orgasms by fingering. While I enjoy foreplay I’d love to fuck her right away, and this is another important reason why I’m thinking of not growing much more.

Ok, just my humble opinion.

I dunno man, 6.25” MSEG is thick as hell. And I see you get thicker as you move closer to your base. Holy cow, 7” base girth. And 6.5” between base and midshaft? Dude you are huge.

So I can understand why she needs at least 30 mins of foreplay.

You say you want to get deeper inside, so if I were in your shoes, I’d leave the girth alone and just focus on length. I wouldn’t get crazy with it, say 7.5 to 8”. Personally I got up to 7.5” and it was damn long. I lost a 1/4, working on getting it back, maybe going for 7.75”.

Ιf I needed 30 minutes of foreplay everytime I would shoot myself in the head! No offense, I have a bizzare sense of humor.

I totally get what Gyrta is saying. My wife had an ex about his girth a little shorter though who his idea of foreplay was <<Suck my dick bitch! >>.

Well……that didn’t go well.

Gyrta, you are a good man mate.

Thanks man, I appreciate your words.

My advice….don’t mess with a good fit. I married a size queen and am here mainly to gain enough to fill her completely. Women in general don’t crave more size when you’re already a good fit…especially when the sex is great. Peace out.

Update: 6 months later and I’ve been actively pumping to maintain my size. My length did increase to 7.4” during the start of the thread. What I’m observing is that even if my girlfriend is warmed up I may hit her cervix and have to go slow in the beggining. I think this may happening due to slightly rushed warmup.

So I’m pretty content with the choice to maintain rather than grow, we are a perfect fit and somtimes I actually hurt her.
I can always let it grow in the future.

I’m glad you got your answer Gyrta. Yes, you can always restart a growth routine in the future if you decide to.

Great update.

Something to keep in mind to is that women’s cervix angles and depth change based on positions and ovulation cycles. So there are times when you can easily cause her pain simply because her cervix is angled a certain way and very shallow.

More importantly though. It’s great to hear you’re still together. Treat her good :)