There’s nothing wrong with a little healthy skepticism. What we may be seeing here is what’s called debunking, as practiced by so called ” Skeptic Groups”. You come in with a predetermined conclusion, and indulge in whatever mental and statistical gymnastics to prove your point. They’re not actually looking to discover anything. They just want to reinforce the soundness of their reality box, both to themselves, and to others.
To paraphrase Thomas Kuhn ( The Structure of Scientific Revolutions ): “contrary to popular conception, typical scientists are not objective and independent thinkers. Rather, they are conservative individuals who accept what they have been taught and apply their knowledge to solving the problems that their theories dictate. Most are, in essence, puzzle-solvers who aim to discover what they already know in advance - “The man who is striving to solve a problem defined by existing knowledge and technique is not just looking around. He knows what he wants to achieve, and he designs his instruments and directs his thoughts accordingly.”
The word science comes from the Latin scire “to know”. And you can only know by doing, direct experience.
When you say you believe, or ” I think”, or “my opinion is”, what you’re saying is you don’t know. And not knowing creates doubt. And doubt can destroy you, thought by thought (“Am I big enough?, will she laugh?,
Etc?)
Actual scientists hypothesize, plan, study, then DO. Talk don’t cook the food.
Mr. 123’s writing style, and replies have the faint whiff of a debunking exercise. I could be wrong,and freely admit so. Or he could be one of those people so filled with doubts about everything, that he can do nothing
But talk about doing, think about doing, speculate about doing, but not actually DO anything. This, like much
In his posts, is speculation. I don’t know.
You want to know what I do know? I hung weights from my penis and gained 1/4” in length, and 1/16” girth in 2 months. It is not hypothesis, or statistical fallacies in a half baked study. It is a fact. I stopped for almost a month. It’s still there. Got bigger even ( anyone who’s worked out knows about post recovery growth. Get your rest days in). It is not “swelling”.
Thunder’s Place has always been a place to get cutting edge info on PE techniques, protocols, and safety.
It works for most people, but like some things in life, not for all for various reasons, including mental. If
You don’t believe it’ll work, and you keep reinforcing that thought, it can have a physiological effect ( see
” The Word As A Physiological And Therapeutic Factor: The Theory And Practice Of Psychotherapy According To I. P. Pavlov ” for examples).
Real scientists explore, do, and take risks to prove their theories ( ask Marie Curie).
Although most of us here aren’t scientists or doctors, we have proven, to our own satisfaction and through direct experience, though anecdotal, that PE works. The burden of proof to show otherwise lies with the talkers, fence-sitters, debunkers, doubters and other passives.
If you haven’t done it, you don’t know. You may believe, or have an opinion, which both mean the same thing. You don’t know.
I don’t know about the rest of you, but I’m done with all of this jibba jabba. I’m going to grow my dick.