Originally Posted by tntjockey
Maximillian2, be careful what you wish for. sunshine is telling it like it is. when I started PEing I was approx 6.8 BPEL x just under 5.0 EG. Had sex just about every night except on Friday and Saturdays since sex was our so called sleeping pill. After sex we were fast a sleep. Saturday and Sunday morning was and still is our love making sex. I also must state that my wife helped me on my PE exercise days. At 7.25 BPEL X 5.25 EG she asked me to stop because it was starting to hurt her, but I continued and she still supported me. At 7.5 BPEL X 5.5 EG she asked me to stop and I still continued and this is where I got a growth spurt and my gains came very quick. Within little over a year from the beginning I was up to and still 8.125 BPEL X 5.8 EG. I haven’t PE’d in over a year now and I have cemented. I didn’t do any PE management hoping to shrink in girth, but I did not.Now then, we don’t have sex as a sleeping pill every night because it hurts her and she gets sore. Even the next morning she is sore. She can handle the length, but not the girth and my wife is also petite. Blow jobs used to be great, but now I feel teeth and not only that, I don’t get deep throated any more because she can’t and I don’t like the teeth thing, by the way, a sharp tooth can make a hard dick go soft real quick. The blow jobs I receive from her are sucking about 2 inches below the glands and lots of licking because her jaws get sore. Yeah, bigger is not necessarily better. I do my best during sex, not to move to fast and not to move slow either. She gets a lot more foreplay to keep her lubed because when she starts to get sore, the natural lube stops. I have been told to buy a lube. Dah! we did all that shit only to find out her body reacts poorly to over the counter lubes and she ends up with yeast infections. My bigger dick slowed down our sex life and to tell you the truth, and I am not winning, but I wish I should have listened to her. I also must state that my bigger dick caused a lot of arguments because of, "Ouch, watch the teeth." or "Stop, it starting to get sore." "But I’m not there yet." You know, stuff like that. Listen to your partner and customize it for the both of you and not for your ego. Supersizeit had to stop because he had gotten to big for his wife. The only PE we do, and it is by habit is the piss pull and when we are talking in bed, she still pulls on my dick.
Read this, it is all documented when she asked me to stop and how I still continued. I have reached my goals
Originally Posted by tntjockey
"OH MY GOD!" That hurts. Go for some gains but do listen and hold off for a bit if things become uncomfortable for her. Once it becomes uncomfortable for her, I guaranty you it will become a very uncomfortable for both of you, and I mean your life will change, in other words, don’t go and fuck up a good thing. My wife used to have regular orgasms and now it is very rare because things get sore. I took a lot for granted like the orgasmic hugs and kisses, the bedroom sounds or what I call it, the bedroom music. I had paradise. I still do, but I made it more complicated.Now, at the same time, if anyone here wants to gain, I will help and guide, but you asked and sunshine PM’d me and I let you know what is going on in my life. I have been on PMing with all the Mod’s of what has gone on in my life experience with PEing so that they can throw my name out there for threads like these. I got my big dick, but I didn’t really get what I wanted had I listened. Oh! by the way, I have been married to the most beautiful woman for 27 years and what did I do to her why did I change a good thing? or at least stop when she asked. Hmmm!
For a lot of you guys who need advise on this from a woman, ask sunshinekid. She will tell you like it is. She is a straight shooter and she certainly got all over my ass about this. I learned a lot from her about size and what it means to a INDIVIDUAL WOMAN and not these stupid stats about what women like and prefer, because those stats have to be questioned. Who are the women being asked or who are answering the polls. Are they in the red light district, or are they answering BIG to make us guys feel inadequate, or just agreeing with the crowd. Let us not be stupid any more and feed off these stats/polls.
For the single guy, go for it, grow it. For you married or those in serious relationships, DO LISTEN and don’t fuck up a good thing.
One more thing, we guys are really shallow are we not? Why do we think we have to have big dicks. Why can’t we have good personalities with a normal dick? But we have good/bad personalities and want a big dick. A big dick does not change your persona. We guys can be stupid and not only believe, but actually let the whole world revolve around our dick. I say, use the head on top of your shoulders. Westla does not post about PEing to grow your dick, but to make it more healthier, stronger, harder and to be able to last longer. Basically, be a better lover and not a throb hammer. Enough said.
Use your head!
Yeah, thinks can change and grass is not always greener on the others side.