What are you willing to give up?

I would not be willing to sacrifice oral. There is nothing quite like the feeling you get when your dick is in another human being’s mouth. It’s sheer domination.

When my dick gets too big for one girl I just find another.

I don’t particularly enjoy anal sex, so that is not an issue for me.

I enjoy oral, but I cant cum from it. Mostly I just like it to get my dick nice and hard before fucking.

I still want 6+ EG. Even if she cant fit it all in her mouth, she can still lick it and all that, maybe just suck on the head a bit.

You make sound so easy. Good for you.

Dunno, depends on how you look at it, I guess — in a way a woman gets “dominated” by you when you go down on her. There is nothing she can do - you are going to get her off. Same way the other way around — you have to totally trust her when she takes your dick in you mouth — you are given her complete control over what happens.

No, I would not be willing to sacrifice oral, different positions etc. just to feed my male ego. I do PE to increase sexual pleasure for 1. me, 2. my girlfriend, and in a lesser degree to gain some solidified self-esteem on the particular point of my penis.

The idea of having to sacrifice parts of my sex-life to have a pornstarcock would hence work against my own pleasure.

Current final goal for my PE: 7 NBPELx5,5. That size would be enough to satisfy me by far. Then if she express a lust for some more size, I will take it from there.

If I would have to give up oral sex for much girth I’d do it. I am about 4.9” EG and I really would be able to “fill” a girl/woman more. Since I am quite satisfied with my length I’m concentrating on girth but I have only had some length gain (maybe just because of a harder erection, am doing PE for about 3 weeks). Everything I gain is welcome, but my goal is 5.5” (my dream is 6” ;) )

I’ll admit that the last two women I’ve been with have had kids, but they had absolutely no problem taking 6.5 inches of girth (not my normal size but I was still pumped from previous night clamping sessions). Both loved it as well by the way.

I don’t know if I’ve just been lucky with women or what, but my ex before these women could take 5.75 easily enough and would only get sore if we had sex a few times a day (she was pretty petite too).

Maybe for other people who are having trouble more foreplay is necessary. Maybe you need lube as well. The last woman I was with (one of the 30 year olds) needed lube to get it in comfortably, and sure without it it wouldn’t have worked. With the lube it was great though and she loved it. She told me I was the best she’d ever had. I’m not saying that’s all due to my cock… she mentioned I just fucked well, lol… but I think the size has something to do with it.

Also, none of these women had trouble giving oral to me. Maybe I don’t get deep throat, but they can definitely get their mouths over the head, and that feels good enough for me. I’m not convinced you have to give up oral at all until you’re pretty damn huge. Look at Shane Diesel. He still gets oral and he’s massive. Yes I realize these are porn stars doing the work, but it does show that they can at least get the head in their mouths. Oral doesn’t have to be constant sucking anyway. If her mouth is getting tired she can lick up your shaft… lick your balls… then go back to the head a bit. Definitely don’t see a problem with it.

Yes, I’d happily give up oral in order for my cock to be very thick.

I’d even give up anal, which I havn’t done experienced but once anyway.

No way! That’s why I don’t want more than 7” NBP.

Good view, I wanted to think that way, very mature and realistic view.

100% agree mick, but some girl hate to have jaw sore, and girls that suck shane monsters cock sure do have this problem.

I’d cut off a finger if it produced a situation that helped make her happier. So if she enjoys my bigger cock, and it makes her happier, I’ll gladly give up deep throating oral sex.

If we have to find new ways to have sex because of my gains, then great! Kind of like when we first started doing it, lots of fun experimenting.

You have to try all the angles, literally.

But if it always hurt her, then that would be something different entirely.

My goals are aligned with my perception of my wife’s pleasure.

She has shown a noticeable increase in “noticing” me when I’m naked. Increased desire is important to getting things started, but it also tells me that she likes what she sees.

The more she enjoys sex, the more I enjoy it and the more I get. That is a pretty easy feedback loop.

We primarily have vaginal intercourse and I’m sure she can handle more than I’ll ever be able to gain. I pay attention to all comments (like we all do; hyper-aware might be more accurate), so I’m confident that I will pick up on any negative feedback.

I don’t think she’ll ever truly enjoy full penetration anal sex, but I don’t see that as exceptional. We play around with that all the time and it is pleasurable to a point. I’m fine with that point.

Her ability to give oral sex does not seem to have diminished, but it isn’t a big part of our sex life.

In summary, until I see sex suffering or my wife unhappy or indifferent, I have plenty of confidence that I’m doing more good than harm.

I’m not too worried about accidentally putting on half an inch between now and the next time we have sex only to find out she doesn’t like it. Even if that happens, I’ve discovered that my early gains are tenuous enough to stop PE and watch them wither on the vine. :)

I would give up anal sex.

right on! If you had a real small dick and you wanted it bigger, but your partner didnt want it bigger, what would you do? Here’s the real question: Who are you making your dick bigger for?
And what if you stop PEing for her and years later you guys split up? Im gonna make myself happy by having a big unit, then find a girl that can fit it.