Jelqing after pumping
Hey guys, so Im looking for some advice. Ive been pumping for about a month now, things are going great. However, Ive heard a lot of talk about always being sure to jelq after a pumping session, but for some reason lately whenever I jelq (not even going hard) Ive been getting lots of those blood spots that lead to discoloration. I think this may be due to me going much to hard with the jelqing in the past without proper warm ups/down(before I was educated on the subject of proper PE). So now i think maybe im very susceptible to getting those red spots even when i do a proper warm up and dont jelq hard.
Do i just need more time to heal? Or should i just try to go super easy and build my way back up(if thats possible). Also, have you found it best to jelq after or before you pump. Thanks fellas. -Nick