Dsd's Progress Thread

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I spent the last year chasing high goals, while motivating, made me feel like I failed and wasn’t enough. Also, I have spent the most of this year obsessing about my size, which is why it’s important to love your body. Even though my insecurity is the result of my own mental health and not really my size. I would make sure I enjoy what I got and put it to more use and not just more PE. It’s ok being 5.5 NBP, even though my brain tries to trick me that it’s not.

I want to be appreciative and build habits instead of chasing lofty goals and being dissatisfied.
Porn and women feed into that insecurity and has consumed my thoughts. But I cannot base my self worth on what a girl thinks of me.

I know this is a progress thread but I treat it like a journal lol, it’s kind of therapeutic. Whatever goes on in my mind I kind of type it down.

I do have goals of doing PE better, with more devices, chemical PE: find out what works and be responsible, and just being more consistent.
I know the gains are going to be very slow next year so I don’t even want to measure anymore, just be consistent everyday and Progress in the intensity.

Well said Dsd! Good luck mate

Thanks, I’m “impressed” with your stats, how do you feel accomplishing your PE goals?

Dsdany you don’t know gains will be slow! You might even be surprised you get another growth spurt, nobody can know for sure. All I know is some guys penis grows in spurts that can be years apart. Mine grew between 20 and when I started pe years later I’m absolutely sure about it, and before that it hadn’t grown since 17. Same with keyboard he says he got growth after 20.

Great post!

Please don’t take offense but when you put out the picture with almost showing your face I thought that was kind of a sign of you maybe not caring for much at all, like what can happen with depression. I mean only one other dude does that here, and one other dude on MoS board apart from the well known dld! Your such a good dude and I hope you will never have depression because that sucks so much, keeping the focus on positive things like PE is so important, and keep balance like you say.

I know stuff like that can happen but I’m referring to my perspective and how I see things, to be honest I was happier when I was smaller. The closer I got to average the more I obsessed about it. So it’s just in my head. I know how many nights I stayed up, imagining the worst possible scenarios in my head and hating myself.

I have also seen another member good guy but had the same problem.

He was about 7 nbp but he wanted to quit sex till he got to 9nbp, and the fact people with 10 inches exist made him worriesome, not bashing him though I am giving and example because I relate to him.

Thanks, I hope my mindset changes for good and this time permanently. :)

Stay focused with the mentality you seem to have grabbed ahold of. Powerful and with it you will win.

Your already realizing how minimal and futile the result of stressing and breaking yourself down over your penis size really is, that’s awareness and that’s the most important start to becoming a better person.

Remember, one person will notice the thorns, while the other person notices the rose. Always see the rose in life. This isn’t just wise to do, it’s healthy and more fulfilling. Life will be filled with color and not black and white.

I could give you a huge list as to why you have a bunch of roses, but you sound smart enough and aware enough to be able to see them yourself. Be easy on yourself, appreciate yourself and love yourself, brother. Seriously.

One last thing, the moment you start doing PE out of passion and enjoyment, instead of stress and misery, the moment you just may start gaining more. Set the ruler down, stay consistent with PE, and put all that energy you have used for stressing and feeling “small” into something that will make you an even better man. Stay focused my man, even during the darkest days.

Thanks man, for the encouragement. It is much appreciated, I only fear I may go back to my old thinking habits. Even today I had so many negative thoughts about myself just automatically. I had to start saying positive affirmations and was really mindful of where my thoughts go.

Negative thoughts will happen. When they do, remind yourself that dwelling on them has no value.

So table them for a more appropriate time to map out your game plan to address or make your plan at that moment.

Just don’t dwell, no value.

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Good Luck Bro 😁😁😁

Thanks bro you too :)