Extreme PE and possible Schizophrenia

I’ve done a lot of research on the brain and the synapses of the brain, since I was 13, I looked at porn and I realized porn is a drug that replaces women in a relationship, if porn didn’t exist we would have real relationships or so I think. I have been using man1man oil for a week and I noticed how much porn is destroyed my life and I want to repair my penis before thinking about enlarging it. I am taking vitamins such as L-arginine and super B vitamins. What is my next step? What can I do? I noticed that I scarred and destroyed my penis tissue by constantly masturbating to porn without Lubricant. I am 21, is there hope? Could someone guide me?

My focuses: 1. Regain a proper erection, I had one erection today, I have no morning wood and my penis is got no feeling in it, I tried to discuss to a doctor about PIED but they didn’t understand.

2. Regain penis sensitivity, I am circumcised, but this isn’t the cause..

3. Enlarge my penis, I can’t achieve a hard on to even measure it, I feel sick to my stomach being told the truth about this horrible habit.

Hi ExcellentFrogge,

I can tell you that your first step is going to be to stop beating yourself up. Simple as that. The entire tone of your post is like you’re sitting at a desk waiting to have your hand hit with a ruler. While at the same time waiting to be told your penis cannot be saved, as though you were involved in some kind of fire or explosion that has heavily damaged your genitals.

There is nothing as grim as self-diagnosis. Seriously. You need to stop guessing what is “wrong” with you. The entire process only makes you feel worse. Literally, everything bothering you started and is inside of your head.

Have you seen any sort of doctor? If not, I’m not convinced there’s anything wrong with you but a poor attitude. Because the mind can make you feel any malady you imagine that you have. There’s a quote that appears on the ticker at the bottom of the pages on this website. It goes something like:

“I spent the day reading an encyclopedia of medical maladies. At the end of the day the only thing I was convinced I had not contracted with housemaid’s knee.”

Hypochondria is real. That may be your first and foremost issue. Because I flat-out refuse to guess, diagnose and say you have a problem when by any observation I’m able to make you probably do not have one.

There is always hope…but you must let it exist for it to be of any consequence.

Spoken like a true man. Nothing is as grim as self-diagnosis, I guess all this time, living in a bubble is tied to putting myself down. I have a good attitude towards progress now, but after reading nofap I understand this is called a flatline and it is possible that it could be 6 months until I have normal erections again. I told my doctor I have PIED and he told me my adderall should help with erections, a bad choice in lifestyle is the cause of my problems. Is it wise to start jelqing or penis pumping or stretching with such a problem? Through research, it seems I have got no natural stimulus, but this will change with time. Your reply is heart felt and I appreciate it. PIED = Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction, but as you said before, I’m sure I convinced myself with some sort of disorder when there really isn’t one.

Just takes some time moving determined into another direction away from old habits.

Pelvic floor balance first. Reverse kegels you might research.

Doesn’t sound like you have scar tissue which would mean Peyronie’s disease and bend unusually penis. Most probably your way of one dimensionally masturbation trained your system wrong, muscles, veins and blood flow needs some time to re train.

Hey EF,

As a man recovering from decades of sex addiction I agree with what’s been said and just add, typically there’s something at the root of why we abuse anything be it porn, food, sex, media, gambling or whatever. A good (addictions) counselor could probably help you identify some things that drive you to habitually use porn which is often some kind of pain and/or shame from your past. When all else failed, counseling (and joining a SA 12-step recovery group) helped because I finally realized in myself I could not whip this beast - I needed help outside myself to deal with what was inside myself.

If you don’t feel you’re ready for counseling, you still may want to check out a Sexahilics Anonymous group in your area (if you find it impossible to kick the porn habit and from what you related, I’m guessing you may be there?). Even if you’re not a full blown sex addict, it’s just really good to get in community with guys going thru similar struggles. Thing is, you can swear off the stuff but lust is an absolute master and can game the hell out of your mind so don’t beat yourself up when it does what it’s good at (however it CAN be beaten with diligent work).

A great tool we employ is to be really intentional about taking up some good habits to replace the negative one(s) and interacting with toxic people as little as possible (so you may need some new friends). Because the brain is wired to work best from a positive mindset, this will go a long way towards helping to fill the void porn leaves - stuff like working out, hiking, biking or taking up a hobby - things that get you out of your head and preferably get you with new, positive people and having new, positive experiences.

On the physical side (although it’s of course related to the mental) as you move away from porn, your body over time will return to more natural arousal/response patterns and no doubt with good nutrition & plenty of rest, I’d bet you’ll have a surprising amount of healing - the human body’s ability to heal is amazing especially at your age (and especially with a positive mindset).

There’s no advice anyone can give you that will help if you’re not yet ready to hear it so I’m not trying to tell you what to do, but I wish someone had told me about counseling and SA groups when I was your age before things got progressively worse and eventually out of hand. Bottom line: no matter how bad it is, there is always, ALWAYS hope - we often just can’t see it in the midst of a dark, cloudy cycle of negativity. Best of luck with kicking the porn habit and with a successful PE career my friend!

QL

ExcellentFrogge

I guess I join the self-diagnosis bandwagon too, and I may add that just because medical (in your specific case psychological) information is easily available on the web it does not make it trustworthy. There is a reason why psychologist study long years before they start to work with patients…

QuantumLeaps advice sounds good to me, having a group of people with similar problems could help. Porn addiction is, as every addiction, something serious and has to be treated with respect and in a careful way. No good place for self-experiments in my view.

As for penile exercises: the good news is that the penis is able to take quit a bit of maltreatment. So you don’t have to panic that you “destroyed” your dick by too much masturbation. Certainly the sensitivity has been modified, but a rigorous porn and fap detox will change it back to better.

Start with Kegel exercises as first step to PE, and maybe add some base Chakra massage (the part of the penis between testicles and anus) in order to ameliorate blood circulation. Don’t overdo it - maybe 3min of Kegel and 2min of chakra massage per day, increase 2x1min every 2 weeks to get to a maximum of 2x10minutes. And make 2 days on / 2 days off.

I speculate that within 2-3 months spontaneous night and morning wood will reappear as positive physiological indicators.

That will be the moment to start with a very slow newbie routine.

Just my 2 cents, as usual. No guarantee given, just speaking out of personal experience.

Richard65

I just want to help. I’ve seen good guys hurt themselves, medicate themselves and suffer…because of how they thought they were. It is worse than any disorder because the mind can facsimile *every* disorder.

Schizophrenia is a made up label to diagnose people who have a unique perspective or try to accomplish something few people think about. It’s basically a we don’t like you your a poopyface card. Remember over 50 percent of “schizophrenic” people don’t agree with the diagnosis. There is no consensus on what defines a person schizophrenic physically. It’s a way for small minded judgmental people to label you and say they don’t like you without having the balls or courage to come out and challenge you because they’re afraid of you.

There’s a series of schizophrenia diagnoses that are characterized physically by brain chemical imbalances that various medications helps to treat. There is no consensus because there are over a dozen types of schizophrenia and they are on a spectrum of severity much like autism. In my line of work, treating them as though they are “just different” is a good way to get hurt, because many times they have broken from reality and this requires a certain level of respect and a certain approach to stay safe and keep the person in question safe. But, I digress.

Define schizophrenia.

I agree they are defined that way because they are dangerous and people are afraid of them as they should rightly be. Schizophrenia basically means dangerous person who I’m not comfortable with. It’s not the tigers fault he’s a tiger.

Basically don’t blame yourself for other people saying you have schizophrenia or “are weird” if they can’t adapt or understand you it’s their problem, they won’t reap the reward of being your ally because they’re scared. It’s a form of bullying really but they can’t do it the real way so the get a man in a white coat to say a made up word and put you on tranquilizers so they can sleep at night cause “oh no he might do something. We’re so scared.”

If it’s a brain chemical imbalance, just say brain chemical imbalance. Don’t attach a made up word that means nothing. And define brain chemical imbalance. Not so easy.

Oh my god, tiger is a tiger. You are my match, it is a brain imbalance, and a unique view on life, Life is a jungle, I have a chemical imbalance, and when I look at porn, it triggers my dopamine and it doesn’t allow me to be naturally turned on by women, but as soon as I’m off the computer, I notice real women and I’m having natural erections. Man one man oil is helped me allot, Should I consider a supplement?

Even my doctor said I was depressed, I’m not schizophrenic, and thank you for the bullying aspect, Tiger, have you ever listened to flatbush zombies or underachievers?

Yes, I do not have the peyronies disease, I am going to excersise reverse kegals, kegals and a base charka massage while using man1manoil on the daily, I had a real erection today and as soon as I got it, No more porn ADDCITION, I am out of this HOLE! Natural arrousal patterns is right, I will update as I go throughout this week