Hello Gentlepsychopath, thanks so much for getting back.
Originally Posted by Gentlepsychopath
Hey srep. Thanks for asking. I am of course still on it, but my schedule during the summer was not structured. Some days I stretch and others I don’t, something like 3on/3off. I am not in a hurry for gains because I am pretty big at this point since when I started. I am very close to 8.1 BPEL and my NBPEL is now 7.6 inches.
Glad to hear you still on it and you are still gaining! Please keep going.
Originally Posted by Gentlepsychopath
You don’t have to measure very often, but even when you measure you should have a clear mind and not get discouraged. If you are consistent you will grow, your penis will be bigger than it was before. That’s enough, don’t get mad about a specific number or timeline.
Thanks for the advice. Like you have said in this thread, consistency is the key.
Recently I realized that my measurements are a bit skewed because I position the ruler horizontally to the floor, instead of vertically. When I put it vertically, the measurement is easily 0.5 cm smaller. It may sound like nothing, but since we are looking for gradual millimeter gains, it means that even the way you hold the ruler can produce false measurements. The good thing in my case is that I have always kept it horizontal, so yes, my gains last year where existent (not sure if they are still there).
Originally Posted by Gentlepsychopath
Focus on basic stretching and like you said slowly add the side fulcrum stretching. You already have gained so you know how to do it right.
Thanks for the advice. Yes, at the moment I am doing 5 minutes heating with IR lamp (by the way, IR lamp is a very convenient and discreet way to heat) and then
- 10 minutes V Grip downward stretch (left and right hand)
- 10 minutes V Grip side fulcrum stretch (left and right hand)
- 10 minutes V Grip downward stretch ((left and right hand))
And this is how I do the side fulcrum stretch (photo linked from Marin-era’s thread).
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I still need to revise Mariner’a thread where he also gives advice for the fulcrum size and several techniques. For now I use a small but thick glass water bottle as a fulcrum. I also try not to put too much force when I fulcrum.
Does that sound right? From your thread, I know that you are in favor of A stretches using your non-grip hand as a fulcrum.
Originally Posted by Gentlepsychopath
About the kegels, I don’t follow a specific routine. The most important factor I think is to focus on the quality of each contraction. First focus on the intensity of the contraction and then on the duration. I don’t even count, I just do them throughout the day but I do them right. When you kegel try to visualise an upward movement, like you are trying to move your balls up with the kegel. This is a speculation but I think its helpful because it makes it easier to target the IC muscle better. The biggest benefits from kegels are not PE related. They are definitely sex performance related. As the muscles grow the contractions are way stronger and you can force more blood to your penis. This means faster erections.
Also I have find that you can literally fuck for hours if your muscles are developed. I can keep an erection for a very long time like its nothing.
Another important thing is that kegels give overall longevity because you can control the muscles better. The crazy part is that when I am very close to ejaculate I stop the stimulation completely and I kegel hard. If the timing is right, nothing is coming out, my erection only drops a little and I can keep going.
Thanks for explanation.
I think I am very early to all this kegel thing. I am trying to do 5 minutes 1-2 seconds kegels and then another 5 minutes with up to 5 seconds kegels.
I have a question if you do not mind: I had read a resource (which I cannot reference right now) saying that when kegeling you should not move the anus, but only the muscle that moves the penis. It was saying that if you move the anus at the same time then it means that you are doing Kegels wrong, because you have to isolate the muscle that moves only the penis. Does this make sense?
Thanks and best of luck.